| Jan 1, 2007 @ 6:28 PM |
why is love so hard to find!!
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mathox
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Well lets see i am young handsome(i guess) and lots of fun but it seems like women just dont want anything to do with me!!! Everyone i know has someone to love but i always seem to be alone!!! New years sucked cause i wanted to have someone to kiss at midnight but once again i was alone...Is it to much to ask to have someone to love!!
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| Jan 2, 2007 @ 1:52 PM |
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Alvarion
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Dont feel bad dude, lol. Im a 30 year old virgin that hasnt even had a girlfriend before. Im 6 foot, 145 pounds, college degree, soldier in the N.G., and a truck driver. I'll prob end up having to go overseas to find a good girl now cause most of the ones in our age bracket have already gotten married and started a family of their own.
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| Jan 24, 2007 @ 4:47 PM |
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cjbryant
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the problem, i think, with most women is that they .....for the past 40 years, have become so self-oriented, that no longer wish to keep the comitted mentality that your parents, or garndparents hade back in the day. they only look for what suits them.....AND THEM ALONE!!! Nice guys, dont seem to fit their criteria as a person, suited for their needs, or wants......we just seem to be in the way. I would say to you, forget them. if they wish to be as mentally and emotionally detatched from the social norms as our parents were raised, then we're better off without them. nice guys do finish last, my friend......but i wouldn't be a sore loser about it, when it's they who will lose when they finally come to their senses
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| Jan 30, 2007 @ 12:43 PM |
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MordosPac
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Nice guys finish last? I believe that fully. I don't know wether to blame it on how media has influenced women of today too look for only certain aspects of a guy, (Bad Boys, players with a BMW, etc) much like they say we do to them (blonde, 110 lbs, banging rack, etc..) but I do wish they would get over it. So a girl looks good. BIG FREAKING DEAL! That doesn't give them a blank check to write your ass off with, but don't tell them that or you will have hell to pay. There is no easy solution, and oh by the way, going over seas to find a good women will only last as long as you MOVE over seas. Bring them back here and they will turn on you, just ask my uncle!
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| Feb 15, 2007 @ 7:06 PM |
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ChipP
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I gave up trying a long time ago.....
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 12:33 AM |
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bunnybiz
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Is this thread just for guys? I have not given up on love. I am looking for what my parents have. Love is more than the romantic love which is important, the emotions you feel. Love is unconditonal. You're there for that person during the good and bad times. It is your will, your committment to make it work. There is no walking out. I have never been married but I know what I am looking for in a man. (and it definitely not a bad guys, players or they have to have a BMW) It seems like the ones I would be interested in live so far away. I know the right person is out there. It probably happen when I least expect it but it's worth the wait. 
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| Feb 22, 2007 @ 7:54 AM |
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shadowmystic
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Love is not hard to find if you set the right wheels in motion...It's not easy separating the good from the bad, or focused for the right reasons, from the happy go lucky sexual predators. "It really does only take a moment to change a lifetime" or find real love..... and when you know, feel, it...no other feeling on earth compares to it...It takes a sincere desire and a little patience....I think the reason that most people online rarely find something real is that their sights are set so high that many neglect the ones who could be their match...but I guess it's just the nature of the internet...For me...I'm extremely patient and willing to take time to get to know someone before taking the plunge...After all...getting to know is half the fun and excitement...Love is the offshoot of those cherished times and memories...
larry
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| Mar 2, 2007 @ 4:34 AM |
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SuperShySweetGuy1982
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While I do agree that nice guys finish last, I know that most of the fault in my situation falls on me. I just simply don't make myself available enough. I mean, let's face it, this is a tourist town and a good majority of the girls you meet want nothing more than a week or two out of you. I'm just not interested in that. Short term just isn't what I'm after. I don't have all too many standards really. A girl that smiles often with a sweet personality.. A girl that's trustworthy, and faithful. And most importantly I'd imagine would be a girl that isn't afraid to make the first move but at the same time hasn't been around the block with more than only a couple of men. Which is my largest fault really, I am just too shy most of the time.
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| Mar 8, 2007 @ 12:10 AM |
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ImaCountryGirlToo
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If what you've been doing to attract women isn't working, maybe it's time to try something different. I subscribed to the daily newsletter at this web site some time ago: www.aweber.com/z/article/?mhh_tips and I've tried to prove this guy wrong more than once, but he always ends up being right. He teaches men how to become an "alpha male", which I can assure you women find very attractive. At least check him out before you give up on finding love. And please don't judge all women by the ones you've met so far, that's a defeatist attitude which isn't very attractive and won't get you anywhere. Not to mention that it's an insult to the decent women out here, and there are still plenty. If I could make a suggestion, it would be to stop trying so hard to find love. Instead, work on becoming the kind of person that you want to meet. That changes your attitude from "needy and desperate" and puts you in charge of your own life. I've also learned a lot from the dating coach at this site: http://www.singlesdatingtips.com/ Her advice has helped to turn my life around. I truely believe there is someone for each of us and that one day you'll find yours.
