| Feb 12, 2007 @ 5:59 PM |
What's up with the women here in Tx?
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TheMan2
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Women in Texas are jacked up. I have gone out met a good plenty of them over many years, even after my divorce. They all get to, " how much money you make", "what kind of car do you drive", "if you own a home, etc, etc, etc".
I usually have these answers. Yes, I make money and have a JOB, and I have a car that gets me to point a and b and it is PAID FOR and RELIABLE, no I don't own a house, because my last 2 marriages, the courts gave it to them, but I have a roof over my head. Women in Texas? Now I have gone to Austin, San Antonio, Dallas, Houston, (we have a problem) and no matter where you go it is the same thing here in Texas. Texas women want one thing and one thing only, "To get you to fall in love with them, marry them so they can file for divorce and get everything you own!" Texas is a commuinity property state. I have experienced and so have freinds of mine over the years, getting screwed over in court and ended up giving up things they had before they got married even homes. So my experiences and from dating Texas women, (which I REFUSE to do anymore) are ALL liars and cheats and EXPECTS a MAN to owe them something and everything. I will probably get bashed for this posting and get a woman replying they don't need a mans help, well to those who will respond to my writings, bet most if not all of you got child support from your ex and left him without enough money to support his own self, you got the house, won't let him see or spend time with his kids, etc. Now very and I mean VERY few women walked away with nothing. If a woman walked away with nothing, that means, not taking the children, no child supoport, no house, no car, she only left with the things she came in the marriage with, but every woman in most if not all cases whether they walk out with something or nothing, well if they took the kids, they still took something. Not just from the man, but they also took from the children. So the ladies who use the children as tools, to make their spouses pay and suffer mentally, shame on you. You may reply here, but from my experiences Texas Women suck and the court system favors them. That is why I seek companionship out of Texas. Yeah, there are women like that all over the world, but there are less of the Texas womens attitude in plenty of other states!
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| Feb 12, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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TAMUgoddess38
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Well sweetie I can say that about TX men, if we don't look like the LATE Anna Nicole, we can forget it. I'm short, fat, and have lots of LOVE to give. When will men look @ men instead of my gf because they look like barbie dolls, and I look like raggedyann?
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 2:51 AM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Hmmm, boy did you pick bad. So just how DID you pick each of your wives? Because they had nice tits? Cute ass? Hot in bed? Yeah, all the guys I know they tell me how lousy their marrages were did not marry because there was love there. It was cause they were horney, or lonely or they wanted someone to take care of them, or they felt sorry for them. I am a native Texan and from Houston originally and I may not be foxy but I am not bad looking. And I have never married a man for his money, nor have I had children and now have child support. Never married a guy and took him for anything. I have refused to marry over and over again because I come from a divorced home. Let me tell you, it sucks being a child whose parents fight over child support.
You picked 'em THEMAN. So, what does that say to me about you? I just know I can tell you would be a big bitcher and complainer. My ex boyfriend used to tell me how awful his marriage was. Then he would say some of the ugliest things I had ever heard to me as a JOKE! So, I can see why his wife turned into a bitch. He created her.
Takes two to make a marraige. Takes two to make a divorce. If you were an outstanding person, a loving woman would never have left you. You chose them, correct? They did not force you to marry them.
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 11:00 AM |
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TheMan2
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Well, OK I guess some people are getting the wrong idea of who I am, First of all I never arued, bitched, or complained. Here is the story of my last 2 marriages. Now during this time I was in Special Forces in the Army. I don't go for looks, I don't go for how good they are in bed, I certainly don't go for tit size, I don't go for money, I go for what is in the heart of another woman! Truthfully I dated model types in my younger days and learned one thing from them. Their ego, they have the attitude, "I don't need you I can get any man" adn I have been told so by them. So I NEVER, NOR will I ever pursue or go out with a "model" type or looking woman. Reason being, Their attitudes. I have dated years before I got married to either ex wife. Oh, they loved the fact that, "They are dating a Green Beret", to me big deal, it was my job that I did in the Army. Well, she never had a problem with me being deployed even during peace time that still today I can't say nor explain most of the places I have been to. Well after 3 years of dating and getting married, all of a sudden she got "lonely" and I found out after being deployed afor 9 months that when I got home in the wee hours of the morning, due to a buddy and his wife giving me a ride home because wifey wouldn't answer the phone. Upon going into "MY HOME" I found my wife and another man in "MY BED" who she "MOVED INTO MY HOME" later when I found out after the police got there. Long story short, the man tried attacking me and he was left paralized from the waste down due to the actions at hand. He never "KNEW" she was married and I was her husband and he was living in "MY HOME" This is a guilt that I have to live with the rest of my life, because the man was somewhat innocent without knowing all the details. Yeah I have been told and it was self defense, but still hurting someone like that is beyond the guilt factor.
