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Jul 20, 2008 @ 6:36 PM nice guys....    
loyalman4u


Posts: 3
why is it that the guys that try to treat women right and be a gentelman always end up being the one that no one wants?
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Jul 20, 2008 @ 10:26 PM nice guys....    
JeanK


Posts: 15
The woman's motherly instinct carries over into relationships to rehabilitate the man---usually the 'bad boy' whose life is in a downward spiral. This becomes the "challenge" (until they're married with children), and however irrational it may seem, it makes perfect sense to them.

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Aug 5, 2008 @ 12:58 PM nice guys....    
chapellefan08


Posts: 1
Unfortunately nice guys always finish last.
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Aug 6, 2008 @ 6:58 PM nice guys....    
greatgirl96


Posts: 67
BEING TREATED NICE IS A GREAT THING AND DON'T TRY TO CHANGE THAT IN ANYWAY. I THINK IT MAY BE HARD TO ADAPT TO SOME WOMEN BEING WITH A 'GOOD' MAN BECAUSE THEY HAVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH 'BAD' GUYS AND THEY ARE NOT USED TO THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. I GIVE ALL MEN THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT WITHOUT CAUSE OF JUDGEMENT. I HOPE THEY ARE GOOD NICE GUYS BUT YOU ARE ALWAYS ON YOUR GUARD WITH THEM.
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Aug 15, 2008 @ 2:58 AM nice guys....    
justme525


Posts: 8
as a woman, I can assure you that women do like nice guys. Perhaps you are just continually meeting or focusing sights on the wrong women.
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Aug 16, 2008 @ 8:42 AM nice guys....    
christianna


Posts: 58
im used to the bad guys that use me and throw me out

the kind of guy i was looking for was honestly someone that looks like a bad guy (preferably punk).... but deep down is sweet

my boyfriend is a nice guy.... and i'm just not sure what to do with it... he doesnt make me sad, he hasnt made me cry... it feels.... out of place... but i really really do like him

perhaps sometimes we give up when it feels awkward... and go back to the assholes that we're used to

i dont plan on doing that any time soon... so the nice guy isnt finishing last in this case

(and by nice guy... i mean ive actually wrestled him for a check in the diner before... because i wanted to pay)
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Jan 24 @ 9:24 PM nice guys....    
Xamonas


Posts: 6
A woman doesn't want a nice guy because it runs against the view she held all her life that only women have emotional depth. ;)

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Feb 7 @ 10:14 PM nice guys....    
Moogie25


Posts: 20
A lot of woman only like the bad boys. Maybe they don't believe they deserve better. Maybe they like getting into trouble themselves.

I remember when one of my boys was in high school. A girl would call him almost every night and complain about how badly her boyfriend was treating her. It hurt him so much because he liked her, but to her he was just her friend. She preferred someone who treated her badly. He went on to college and she had 2 kids by some jerk before my son graduated. Now my boy has a great job, still single, travels, buys what he wants. Last I heard the girl was barely getting by. She really chose the wrong one and I wonder what would have happened if she had become my daughter-in-law.
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Feb 11 @ 2:19 AM nice guys....    
redhead15003


Posts: 4
And so do nice weman end up last
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