| Feb 12, 2006 @ 12:49 PM |
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sarina543
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Hi everyone, I am new at this but it seems to me to be a sounding board for what we see as things that are not quite right in this world we live in, and I have something to say so I am gonna say it. We come to these sites to try to find companionship, and I don't know about the rest of you, but I am completely honest about what I am, and what I am looking for. So why is it that so many men say they are looking for honesty, and a woman that will not play them, but they are still hung up on the high maintenance, barbie doll type woman. Let me tell ya something guys, no I am not beautiful, and I am not skinny, and I would not get caught dead in a bikini, but I am one hell of a woman. I am very real. I demand respect for the type of woman that I am, a caring mom, and a good friend to those who take the time to get to know me. I work hard, and take pride in everything that I do, but just because I do not giggle most of the time, I actually eat without throwing up afterward, and I wear clothes that fit, I am ignored. What is up with that???? Is it that men just love to get taken for everything that they are worth?? Do they feed off of the rejection that shallow women offer up??? I'll admit I am a bit picky about who I go out with, I don't want a beer guzzling drunk next to me, and I am not looking for someone who looks like they have spent too much time at the local steak house buffet, and having a job is always a plus, I am not into handing out money, and I would not take a dime from a man. And also one must deal with my kids as they are first in my life no matter what. OK, so there it is, this is what I think, Let's hear it, I want to know what you think!!!
Sarina
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| Feb 22, 2006 @ 7:22 PM |
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Say_Yes
Posts: 2,217
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Okay, we all have things that we desire in a partner. Men are sexual creatures and we need/want/desire a woman that we find physically appealing. That is where it often begins as first impressions are purely physical. If I am not physically attracted to a woman, I am not going to see if she has other qualities that I desire.
Being an attractive woman does not equate to being "high maintenance". It does not mean that she is bulemic, nor does it mean that she is "shallow". Just as you take pride in "everything that you do", some women also take pride in the way that they look. Their physical health matters to them. They are conscious of their weight and they maintain their body fat at a level that is more likely to allow them to live a longer, healthier life. Personally, that is important to me.
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