6 years after my divorce from wifey number 1, I met wife number 2. Her daddy was a Judge in Louisiana adn she lived here in Texas adn that is were we also got married, and we dated and when I first saw her "WE" were in love at first site! She was 2 years older than me and I found out after our marriage that daddy ran her life and told her what to do. She lived with her mother when we had met, she was in the Army Reserves, so one thing that made me fall in love with her was the fact that military was my life as well as hers and she "KNEW what I did in the Army and KNEW it was my job" She NEVER made any public disply or bragged to other people as to what I did in the Army. We dated a year and a half got married. After 5 years of marriage I caught her and one of her soldiers at Camp Mabry in Austin having sex in his truck at the park. Because I had both our children in the car with me when I caught her, I walked up, took a picture and walked away and went back home. I told the children to stay in the car while I walked up and took a picture. Long story short. We seperated for 2 weeks, she moved back in with her mother and her mother got tired of watching the children, then came crawling back to work things out. We talked she moved back in, we stayed married for another 2 years. I talked with her about the issue of her "CHEATING on me" and left it at that. I never once brought it up again. She grew more distant from me and I did everything i could to re-kindle her falem and nothing worked. I worked hard at it as there were 2 children involved. I looked at what I possibly had done to make her do this. I came to the conclusion that it wasn't me, it was the fact of the other soldier who she had a fling with and worked together at her unit. I was romantic and to this day I still am with who ever I am with because it is what I believe in. So after I got out of the service her mommy and daddy talked her into filing for divorce while I had gotten out of the Army and started my own trucking company and while I was gone she filed for divorce. Over the years while we were married her daddy would try and chastize me as to things I bought for the family or household, and tell me that I didn't need to spend the money, for storage shed, so I could have the garage cleaned out so she could park her car in it, privacy fence. All the work I did myself and I sent little on materials, but daddy didn't think I needed to get those things. Well he wasn't paying my bills and we were not borrowing any money from her parents, nor from anyone. He just felt it was his business to tell me what I need to spend money on. The wife and I NEVER bought "TOYS" After 3 years into our marriage, "WIFEY" would not talk to her dad about getting into our business, so I ended up talking to him and he didn't like it. So when it came time for wifey filing for divorce, well, when I came into the court room and sat down i was shocked to see daddy, mommy, step mommy, and the wife come out of the judges chambers. I knew I was screwed at that moment. All my evidence and witnesses against my wife was non-admissible in court, what eveidence did I have? She was an alcoholic, who left me tending to the children full time from day care pick up, to feeding, bathing, spending time with them, putting them to bed, while she stayed out in the garage drinking and smoked her cigarettes, "we never smoked in the house" Also, she would pull a 2 or 3 day disappearing act without anyone knowig where she was. This started happening after we had our first child. All my witnesses were non admissible. So yeah,
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 11:50 AM |
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jollyroger803
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What is up with lady’s here in Texas I believe its all over the country ,some where back in the sixties all hell broke loose and nothing has been the same since. First of all this one mans opinion, Once upon a time in land far ,far away I had the wife the kids lived in the best zip code and had all the pressures that went with the life of having it all. Then all hell broke lose and I was 38 and divorced. It’s the time you realize you’re the oldest guy at the party and you’re just too dang old to be there. My ex- wife and I remained friends and still are, she made me a better man. That was ten years ago. I started looking around and found my god the women in my age group are worse off than I am two perhaps three divorces and children to go with it. Showing up for a date on time and a bi racial ten year old telling me to get the f@@@ out his house, hell I never went in. I said to myself pal you better learn to be alone unless you what to live like this for the rest of your life this happened more than once women my age have children, and they all seem to be angry about something .So I came to this site and thought what the heck have you got to lose its free. Not one response from a white or any female from my area, Hell I don’t want to marry anyone yet however I would like to get to know some just for coffee and conversation I guess I will sum it up now I met a lady that goes to the same collage I attend she is Colombian and half my age she knows the lawyers and courts got my money
And she doesn’t care she doesn’t have children and at the end of this semester she off to med school about an hour from my home. I just feel that American women in there zeal to be heard, taken seriously have won that battle they so desperately wanted. To bad its finally came home to roost for many of them. Remember just one mans opinion.
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 6:58 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Still, it is the choices you are making of the one's you are attracted to. Many ladies are out there that are fine with a decent man. Unfortunately some of our habits are bad and the ladies OR gentlemen just don't want that habit or the baggage that goes with it.
