| Nov 1, 2007 @ 1:45 PM |
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Jackbauer98122
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I dont know what i am doing wrong i have a job i have a car i also know how to treat a lady i dont cheat and i still here well you are still to young so because that i am 29 i cant do the same things that an older guy can do how older guys have done at least 6 years of college or kept a stable relationship or even kept a stable job n e ways if you want a guy who is going to use you and cheat on you thats fine with me just dont use the age thing on me age is nothing but a number.
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| Nov 2, 2007 @ 8:36 AM |
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prettyprncess560
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Hang in there sweetheart.. You will meet a girl you just gotta not want it so bad and be patient.. I think when you want something too much it doesn't happen but when you sit back and take a look at things it will come to you when you least expect it 
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| Nov 2, 2007 @ 11:25 AM |
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Jackbauer98122
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Yeah i know it takes time relationships come and go like rain you just dont know there is know point of getting all hype up when yeah you might have a good couple of months maybe even a year if your lucky again it comes and go's like rain i guess i am tired of waiting i have been waiting for a while not like a couple of weeks or months more like years good lord i,ll be 30 next year and i am not getting any younger yeah know its time who hasnt heard that a million times not to be a smart ass but people just dont know what they want now a days and i do i am not saying that them people are wrong or anything like that n e ways there are plenty of fish in sea i just half to find the right one which i hope dosnt take me forever to do.
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| Nov 3, 2007 @ 4:40 PM |
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mrblac51
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I know how you feel. I'm 26 years old, and It's been 2 years since I've had a serious relationship. My last GF left me for her ex husband who cheated on her, and the relationship before that I lost out to her alcoholic ex boyfriend. The problem is that most girls (around here at least) confuse kindness with weakness and don't know how to appreciate men who do good things for them. They get this idea that men who are caring and sensitive have no backbone, and the jock who argues with them, hits them, and cheats on them is their idea of a real man. Also many of them only look for good looks and lots of money. Hey, as long as he has a big bankroll, then who cares how many times he lands her in the hospital. If we're good for anything at all, it's to listen to them whine for hours about how bad their man treats them, yet they refuse to leave him.
In a way though, we can't be mad at the A$$holes, because they are simply doing what we should have done; take advantage of her, abuse her, and then get cut her off when we're through with her. We'd end up a lot better off. It's like we spend money getting them nice things, listen to their problems, and bend over backwards to please them when all we have to do to keep them is get drunk, beat them up, verbally abuse them, and generally treat them like dirt (not that I ever would of course, and this is why I'll prolly be single for the rest of my life.). Well ladies, if you're wondering what happened to all the nice guys, this is your answer.
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| Nov 5, 2007 @ 1:20 PM |
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Jackbauer98122
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Man MrBlac51 you are so right i could have not have said that any better the girls around here like you said would rather have a guy cheat and beat on them than rather take a weaker guy i guess god thats so lame women always think they know what they want but they are blind what is in front of them that is there down fall right there but again you are so right about every thing you said i wish women would just see that.
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 7:30 PM |
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wysn
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 Women? HMMM, not ALL of us are like that. I wish I could find one in my area that ISN'T like those men. Geez, all I ask from a man is respect. The other stuff, humor, attitude, trust and everything else comes after respect. I don't give a rat's behind what they look like (as long as they are clean). I don't care if they half a mouth of teeth, breath goes beyond teeth, hair or no hair? who cares? beard? who cares if there's one or not? Short, tall, thin, stocky, who cares? I just want RESPECT.
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| Nov 7, 2007 @ 12:30 PM |
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Jackbauer98122
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I never said all women where like that just the ones around here at least just dont come nagging to me about your how guys are jerks when you choose over them over the nice guys.
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| Mar 1 @ 10:06 AM |
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love4u1959
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you know as nice guy that i am and try to please and say the right things I always finish last or get dumped before it is even started so what is sooo wrong with being a nice guy with everything going for him and kindness and being romantic like they always say nice guys do finish last what is a nice guy suppose to do ,??   
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| Mar 2 @ 7:53 AM |
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JenRNinOhio
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What's a nice guy to do?
Have patience.
I know ... blah blah blah.
IMO, Today's multi-media, in your face, instantaneous gratification, sense of entitlement ... Too many women & men are of the opinion that they desire it all.
They (men & women) watch reality TV, MTV videos, see the online ads, etc ... And start feeling that they are entitled to have the nice person who is also wealthy, beautiful, buff, smart, funny, well read ... Let's See .. What else? Everything?
Still IMO ... It takes a great deal of maturity & often some experience to finally know what is really right for you ..... Maybe it also takes some psychological counselling .. For those who keep returning to the same scenario. Hooking up with that Bad Guy/Bad Girl for ???? I don't know ... excitement?
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| Mar 2 @ 10:40 PM |
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EagleEric
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If you're a nice guy, then for sure women don't want you. Women want a partner in life. A confident man who isn't afraid to go after what he wants. With all your emotional problems, they'll have to play the role of therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist. Also, there's a difference between being nice and being stupid. You sound like the latter.
Finally, women aren't looking for a guy who is flawless, perfect, or as you put it "nice". They realize that men and women are human and make mistakes. When you start living your life, if that ever happens, you'll understand that.
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| Mar 3 @ 6:56 AM |
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gabbynats
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nice guys do not always finish last.. i too have been looking for a nice guy and have not yet found him.. i only been finding fake ppl.. no one that seem to be serouis of what they want.. so hang in there my peeps.. 
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| Mar 3 @ 4:07 PM |
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Skineyb
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i think the most annoying thing for us nice guys is when women start complaining around us, "there are no gentlemen left, there all married" or "why are all men assholes?" were right here. all you have to do is look for the guy who doesn't quite fit in and you have probably found one.
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| Mar 6 @ 2:48 PM |
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gabbynats
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have to say thats true skinnyb..
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| Mar 14 @ 9:46 PM |
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Skineyb
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It's true nice guys do finish last, but remember this we DO finish. Let the assholes finish before us they can have all the rhinestones, we get the diamonds!
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| Mar 20 @ 3:15 PM |
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Sparkler26
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Nice girls finish last too... 
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| Mar 25 @ 8:38 AM |
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gabbynats
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yes they do i beleive that very much..
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| Mar 29 @ 8:58 PM |
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cincinnati1974
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The only problem with all of this is that when the woman comes to there senses and finds the "nice guy" they have all of the baggage from the bad guys with them.
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| Mar 30 @ 10:04 PM |
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Skineyb
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that which dose not kill us only makes us stronger.
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| Apr 1 @ 10:35 AM |
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cricket747
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I don't believe that is true. When I am feeling a bit down and lonely, I may believe it more. Never give up and don't settle for less than what you deserve!! I am not, even if it means being lonely or alone. But I TRUELY believe there is someone for everyone and it just takes time to find that person.
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| May 26 @ 4:07 AM |
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kjac
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Yup, they do. And no amount of patience changes that. Women say they want one thing, yet keep running back to another.
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