| May 31, 2006 @ 12:49 PM |
Where have all the nice guys gone???
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Honeeedew
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It seems so simple. Im a cute, educated, funny girl who wants to meet a nice, educated, funny, ok..cute too...guy. Is it that they are not on dating sites? I am here..so he must be here also! If you are him....by all means...stop wasting time and contact me! : ))
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| May 31, 2006 @ 2:03 PM |
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stivvy
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We are all in Northeast Ohio 
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| May 31, 2006 @ 7:39 PM |
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tim47ohio
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Online dating sites are funny, huh?
You can find thousands of people, just none local to you.
Atleast thats the problem I always have on these dating/singles sites.
The old rule of thumb used to be, more women in the city, more men in the rural/country areas... dunno if that still holds true... but I know I'm in North West Ohio (very rural) and dates have been few and far between. Must be too many guys here and not enough ladies. 
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| May 31, 2006 @ 7:58 PM |
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jennyflame
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There is no such thing.
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| Jun 2, 2006 @ 5:27 AM |
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allan_ackerman
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women -say- they want a nice guy, but it could not be further then the truth. Women want jerks. IF you have Mr. Perfect your going to get bored with him.
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| Jun 2, 2006 @ 9:46 AM |
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tim47ohio
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LOL! I have heard it said slightly different. Women say they want a nice guy but...while women are most comfortable with nice guys, women have the most fun with bad boys... so many women can't make up their mind what to stick with HAHAHA... Others just jump between guys getting some of both.
(I suppose a similar thing could be said about what guys want.)
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| Jun 2, 2006 @ 10:23 AM |
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an_open_heart2004
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I am looking for them. 
Dang... I tried to edit this and it posted again. Sorry! Never had that happen before.
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| Jun 2, 2006 @ 11:51 AM |
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an_open_heart2004
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Funny Tim, I was just thinking the same thing.
I am way too far down here in Ohio's hills of Appalachia to meet anyone. Even though I live in town, they would never find me...lol
I wonder if I should never have left Connecticut. 
Allan....an_open_ seldom gets bored with anyone. I find people interesting and often fascinating at times. I am never looking to meet a jerk....they are always looking to meet and finding me...  That is why I changed my profile from looking for a long term relationship to looking to enjoy the chat and making friends only. Friends without benefits are just fine with me. I don't need those kind of benefits anymore....lol Nope, I will just enjoy making new friends, and if something else comes along, then I will be blessed.
Tim...I have heard that old saying, but usually quoted about me....Men want a "nice" woman, but they seek "bad" girls.
Jennyflame, I am almost inclined to think your right, or at least there is just not a "nice" guy out there for me. I do...however know that all guys aren't bad and there are some very nice guys in the world. You just can't make love happen.
Honeedew...Just be careful and take it slow. If you send out positive meditations and prayers on the one who is meant for you...he will come along if it is meant to be.
I thought I met the nicest guy in the world on MD, but I was completely fooled by him. It took me three years to really see whom he really was underneath handsome, distinquished looking exterior of a man. What I learned about him made me sick at heart. How sad he is still on here preying on older women with young daughters or on young naive girls. I guess I should write a blog on the dangerous levels of sexual addiction and when it becomes dangerous to others. But...would anyone listen or have to learn the hard way just as I did? I had even took rape and crisis intervention training years ago. But.... The heart often sees and listens to what it wants to. So...take it slow in getting to know the person you are interested in. Don't be in a rush to find that special someone. It might take you three years to find out the truths that make you decide he isn't someone you want in your life, but at least you won't be added to the statistics of divorce.
Blessings of peace on your journey and may you find friendship and love.
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| Jun 2, 2006 @ 12:08 PM |
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countrybritches
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Personally I think all the nice guys are already taken...seems to me the only ones left are the dirty ole men looking for younger women and older women who want younger guys.......
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| Jun 3, 2006 @ 3:45 PM |
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an_open_heart2004
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No...NO...No...it wasn't quoted about "me". I meant that it was quoted about "men".