Sometimes the way men present themselves to women puts the women off. I NEVER respond nicely to a man that emails me with a spam style letter. If they do not address me by my nick or they send me their private email or yahoo/msn nick, I mark them as spam and either ignore them or send them a nasty letter because they are obviously not reading my profile and do not care enough to check out to see who I am.
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| Feb 15, 2007 @ 1:57 AM |
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Foulic
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Well I live in TX and I lived in MS, and I dunno their are differences, the girls here (or at least the superficial ones) tend to be a little more choosey, as to say in MS where they don't have too much of a choice of their men XD.
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| Feb 15, 2007 @ 2:46 AM |
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SpiritOrnery
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I have to admit. I am choosy. I do not like drinkers or smokers. Or druggers. I will stay single instead. I do not NEED a man to support me. I do just fine on my own. Therefore I am not really looking that hard and I am choosy. 
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| Feb 18, 2007 @ 7:27 PM |
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LibidinistLady
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Now that I've bitten my tongue in half I guess I'll put my 2 cents in...
Most of the men who wink or send me messages aren't withing 1000 miles of me. I went back and looked at my winks thingy... 4 out of 75 were in Texas. One "kid" wanted me to talk to him about my sexual experiences. Hello? Like I'm going to talk sex with someone who is younger than a pair of my favorite shoes? I don't think so.
Yes I care about a person's financial situation as I'm not looking for someone to (a) pay his way (b) pay my way. When financial circumstances aren't fairly close to equal then there are problems. I own my own place. I have 4 dogs (all sizes). I'm grownup and have an opinion and will probably not change just to make someone happy. It's one of those On Sale deals... take it or leave it, no refunds, no exchanges.
My parents were so opposite in the way they thought, voted, etc, yet they were very happy together. They completed each other without smothering each other. They could go all day without talking or they never shut up. They got along great. Their marriage is why I think there is hope.
Most "Texas Women" that I know are strong women. We can live by ourselves, but that doesn't mean we want to be alone. So put that in your pipe and smoke it.
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| Feb 18, 2007 @ 8:49 PM |
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TRAVIS1946
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Bravo, Spirit and Libid!!
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| Feb 18, 2007 @ 10:00 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Stole your happy feet icon LL...smirk....thanks!
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| Feb 18, 2007 @ 10:12 PM |
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LibidinistLady
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(curtsey) Travis, takes strong man to accept a strong woman
Spirit... bite me
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| Feb 18, 2007 @ 10:22 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Lol, got that one too. 
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| Feb 20, 2007 @ 10:10 AM |
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jollyroger803
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Well here I am again and once again just one guy’s opinion is a web site some where a person looks for a life companion? I don’t know I always wanted to find some one to be buddies with. My parent’s were in grammar school when they meet each other different time, different era all together. I have lived all over this country of ours. My conclusion is this divorce thingy(can I get away with that being a guy?) and blended families have ravaged our society. Yes there are vast numbers of Strong Women out there they have to be not only in Texas but every where else as well. Most Men won’t even look at three time divorcee
Fact is you usually can find what you’re looking for without looking at all. As for all of you who are searching for Mr. Good bar happy hunting.
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| Feb 20, 2007 @ 8:13 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Good thing I am not searching for Mr Goodbar. Yucky candy.  I am here to have fun. Found that! Most definitely! Hope you find what you are looking for Roger!
Cool new pic, Travis!
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| Feb 20, 2007 @ 8:44 PM |
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TRAVIS1946
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Thanks, my boss shot it last week. A photographer should have a portrait with his camera.
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| Feb 20, 2007 @ 9:02 PM |
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TXblond
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In answer to your question Dyllonsdad, some of us Texas women don't answer our emails because the men that have contacted us haven't bothered to actually read our profiles and find out what we are looking for.
I find it very frustrating when I go to my mailbox and find mail from 5 men that are all old enough to be my father. If someone is specific in her profile about what she wants, pay attention.
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| Feb 20, 2007 @ 11:27 PM |
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jollyroger803
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Well sprit I did not mean to hit a nerve with you, in fact I have enjoyed most of your post, especially the one where you said something to the effect that we create our on reality. I personally believe that is true. I have gotten everything I ever asked for good and bad.
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| Feb 20, 2007 @ 11:31 PM |
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jollyroger803
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I must agree Travis nice photo
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:43 AM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Roger, nothing hit a nerve except for that icky candy. 
I promise you, that stuff grosses me OUT! Oh, and if you are referring to the movie, I have not seen it. 
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