| Apr 13, 2006 @ 12:01 AM |
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SweetWoman744
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I have been on dating sites a while now an can you tell me where all the real men are? It seems now days us bigger gals dont have any chance in finding a good man.. All men now days seem to want a pretty little thing..An then you get winks from a guy in another country or state.. Or sometimes ones young enough to be your son.. Another thing getting emails from someone you have nothing in common with.. Come on people lets get it together.. An men dont judge us bigger gals,we all got a lot of love to give.. So gives us a chance..
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 6:50 AM |
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Flame596
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Morning everyone, newbie here.  Sweet, it all boils down to personal preference. I'm full figured also,but trust me, there are plenty of guys who love women like us.  And guys, by all means if ur not interested please send a message saying so. That's what all this online dating is about. Finding someone ur compatible with and hopefully being honest. I can only speak for myself but, i wouldn't be offended if i were rejected by a total stranger on a computer.  Sweet, don't give up. There's some great guys out there! 
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 9:42 PM |
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VampiressGypsy
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I hear ya on that, i have been tryin to lose the weight now for a year and I have been doin ok but i doubt i will ever get back to the skinnny thing that some of these guys want, and i think hey maybe this guys who hit the gym every day maybe for a date ya can work out with me. I just read that 65% of the population is over weight in this country so guys should start liking us bigger gals because before long your only gonna get over weight or anerixia lol
and yeah I have right on my profile i am not intrested IN but yet i get messages from them anyways like I am gonna change my mind from the moment i wrote that to their email...haha no not happening. what do they think that just because we are over weight we need to lower our expectations of what we want in men? Sorry i will get off my soap box now...lol
Half the time I feel like I am hitting my head against something when it comes to dating anymore. 
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| Apr 16, 2006 @ 10:39 PM |
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VampiressGypsy
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yeah I go for the skinnier guys than me, for some reson i can't ever imagine two chunky people doing it
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| Apr 16, 2006 @ 10:57 PM |
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Bekeka
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LMFAO. i love big guys but for some reason only the little guys like me! dont get me wrong, i have nothing against the little guys, i love my kevin
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| Apr 17, 2006 @ 7:07 PM |
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vipervenom
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I have always found myself more attracted to the thick ladies, haven't dated many skinny ladies but I don't discriminate either .
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| Apr 20, 2006 @ 5:53 PM |
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sweetblueyedarling
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on second thought, maybe the wanna be pimple on donald trumps ass (yes u allen) should go check out the men on bbwfinder site. they r as varied as they r here, some handsome, some plain, some rich, some not.....but rem they dont want u allen. 
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| Apr 20, 2006 @ 10:22 PM |
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Soundhound180
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Well, my profile says I prefer small women. I have received many e-mails from women that say "I know I am not your type but" followed by various replies. Bottomline-be honest, people appreciate that, oh it also promotes healthy relationships!! Good luck to all in looking for what we are all looking for!
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| Apr 21, 2006 @ 4:54 PM |
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VampiressGypsy
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thats true allen but also the garbage men are ready to dump their girlfriends for a skinnier woman any day..thats just a man for you, ready to dump what they have now for anything skinnier.
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| Apr 21, 2006 @ 8:38 PM |
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Mikey688
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Soundhound has it right to a point..only problem is that a nice "sorry you're not what I have in mind" is more often than not answered by a nasty reply...so what's the point in trying to be nice if nice doesn't came back at ya??
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| Apr 22, 2006 @ 11:23 PM |
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Soundhound180
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Hey Mikey, I think I have either mis-spoke or you have mis-read, I am the one reading the mail that starts off with the "I'm not your type", I always reply to all mails, winks and so on, unless it's a guy! No disrespect, just have been forthright in my replies if not interested, and have yet to get a nasty e-mail back. Al 'ol boy, you have opened a can you might not be able to close, but have no doubt I know your ploy and the attention that you have been denied based on whatever is coming to you-they may be pissed, but they are all looking at that Welcome Back Kotter senior picture of some dork!! Don't be surprised, I didn't mean to be rude, but be real-get a decent picture, it couldn't hurt!! Have fun all! Al you have full liscense to call me Fabio or Michael Bolton on crack, I know I asked for it with the dork line!
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| Apr 22, 2006 @ 11:33 PM |
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Mikey688
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Hey soundhound...all I was refering to was the line you get sometimes "I know I'm not your type but"...for whatever reason I did get some nasties back when I was trying to be polite so lately I haven't done it..maybe I'll try it again...you're absolutely right about the try to be nice thing you always say....and Big Al....whatever you're smoking there...be a bud and pass it around...
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| Apr 23, 2006 @ 11:28 AM |
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Soundhound180
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All good Mikey, well i guess there are those who would rather remain bitter, eat a half gallon of ice cream and a pound of chocolate chips and hope some poor fool will love and accept the lazy shlub that they have become. Society as a whole has become comfortable with "bigger sizes", ok for some, but don't hate me for not being attracted to big Shirley!! I am well aware that a lot of women do not like guys with long hair, tall, fit or whatever, diversity makes the world go around, my findings are that it is easier to let yourself go, rather than do something when we look in the mirror and are dissatisfied, a sad state for sure. Not only for the shallow physical reasons I list, but on down the road when we age the extra weight and years of neglect will show their faces as health complications. Put down the twinkie and do something if you are not happy and feel all men want a skinier woman, if you are happy with you, get down girl, go 'head get down with your bad self-there is someone out there for you, he will turn up!! Obviously this is a moot point, be yourself for yourself, if you are by yourself because of this make the changes you need to make. We all control our own circumstances to some degree, excluding genetic or medical conditions, the comfort foods and fast foods are the real culprit here-not shallow people as myself!
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| Apr 23, 2006 @ 1:57 PM |
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Mikey688
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soundhound...couldn't have even come close to saying it any better than you put it...I'll be 60 in a month..I work out 5 times a week (you won't confuse me with some 25 yr old studpuppy,but you won't confuse me with some old,over the hill geezer either!)...not for the looks but because I like being healthy as I can and I WILL go out swinging in the end..and any looks benefits I might get from it are only icing on the cake...the ladies you describe can't seem to understand that it isn't as much that I don't find overweight women atrractive as it is that I just don't have ANYTHING in common with anyone who doesn't at least think enough of his/her self to do the best they can with what they have to work with...life's too short to settle for anything less than what works...and btw..I had your hair back in my day...
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| Jul 8, 2006 @ 4:27 PM |
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jynnifer24columbusohio
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hey im a thick lady whats up?
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| Jul 8, 2006 @ 4:27 PM |
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jynnifer24columbusohio
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hey im a thick lady whats up?
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