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Nov 5, 2005 @ 3:57 AM Do older women like younger men?    
cgriss


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I was wondering if women of the age of 35 or older find men desirable of the age of 18-25? I have heard many opinions, and am assuming that women of an older age seek someone older for the mental perpesctive. But if you were seeking something such as a one night stand, would you still desire the same person? Or if the younger male was more mature for his age would he be acceptable as well. Also is there any older women that simply like younger men, because I hardly see any women on this site that seek men out of their own age range?
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 7:21 AM Do older women like younger men?    
Danger


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speaking for myself, i like someone that is close to my age. we seem to have more in common with one another. but...just to have 'sex'-that isn't what i am looking for so i would never do that, but i have 'friends' that are younger-just never would be involved with them.

geeeee, but the guy i am 'seeing' right now is 5 years younger then i am... ok so i am a woman and can change my mind at a drop of a hat...
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 9:14 AM Do older women like younger men?    
d_julz


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If I were out for a "one-night-stand" I think it would be an enormous ego boost to be with a younger guy. I would definitely say in that situation I would give younger a chance!!
In terms of a full relationship, I think it would have to be someone closer to my age. But who knows we might be surprised and the younger guy might bring out a younger "us"!
Did any of this make sense!?!?!
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 9:51 AM Do older women like younger men?    
lecriveuse


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my estranged husband is 20 years younger than i am (nothing 2 do with age -- has to do w/lazy n triflin) . before him , i dated guys that were max 20 yrs older than me. i like interacting with younger men because they're very flexible about their masculinity; i.e., they don't need a woman as a measure of their masculinity.

people my own age r just boring, n i just dont have much in common with older guys after the niceties. i remember in one relationship where i liked talking to the older guy about pop culture, cos i preferred the music, clothes, etc. so, older guys r great friends for me. i'm not marrying again; however, when i start dating again, maybe i'll choose a smaller age gap.


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Nov 5, 2005 @ 11:12 AM Do older women like younger men?    
wabbit


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keep it i nthe neighborhood is best
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 2:27 PM Do older women like younger men?    
Scooterkist


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For one, I don't do the one nighters. It's pretty sad to feel that lonely that you have to go get some, just to pretend someone cares for you for 10 minutes.

As far as younger vs. my age.... I'm with Soul here. My kids would have a coronary. Besides, what fun is every 15 minutes for 3 minutes, when you can have every 8 hours for 2 hours !
Gimme a man <5> my age anyday !!!

Scooterkist
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 4:31 PM Do older women like younger men?    
misskitty56


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Hi..well, from an older womans point of view..I'm 49, so I guess that qualifies me...Younger men area usually immature..they havent had the lifes experiences that older women have. And,just cois theyre younger,doesnt mean that theyre that much better in the sack. A lot of older women look for younger guys just for that,just like younger women go for the older rich guys. On the other hand, older guys..50 and over..are pretty good in the sack, but have..issues..but they are tender lovers that want the women satisfied,instead of themselves first. Thats just my opinion
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 7:43 PM Do older women like younger men?    
t_h_e_b_r_a_t


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Amen to Soul and Scooter. I agree with both their points. Especially "For one, I don't do the one nighters. It's pretty sad to feel that lonely that you have to go get some, just to pretend someone cares for you for 10 minutes."
This old lady wishes that every little boy would read this, and then learn that they should respect what a woman puts as her preferences on her profile, and then not argue with when they've ignore that and she tries to blow them off. I start out gently with these children, but some have to be shredded before they get it through their heads.
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 8:16 PM Do older women like younger men?    
buni


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I will date a younger man if he is mature enough. Not into one night stands either.
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 8:38 PM Do older women like younger men?    
me3me6


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I had a 1 1/2 year relationship with a man that was 16 years younger than me.....he was great!...very sexy..responsable....we split because...he was ready to be married and wanted kids ...and I didn't......but he was a very nice young guy!!!
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Nov 5, 2005 @ 9:23 PM Do older women like younger men?    
slkstockings_1


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Unfortunately we are so intune to "age" but it actually depends on the individuals.... Now I'm "older and I've had younger guys hit on me..but I've not dated any younger than 44, but I might consider it if the guy is mature and we have something in common. I think age is a state of mind - old or young - and people should be aware of the difference and not get too radical, but sometimes they can be good expereinces. There's not one older woman out there that wants to go to dinner with a really young guy and have the restaurant staff think, "how cute, he's having dinner with his mom".....!
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 3:46 AM Do older women like younger men?    
cgriss