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| Mar 9, 2007 @ 11:15 PM |
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wildcat73556
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yes , you are soooooooo right bunny biz. but, im not looking for a man but, i do feel the same way. my miss right,is out there,somewhere,,under the rainbow,,just waiting,,just like me,,
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| Mar 18, 2007 @ 3:32 PM |
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ElohimInfernos
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Mathox, I've had my own fair share of bs relationships. My heart's been broken and I have a relative trail of broken hearts behind me. I have observed that a large part of finding someone with whom you are compatable is knowing whare to look. I'm from Greenville and I'd have better luck looking in Hell itself. Just not my culture here. Could be te same with you, depending on whare you are from. I have better luck with Ashville, NC. I also agree with the Country Girl (forgive me for reducing your name but it's so bleeding long). I've never read the articles she's proposing but it might be worth your while. You seem as though you have a good heart and intentions but lack the strength of charecter to just take your dreams and make them manifest. Man, you can't wait for your dreams to come to you, you have to forge them with your own two hands. I once typed the same words you have and have learned much since then. There is no better feeling in life than creating your own life of your own accord. And, just to give my position here, I'm here trying to find someone that I like. Most people I've met around here are not what I'm looking for. But, anyway, good luck man. In darkness and light... Frater P.I.
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| Jul 9, 2007 @ 3:14 PM |
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uscgirl189
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yes there are some good girls stil left out there :) im one of them so dont give up...
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| Jul 10, 2007 @ 12:32 PM |
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NStep
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I am like some of you guys here. I'm a 27 year old male that hasn't been married, hasn't been in a serious relationship...matter of fact I haven't been in a real relationship period, I'm lucky if a get 10 dates a year. I don't think it's due to the lack of trying on my part. I consider myself to be a genuine caring, outgoing, kind of guy. I might be too nice for my own good but it's just not in my nature to be the "bad boy" type. I'm just a hardworking guy who's respectful of other people and trying to be something that I'm not (the "bad boy") just doesn't suit me. Don't take my niceness as being a sap because I'm not...I may be one of those nice guys but I'm no one's whipping boy.
It's bothered me (and still does) that I've been single for so long and am having trouble finding love, finding a relationship. I have friends (male and female) that just seem to fall out of one relationship right into another. Hell I have this one friend (female) who it seems all she has to do is go online to any website (dating or not) and she can secure a Saturday night date for herself. Me, I just can't seem to get any momentum going in my direction and I just don't understand it. I even posted my picture on one of those rating websites to see if I might happen to be a hideous creature and I'm scoring a 6 (as being judged) by others so I can't tell what's wrong with me. All my female friends tell me that I'm a wonderful guy and that they can't believe I'm still single, so if this is true of me, then why has the dating scene just been so rough? I mean at this point what do guys like me do? I've tried being the aggressor when it comes to a girl that I like, I've even (uncomfortably) put myself out there more than I normally would and I'm still getting no results.
I don't mean to babble but it's a frustrating process. I've followed every amount of advise that has been given to me so far with no results. I know there will be some girls on this site that will say "don't give up," but it's hard for someone like me to stay positive when I'm not even given the time of day. All I want is what most people at my age already have...a loving relationship with someone of the opposite sex that may lead to something serious like possibly marriage and a family. Is that really too much to ask for?
[Edited on 7/10/2007 12:39 PM]
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| Sep 12, 2007 @ 10:30 AM |
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jennilyn122
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hello my name is jennifer i know how u feel im nice woman and guys dont seem to like nice woman they would rather have a woman that cheats on them then a sweet woman that is nice and faithful so men this nice woman wants to find true love so u can contact me {email address removed}
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| Sep 13, 2007 @ 12:13 PM |
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soundedmind
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Because you can't find something that doesn't exist.
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| Sep 13, 2007 @ 4:36 PM |
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NStep
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^ ^ ^ ^
So are you saying that love doesn't exist or good people for a relationship don't exist?
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| Oct 9, 2007 @ 10:00 PM |
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wheely341
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well baby don't be shy,i was shy one time but i got out of it,and now i'm the life of the party i make everybody laugh.
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| Oct 20, 2007 @ 8:53 PM |
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Missy_21484
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I don't know what to say is that this thread lacks optimism completely, when it comes to the guys! I myself am looking for an old fashioned type of guy, who knows what love is and shares the same interests. I'm nonjudgmental, but then again I'm female and gossip happens (at least I'm honest). I'm not looking for the complete prince charming... good looks, money and a fairy tale story. I'm looking for a real man, who is genuine and has all the qualities that matter to me. There are good girls out there, you just have to know where to find them, and maybe one day she will find you.
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| Nov 28, 2007 @ 7:15 AM |
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michavl12
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I would have to disagree with most of what you guys are saying, you guys are full of negative energy and thats a problem in itself, If what your doing is not working then yes try something different. I think most guys are just to picky and it gets in the way of good sence, Yes im single but thats cause i have not put myself out there much. while im looking i feel like this. My parents had 50 great yrs and time has not changed people have. When its ment to be it is ment to be and if its not then its not. there is someone for everyone the problem is we sometimes dont see the signs or think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Well one thing i do know is when you least exspect it thats when it will happen so good luck boys and girls and be more positive
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| Dec 13, 2007 @ 4:18 PM |
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carolinagrl39
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I haven't given up yet myself finding love again I lost my husband 3 yrs ago In a accident so Im not giving up yet. But im not going to give up and for someone to love me for me and my son Im here is sumter sc
Kara
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