| Oct 31, 2007 @ 6:01 PM |
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ArtsyChick13618
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i know, obviously everyone on this site has been through ups and downs. I hate to admit this, but i have been on here for about 6 years. Yes i've taken time off here and there because of meeting different people and such, but i mean i wanted to be serious with someone by now. Maybe i am looking in the wrong places, maybe i am too picky, maybe i am settling....but for some people it just seems so easy.
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| Oct 31, 2007 @ 9:22 PM |
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outdoorguy54
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Yes, I do believe it takes time and some luck to connect with the right person. Being too picky isn't a good thing; I'm guilty!
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| Nov 12, 2007 @ 12:03 PM |
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Jackbauer98122
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Same here i have put 3 diffrent pictures up and still no luck so i was like maybe i,ll have better luck with out a pic.
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| Nov 13, 2007 @ 7:19 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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It is hard girl.
Believe me, i know it.
All the things that we are made to believe will "help" us find love arent really helping. Looks, good job, being a good person etc.
People just arent as serious about finding love now a days i think.
But, they never think of the long term outcome.... dying alone doesnt sound like much fun, but at what point in your life will it become impossible to find someone?
It's really a shame.
Youre not alone!
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| Mar 23 @ 10:33 AM |
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mindcandi
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I keep wondering the same thing... there's so many people out there, and when you read the profiles, they are looking for the same things you are. You have similar/same interests and hobbies, there's some different things that would make life interesting. But then, it always seems to boil down to a person not looking right, or what the person says they are looking for isn't really what they mean. Or they live in Australia.
Sometimes I wonder if because we're older now and experienced more at life, that we have also become too picky, less forgiving of human flaws. We don't want a repeat performance of what us miserable for years.
I find this really, really hard and I keep wanting to give up, but there's something inside me that doesn't want to give up hope. The hope that I will find love and love will find me.
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| Mar 26 @ 8:43 AM |
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Bekeka
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Pfft, Ive been on here for nearly ten years and Ive only actually met one person I met here. And he was a complete tool. Its not you. Its them =)
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| Mar 26 @ 4:56 PM |
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kjac
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Artsy probably doesn't remember me, because we only spoke briefly. And I think it was under my last profile, before I left MD for a while.
As was the case that time, sometimes the other party just isn't interested. But the site does work. I've made some fantastic friends and met a few people. Granted none of them worked out obviously, but it isn't always a matter of you or them. Sometimes it just isn't there.
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| Apr 1 @ 3:23 AM |
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j_goose
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Artsy probably doesn't remember me, because we only spoke briefly. And I think it was under my last profile, before I left MD for a while.
As was the case that time, sometimes the other party just isn't interested. But the site does work. I've made some fantastic friends and met a few people. Granted none of them worked out obviously, but it isn't always a matter of you or them. Sometimes it just isn't there
I've found tht most of these sites promote a fantasy. Online. But when it comes down to an actual meet, the person comes up with an excuse not to. The separation was part of the romance, and once that's gone, the excitement isn't there anymore.
I just went through that on another site. All the love letters back and forth, the IM conversations and phone calls. I few "I might be falling for you's". But when it was time to meet, she said it didn't feel right. And she told me this AFTER I had planned out the trip to Austrailia and bought tickets. (Luckily refundable)
It took a friend from this site to point that out to me. I was seriously blinded. To me, that is a borderline scam.
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