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Ok, for one I really enjoy the fact that many of these women first state that they would never do a one night stand, and mention the immaturity of the individual. The question of a one night stand was theoretical with the purpose of making you see your own opinion from an angle in which you reconsider your thoughts! To me you are more immature, even for your age, to realize this. Your not being open minded at all, nor considering the possibilities of if you were to particpate in a "one night stand." I have been with women from the age of 34-45, and am 20 y.o. I appreciate those who responded with a more informational answer, because I was wondering if these women may have slept with me for the simple fact of a "confident booster." But is it wrong for me to like older women. I simply like older women because they more attentive to a man's needs. They seem more caring, aware of life, and yet show that they are their own person.
Thankyou for all of your responses, I have came to the conclusion that most older women are more immature than this 20 y.o. individual!
Thankyou d julz, slkstockings, and misskitty for actually realizing the question and answering with a professional resopnse!
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:05 AM Do older women like younger men?    
Orphes1


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Well,I am 61, have been with so many women that it makes my head spin, and I will give you the truth about it all;

I'm not one of the girls, so I can say for sure (without fibbing) that women online who are older than me like to flirt on here, but it's all a bunch of smoke and no fire. In real life, the ones from late 30's to late 40's are the ones who steal glances and turn around to give me a second look. Mostly, it's the early 40's who actually go out of their way to talk with me. Women older than me feel too insecure and have told me so, too. About 90% of the older ones avoid me like the plague.

My last "Honey" is now 35. The two before that are ages 46 and 47, and my ex-wife is now 48.

You do the math, I dan't have to, I already did.

Larry
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 10:30 AM Do older women like younger men?    
BlondeInAThong


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You go girl! You took the words right out of my mouth! Older men, 50 years old have been dating 18 year old females for generations, and it has socially been acceptable. Therefore, older females should be able to do as they please whether it be an older man or a younger man. Besides that, AGE IS BUT A NUMBER, and loves crosses over all barriers if it is truly meant to be!
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 11:00 AM Do older women like younger men?    
Snappygoddess


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I have been single for 3 years and in that time have dated men of all ages.. the youngest being 25..the oldest 60. It has little to do with age..more to do with the mans personality and the connection between us. I found younger men (30 or below) to be immature and often times too needy, where as older men tend to want to get serious to fast... that's just my scoop on things.
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 1:20 PM Do older women like younger men?    
medusa642


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Age is a state of mind. I think it all comes down to compatability. You have to be compatable in social settings, as well as physical relations, and interests.
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 1:51 PM Do older women like younger men?    
summersquall


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It's no secret that most women mature at a younger age than men do. Seeing an older man with a younger woman is not as uncommon as seeing an older woman with a younger man as a result of the differences in maturity levels.

I don't see a thing wrong with either scenario providing both people are happy with their choices.
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 2:11 PM Do older women like younger men?    
Danger


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lecriveuse said: Bmy estranged husband is 20 years younger than i am (nothing 2 do with age -- has to do w/lazy n triflin) . before him , i dated guys that were max 20 yrs older than me. i like interacting with younger men because they're very flexible about their masculinity; i.e., they don't need a woman as a measure of their masculinity.

people my own age r just boring, n i just dont have much in common with older guys after the niceties. i remember in one relationship where i liked talking to the older guy about pop culture, cos i preferred the music, clothes, etc. so, older guys r great friends for me. i'm not marrying again; however, when i start dating again, maybe i'll choose a smaller age gap.B

holy cow, i had to check your profile out cause you didn't look old enough to have an 'ex' 20 years younger!
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 6:06 PM Do older women like younger men?    
bluevelvet759


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Gotta tell ya, younger guys have always done it for me! You don't have to stroke their egos like most older men want you to do. They love sex and are much more adventurous. I don't NEED a younger man to make me feel sexy, I think every woman has a sexiness about her that can be brought out by the right person (male or female). My husband is 9 years younger than me, he's not looking for a mother figure, and I'm not trying to regain my youth, it just works for us, we've been together for 8 years now. So, I hope I didn't offend anyone with the ego stroking comment, it's just the way I've always found it to be. I've always enjoyed the company of men, younger or older.
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Nov 6, 2005 @ 6:53 PM Do older women like younger men?    
mojoman5000


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me likes older women, just as long as they aint grandma old
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