| Dec 25, 2006 @ 10:25 PM |
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dragonfirelilly
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 Why cant all the liers who will use you just say, I am a lier I will tell you I love you, I will ask you marry me and then turn around and tell you I never loved you, your ugly and I never wanted marry you. Just say that they are a USER and a lier? I dated a guy for 5 months I really fell hard for him, let my self fall in love with him, and this morning he called me and told me everything he had ever said to me was a lie and wanted to make things work with his ex that he NEVER stopped seeing the first place. It honestly hurts and its torn me a part, for a little while atleast, I guess, if I can ever trust any one again. It never fails that someone always lies to me, I am honest, I am genunie when I say something I mean it! why cant I find people out there who dont lie, and tell it how it is. I am honest, to the point and will tell you how I feel and how things are even if you dont want to hear it, why cant I get someone who does the same, who say look I dont love you rahter then saying I love you too, and dont turn around three months later and say will you marry me? What the hell? Its Christmas day for petes sake, he coulda waited before he pulled this crap. A good honest man is hard to fine.
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| Dec 25, 2006 @ 11:29 PM |
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SolarAngel31
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I know what your going through...My husband threw me out before Thanksgiving...He was a control freak, and if I wasn't home when he got home, then I was a horrible person, thought I was sleeping around....wasn't didn't have time...having children doesn't allow much romance...The first time my husband kick me out well soon to be ex husband...Can't wait for the divorce....He shove a shot gun in my face and my daughter's but I thought if I made him get rid of the guns...he would be nicer, then he threw me out again and I got into to a car wreck....and this is the last when he threw me out I said enough is enough I'm not coming back to a control freak who thinks I should be his personal slave and when I was sick he wouldn't even take my daughter and I to the hospital he wouldn't get off the couch....my daughter could have died that day and he wouldn't have even cared....I have been through the most horrible relationship...I simply find men who are so abusive or liars or control freaks and have no intelligent at all....Thats why i'm not giving up...I want my intelligent and romantic man, who cares about how I feel and how he feels...I still believe there is love out there and he is just waiting for me to come or he comes to me....Don't give up...I'm here if u ever need to talk...
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 1:39 AM |
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dragonfirelilly
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I have two sons, and my ex was a controll freak this was the frist giy after two year I had let in to my life like that. My ex was just about as abusive yours. Only if I wouldnt give him sex he would force me or if I wouldnt do something he felt I should do becuase he said so he would pitch a bitch and hit me. I seem to find the worse men. 
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 1:49 AM |
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steveemac
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Why cant all the liers who will use you just say, I am a lier
Then they wouldn't be liars anymore.
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 1:52 AM |
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dragonfirelilly
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True enough, but they should at least have a stamp on their forehead, or perhaps their hands cut off and their tongues cut out..... oops sorry getting messy.
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 6:19 AM |
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CMJAnew
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For all you ladies who believe all men are liars......I'll give you a tell tale sign of how to identify if and when you are being told stories out of turn.
Here's what you do -- when speaking with this guy....any guy....watch his lips. If they are moving....he's lying. 
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 10:26 AM |
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dragonfirelilly
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Hard to do over the phone, more so when the gouy your talking to has no shame, and no I dont think all men are liars, there are a few out there who still have the balls to tell it how it is. I am tired of pretty little lies.
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 11:45 AM |
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CozyWinterNight
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I feel you Firefly.  But the same goes for woman too. I made the mistake of falling for one at work. She seemed like a positive , adventurerous caring woman. 
Heck I hadn't felt like I did for her, since high school. And I KNEW she was the right one. 
Boy little by little did her true colors show. But by the time I found out most I was all in. So we share the same christmas present.. Heart ache. 
But thinking back it was not all bad and I try no to dwell on the past for it is over. I keep reminding myself that with every step, even the missteps...I get closer and closer to finding the right one. 
So keep you head up, and smile...
One gone 3,999,999,999 to go.
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 12:36 PM |
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dragonfirelilly
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Oh I am not saying that its just one sex that lies, ppl like thats what sperates humans from animals. with animals they either want to tear you apart you be your frined no ifs no ands no buts. someone once said dont call me human its an insult.
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 2:22 PM |
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shizzil
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He's an eight-hundred pound Jesus
Standing taller than a tree
He's an eight-hundred pound Jesus
A bigger man than you or me
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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SolarAngel31
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Well.....It has to only get better with time....I'm a very trusting person, but now I'm starting to want to build a wall so I don't fall for the jerks, that say....I'm not like all the rest...I would never hurt you, your special to me.....Things like that have a no answer to them....How do u know who to trust and who not too...That's The Real Question.....
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 10:09 PM |
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CozyWinterNight
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LoL Dragon and Shizzil you all are funny. Feels good to laugh. I'll have to remember that one.
I wanted to say I try to trust everyone. But this is the real world we live in. So I'll just say, I wouldn't let the jerks of the past, ruin my chance of happiness in the future. So yeah I get alot of bumps and bruises, but a good woman heals all that up real quick. 
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 10:40 PM |
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SolarAngel31
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Or I good man.....I hope I do find someone who is willing to let me trust them and in hopes of a future with him, only time will tell...but I told myself if he is really out there, then he will find me...My new year's resolution is to be happy and to find my mr. right.....
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| Dec 26, 2006 @ 11:06 PM |
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dragonfirelilly
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Your right its the real world but, there are ppl in the real world who would rather take advantage of you, Now not everyone but there are ppl who do and I seem to find every last stinking one of em.... and I still after about will start to trust everyone again, think I would learn the frist time lol. and as for new years resolutions mines to survie the next year lol.
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| May 18, 2007 @ 7:57 PM |
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Microchip
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Your right its the real world but, there are ppl in the real world who would rather take advantage of you, Now not everyone but there are ppl who do and I seem to find every last stinking one of em.... and I still after about will start to trust everyone again, think I would learn the frist time lol. and as for new years resolutions mines to survie the next year lol.
I don't know specifically why you are asking about liers[sic], but I think part of the reason people take advantage of you is due to your command (or lack thereof) of the English language. A lot of guys out here are looking for "easy" women, and their first targets are people who appear to be illiterate or downright stupid. I'm not saying you are, but by the way you write, you certainly don't command much respect.
A lot of people come out here and complain about their lack of success, but I think that search should start at home. Best wishes to you.
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| Jan 5 @ 1:26 PM |
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yeah!! well how do you cope with someone in here with the lies beginning in there profile. I got hooked up with a guy I really cared for. And he lied then, his profile still in here with the same lies, as when we met, so a year of my time was wasted on him just to find out hes married. Oh! How hurtfull. Hes seawolf in here, and if you ladys care, hes married.Im in NC , not PA.
I hope to find a truthfull, honest man know 
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| Jan 11 @ 1:24 AM |
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pryce1969
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I might relate some of my online prevarication moments- but why extensively repond to a mispelled topic? LiErs?!
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| Jan 21 @ 8:19 AM |
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LilWVPADOLL
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"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did...but people will never forget how you made them feel"
Maya Angelou
“Never allow someone to be your Priority while allowing yourself to be their Option” &
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| Jan 21 @ 11:54 PM |
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qtip3850
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Practice what you preach
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| Mar 21 @ 12:48 PM |
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Marzzy01
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I know one and he stole my Godfather movies. I should make another forum for @$$holes too. LOL
I'm sorry about how your ex treated you. I have three guys that I dated that were horrible. First one was verbaly abusive. Second was a mama'sboy. Third was just an @sshole boy. And the I won't even count the disaster dates I've been on. They always seem to want meet up to make out. That's the part when I just get up and leave.
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