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| Jun 3, 2006 @ 7:24 PM |
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jennyflame
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I keep thinking I found a nice guy, I even got flowers sent to my house. But now I'm finding out that when he says he has a friend over...its a she! So there are no such things as nice guys. Just jerks everywhere. And if you say you are a "nice guy" that means you are a creepy guy. Real nice guys don't admit it, it just comes naturally.
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| Jun 3, 2006 @ 10:57 PM |
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nightowl0301
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Just in case you are wondering where all the nice guys are, we are either too shy or polite to approach you, to tired of rejection to bother any more, or we get picked up by some one who turns out to be a complete pysco looking for an easy victim. Or maybe we hear, "why can't my abusive jerk of a boyfriend be more like you?" one to mant times.
Then we become jaded and angry and hide form the world. I think that leads to most "nice guys" not being so nice anymore. Either that or we keep being nice guys, and keep watching as women that we are intrested in bounce from one jerk to the next, then yell at us about how all men are jerks.
I am far from perfect, I admit that, but I have always (and still do) treat people with as much respect and compassion as possible. Most of the time people just take advantage of that, so I am sorry if you have trouble finding a "nice guy," maybe you should start looking a little harder
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| Jun 3, 2006 @ 11:30 PM |
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jennyflame
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I dont reject. And that's my problem. Maybe I should start? haha
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| Jun 4, 2006 @ 12:16 AM |
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nightowl0301
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I have just been burnt one time too many I guess, and had a bad week. I understand where you are coming from, as it is hard to meet nice females as well. Just remeber tat the nice ones can be a little shy, give them a chance.
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| Jun 4, 2006 @ 9:10 AM |
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jennyflame
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I give everyone a chance. I'm not that kind of person! And I'm guessing by giving everyone a chance it's my own fault for getting jerks. lol. Like last nights.
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| Jun 4, 2006 @ 10:11 PM |
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UberGeek
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I personally think that by giving everyone a chance ya run the risk of meetin people ya won't like. But the alternative is to risk not meeting the one you will like. Give em all a shot, it might work, if not well then you're not any worse off than before. And i would also agree it seems most women say they want someone nice, but in the end it's "you're like a brother to me". Or I love ya, but i'm not IN love with ya. Been there a couple times.
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| Jun 4, 2006 @ 11:40 PM |
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jennyflame
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I give up on this thread. Everything I type someone just repeats haha. 
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| Jul 8, 2006 @ 3:09 PM |
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soccer_star
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i was a nice guy once, until i started dating. chivalry is dead and women are the ones who killed it. opening doors and giving flowers in today's world are a signal to women that you are too needy. once you start being nice women will think you are doing it to cover up something wrong with yourself and then your done. or they wonder why such a nice guy is single. unless of course your talking about "brad pitt" in which case women think that you are a genuinely nice guy only because you are good looking. but guess what, most guys aren't that good looking and the ones who are tend to cheat . the general concensus umong guys that i talk to is be kind of a jerk 90% of the time and nice the other 10%. why is this? when you are a jerk alot of women tend to wonder what is wrong with them instead of what is wrong with thier boyfriend. when they just can't take any more of his crap the 10% nice guy comes into play and does something sweet and the woman thinks that well deep down he is a good person. if you look in almost 100% of these profiles it will say 4 things i'm looking for someone smart, funny, honest, and oh yeah, nice. thats all bull#### if your not good looking. i feel like i'm smart, i've had enough people write things in my yearbooks to believe that i'm funny, what you just read was honest, and i still can't pull off being a d##k. and all that it has gotten me is a bunch of women who want to be my buddy. yippee
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 3:06 PM |
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intensity777
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My friend has a theory....
He says women are only attracted to the 'bad boys,' so the 'nice guys' had to adapt in order to meet women.
Hence, women killed off all the 'nice guys.'
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| Jul 29, 2006 @ 3:03 AM |
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HERSHEYKISS
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younger guys dont want long term thing and us old guys well were old hehehehe and lot of ladies in their middle years ,were hurt so many times they are no good ,,, some jerk in their life made them bad for all the nice guys ,,,finding is the problem ,,, doesnt matter what age your are ,,, my both daughters say the same thing ,just like me !!!! hard finding the right person ,,, just got to keep on looking !!!!!i guess
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