| Mar 28, 2007 @ 1:07 PM |
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amablueeyes
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ok wel lets see, first of all sometimes time does not allow me to answer every comment, email or opinion.
I also read profiles, I find that atleast half the time, the person in question did not read my profile, as they apparently did not read my preferences, such as age, distance, race , reilgion , etc
I am not looking for another kid to raise, I raised 3 boys, thats enough,
I alos do not want someone looking for a housekeeper, nurse, or financier.
I also am not interest in relocating, and I just do not see how any kind or friendship, or relationship can be estiblished when we live hundreds, if not thousands of miles apart.
most of us have had enough bad relationships in the past to know what we do not
want in a person, lol I may not know exactly what I do want, but I definately do know what I dont want.
But we Texas Women are still the Best Thing Going. LOL
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 1:27 PM |
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amablueeyes
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Well until about 5 minutes ago, I would not have responded to this particular comment, but I just got an email from someone signing themself the Moslem, from England, and it was a very long desertation on the life and merits of of the moslem religion in this persons opinion, Since I did not bring up that subject, did not ask anyones opinion and did not care to hear anyones opinion on the moslem religion, I was not impressed , actually I was a bit poe'd that this person put all this garbage in my email., and after skimming the long winded thing, I can not find a reason or purpose for it to have been sent to me.
lol I suppose the gist if this is t hat I have to agree with you.
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 1:36 PM |
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amablueeyes
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Yeah ! I couldn't have said it better myself .
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| Apr 9, 2007 @ 10:29 AM |
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jollyroger803
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So I have question what about mail order brides? Six out of ten collage graduates are female don’t seem to marry men who are not. Therefore if you are not a college graduate, and you work at the local factory and or do some other type of honest work where does that leave you? We all know that they want to achieve legal status here. Most marriages in the United States and here in Texas end in divorce anyway. 
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| Apr 10, 2007 @ 9:24 PM |
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MrEd419
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I feel the same way!!!!!!!
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| Jun 14, 2007 @ 1:46 AM |
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TXblond
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Yes, and Mr. Roger, you will still be even older. 
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| Jun 14, 2007 @ 10:01 AM |
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jnwaco
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LOL - this is too funny. You know, match and yahoo keep records. Over the last year, I've sent well over 300 e-mails to girls who I thought would be a good match. I've actually received e-mails back, including e-mails saying "no thanks" to the tune of 27.
Go figure. Either the women in my area are so freaking shallow, or they don't know how to use computers.
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| Jun 15, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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jollyroger803
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 Yes that is why I love being a guy,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,blondie  you gotta love this place, this state
[Edited on 6/15/2007 4:37 PM]
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| Jun 17, 2007 @ 10:12 AM |
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stilsmokin420
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I dont get it.....how hard is it to respond with thanks but no thanks? or thanks but im not interested? And why do people have one bad experience and then generalize? I have been on this site a long time, have met lots of people, some good some bad, isnt that the way of the world? What I dont understand is the ones who cant handle being turned down and get abusive and rude....maybe someone can explain that one?
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| Jun 17, 2007 @ 1:45 PM |
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jnwaco
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Exactly. Politeness? Ever heard of it? Unless the initial e-mail is extremely rude, why not just reply?
Oh well. I can tell you exactly what's up with the women... every one of them are looking for Brad Pitt. If you're not tall enough, rich enough, funny enough, you don't even get a look from 90% of the women on the online dating sites.
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| Jun 17, 2007 @ 1:54 PM |
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jnwaco
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It is ridiculous how often this question comes up... here are the answers:
1. "Intimate" activities is checked. If you're looking for women of quality, they are going to assume you are a manwhore and be stupid enough not to mention it - rather ignore you instead.
2. Many people have dead profiles or don't log on for extended periods of time... the messages may go away.
3. Some people set up filters. Chances are, if you look at their ideal mate, something very important doesn't match and you have been sent to a filter.
4. Horrible grammar. Take a look at your paragraph and read it aloud. I promise you won't be able to read it without having to decipher something or insert a pronoun... or perhaps use the correct word for the correct meaning and or hyphenate something.
Not trying to be mean, just seriously answering the question.
Okay, when none of these apply, what's the reason?
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| Jun 17, 2007 @ 8:14 PM |
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lacyvsq
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1. The woman has things going on in her life that have her mind spinning so much she can't focus long enough to say "not now, maybe later".
2. You remind her in some way of someone with whom she had a bad experience and she just doesn't want to deal.
3. She wants to put her best foot forward and starts a really long email to you and saves it in her draft folder when the phone rings and then when she gets time to come back to it, she feels too much time has elapsed and you have probably cursed her and moved on to someone else.
4. She writes a long and beautiful response and when she hits send, she gets a server busy message and thinks it is a sign from God.
5. She is having major computer problems. Her home computer has had hard drive or motherboard failure and she checks her email at friends and responds to those with whom she has previous communication, but cannot get to the new contacts.
...many more where those came from...and they have nothing to do with you and don't make her a bad person either...
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| Jun 17, 2007 @ 8:46 PM |
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jnwaco
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No offense, Lacy, but sometimes the simplest explanation is often the truth. They're looking for Brad Pitt. Easy answer. More believable than a server crash.
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| Jun 17, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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lacyvsq
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If Brad Pitt joined MD and emailed 10 women, odds are he would be reported as a spammer/scammer. No one would believe it was him and the majority would believe that if it was, once he got to know the "the real woman" he would not be interested anyway -- so they would reject before he had the chance to break their hearts.
Most of us have strange thoughts running our lives...
Sorry Brad, I just couldn't trust you...
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| Jun 18, 2007 @ 9:21 AM |
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jnwaco
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That's really not the point, Lacy. The point is, women don't care if a guy is nice or not, they will choose based on looks alone, and if they get screwed over, they jsut go find another good looking guy. That was the point.
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| Jun 18, 2007 @ 10:12 AM |
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lacyvsq
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You know jnwaco, people generally see what they are looking for. So the woman who thinks all men are after sex will see that quality in all men. The wo/man who feels s/he doesn't measure up to an ideal standard will read judgment.
You say the easy/simplest explanation is often the truth. And you select as that easy answer that women are only seeking movie-star good looks. Actually jnwaco, were that the easy answer and the truth, I suspect you would have no problems. You certainly have good looks in my book and undoubtedly many other women's.
Suppose the easy answer were instead that all women are looking for men with a good income. Hey that's a good one for you to select -- you've got that one nailed too.
We are all individuals, and jst as you are not all men, neither is any woman all women. As many women as are on this site...that's how many truthful answers you could get to the question of why no reply... On the other hand, you just might read them all as "I am shallowly waiting for a good-looking man, so he will reject me in the end and I can choose another good-looking man."
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| Jun 18, 2007 @ 2:08 PM |
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jnwaco
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Well, thank you, but I'm really not all that great looking. Thanks anyways, though.
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| Jun 19, 2007 @ 6:36 PM |
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jollyroger803
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you are so right jnwaco they all seek what they cannot have 
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| Jun 19, 2007 @ 10:28 PM |
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lacyvsq
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Oh yes!! All women are alike -- just as all men are alike!
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| Jun 20, 2007 @ 9:16 AM |
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jnwaco
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Well Lacy, I've e-mailed hundreds of women. Statistics aren't wrong.
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