| Apr 28, 2007 @ 2:46 PM |
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nogamesplease198
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After a year on here, I am fed up with the caliber of men i meet on here. They either want a booty call or just lead you on then nothing. They just want to talk sex withut even meeting you...No wonder so many men are divorced, they don't know how to love a woman. If they did, there wouldnt be so many cold fish in bed.
Guys ever wonder why women love sex when they first meet you and get married? Is no accident...back then you were trying to please her, now you just want to get yourself off...tis sad.
I guess I must be a loser too because I don't want to do the bar scene, that's even worse than a free match making site..
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| Apr 28, 2007 @ 9:46 PM |
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jimb57
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i dont think im a looser
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 2:35 PM |
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SassyBeMe
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Here here NoGames ,I totally understand where you are coming from . I must have a loser magnet attached to me because that seems to be what I am attracting . It gets real discouraging sometimes . I look at it this way , I am pretty content with my life most of the time , and I believe one day the right one will come along . I just didn't think I would have to "kiss so many toads" in order to find a prince . LOL
For awhile I thought perhaps my expectations might be too much, but in reality , I tend to overlook a lot and I found myself dating guys that I normally wouldn't date, out of loneliness .
One thing I have noticed is when you meet people in person after chatting online and on the phone for a bit , they are nothing like they claimed to be . I am exactly the same way in person as I am online and on the phone . I am a straight forward open kind of person and I want that out of the person I date . Why say you are something that you are not ? I don't get that because evenually it will catch up with you .
Sorry got sidetracked but its just one of those days .
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 4:29 PM |
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Humble_Dude
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hey hey hey now don't just place that on the guys I have met my share of scandalous woman. I have never cheated on anyone yet 2\3rds of the woman i have gone out with cheated on me. one of them lied every five seconds when I tell you something its because thats exactly what I think happened, now i word that that way because I am not perfect I to can be deceived by my sense my memory isn't perfect. so I am wrong from time to time. have you ever thought that the cold fish is due to woman mistreating men wrong in the first place. a man can bust his balls trying to satisfy a womans desires and no im not talking about sex and all she is doing the hole time is using him. or other cases where the guy goes out of his way all the time and gets put in the friend zone that means no f***ing pussy ever no matter what. and no we don't expect sex just for doing things for you but it would be appreciated from at least time to time. how many woman try to keep a mans dick in a jar simply cause it amuses her and she is f***ing some other dude. woman tend to go for assholes for some unknown reason to the rest of us men who are kind and gentle and honest and yes humble so when some of the nice ones treat you like shit its because of basic economics supply and demand you demand assholes so you get assholes I not saying its all womans faults its a human thing when we start treating others properly this shit will stop. also it has been my experience and maybe im wrong but woman seam to fly off the handle if you so much as say the wrong thing personally in done walking on nails.
[Edited on 4/29/2007 4:35 PM]
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| Jun 24, 2007 @ 2:59 AM |
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AxmKap13
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It goes both ways. I felt like I was used by one girl in particular who just wanted someone to hang out with and pay for the dates while she was on break (she's a teacher). As soon as her semester started, I was pretty much out of the picture and that burned me up.
Trust me there are MANY women on dating sites that can't be taken seriously. Unfortunately, its these types of men you mentioned that make it harder on the good guys because some of us will say that we never would get responses to the emails we send the girls.... and that gets frustrating after a while.
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| Jun 24, 2007 @ 10:25 PM |
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photoman550
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maybe if you goto to a good pay site it gets and sorts out whos who,,,,there is some nice people out there sorry that you feel that way but remember this..."You can search the entire universe for someone more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, but that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, more than anyone in the universe, deserve your own love and affection."
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| Jun 25, 2007 @ 6:37 PM |
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AxmKap13
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Spending more on a dating site... like E-Harmony doesn't net better results necessarily. I know a couple girls who have crazy stories to tell from that site
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| Jun 25, 2007 @ 7:34 PM |
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glevelius
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Have to agree on eHarmony. That site is the biggest waste of money out there. The matches I get there aren't even close to those I'd normally chose and they won't let unpaid members respond, so ya takes yer chances if ya attempt to respond to a profile. Now, MatchDoctor on the other had... well, let's just say it's the greatest thing since sliced bread 
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| Jul 4, 2007 @ 2:14 AM |
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buckeye1963
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I would hope that I am not a loser, but the track record over the last few years may reflect otherwise.
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| Jul 6, 2007 @ 1:20 AM |
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jaquio1
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All men aren't like this..I know I'm not.
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| Jul 7, 2007 @ 9:42 PM |
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BBWLIONESS
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I agree E-Harmony and chemistry.com are a big waste of money, because there are alot of the same people on those as on here. No matter where you go there are going to be Losers.
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| Jul 8, 2007 @ 10:35 PM |
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sthrnbygrace
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LMAO, thats been my train of thought as of late, I even deleted my profile from here and started another one, and god help me if I decide to stay I might finish it. St is the caliber of women that I meet that has me distraught. I am wondering if it is just the area in which I am looking. Since moving here to this comunist state I have noticed that the women here seem to be cold and withdrawn just like one would be the day after a breakup.
Its not that I dont know how to treat one either. I know and fully understand as well as enjoy making love to a woman everyday whether or not there is any sex involved. There is a way to treat a LADY and these days it seems that women dont even know that a man is supposed to treat them in that manner.
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| Jul 9, 2007 @ 10:45 AM |
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freeagent811
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You are not a loser!! I get the same thing. !!! Don't feel badly. I don't particularly care for the bar scene , either!!
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| Jul 24, 2007 @ 2:06 PM |
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YoungstownSassee
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Nah don't think people who come online are losers. I don't care for the bar scene either ... but pretty much the same sh*t on here. Only difference on here is people don't look into your eyes when they lie to you! 
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| Jul 24, 2007 @ 4:38 PM |
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freeagent811
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I am not a loser.. I have the same wants and desires as anyone else on these dating sites!! It is quite unfortunate there has to be idiots who like to play games.
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| Aug 4, 2007 @ 8:13 PM |
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Gimmesumluvn
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..."You can search the entire universe for someone more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, but that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, more than anyone in the universe, deserve your own love and affection."
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| Aug 5, 2007 @ 10:31 AM |
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mrblac51
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I'm no loser. Unfortunately I'm neither rich, old, nor muscular, so I usually get the short end of the stick when it comes to women and relationships.
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| Aug 5, 2007 @ 9:24 PM |
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lonelyheart3570
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Spending more on a dating site... like E-Harmony doesn't net better results necessarily. I know a couple girls who have crazy stories to tell from that site
Believe me i was a non-paying memebr on E harmony and then saw all the matches and thought i would give it a try for a few months....it was the biggest waste of money ever! It didnt net any better results than a non-pay site. Just because you pay money for a dating site doesnt necessarily mean you will get better matches or meet a better quality of people. Believe me i have a couple crazy stories to tell from that site myself!!
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| Aug 9, 2007 @ 9:46 PM |
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cricket747
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I don't believe that all are losers. I tend to wonder what it is about me that attracts that type and what am I missing as clues. I am praying I figure it out so I can attract one of the good guys. I think this is a great site, even for just making friends. 
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| Aug 10, 2007 @ 8:36 AM |
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fallenangel_45304
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I agree with cricket about all not being losers. I think finding the right one for everyone just takes time, and I know from experience that sometimes it doesn't happen when we want it to. It's taken me years to find someone, and I have found a wonderful and sweet man, who i care alot about.
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