| Sep 16, 2006 @ 1:24 AM |
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mischivepixie
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 i have been looking and waiting to find a good man, some one sweet honest and for real but not someone old enough to e my father you know i want soe one who will smile and goof off with me as well as joke and e sill cuddle on the couch and laugh just because but i cant seem to find him and he aint finding me for sure, what do i do ppl i am lost  
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| Sep 16, 2006 @ 3:12 PM |
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redbronze
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LOL there is supposd to be some one for everyone.. I think that a myth in many ways but in other's like Pandora one has to have hope.. LOL.... make yorself happy there is not a single soul out there who can do that one simple thing except for yourself.. This is the advise from someone who has been single for a long while and find that I am happy within my self so if that someone comes into my life that is fine and if not that it fine too.. Smile.. Love you and be happy...
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| Sep 17, 2006 @ 3:29 PM |
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pecock100
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sure it all boils down to your defination of a real man, then using it as your gauge, you determine who can leep over that standard! just remember as time goe by, those standards will have to be adjusted to fit ans suite your taste once again.
advice: don't give up! 
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| Sep 17, 2006 @ 5:14 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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My advice would be to stop looking. It is when you least expect it that love will find you. If you go looking for love, you may make the mistake many people do make. They look and want love so bad that they try to make it happen and it ends disasterously. Just stop looking, love life, and it will happen.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 6:05 PM |
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mischivepixie
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i am not looking per say i am waiting..... but all i get are i wanna f*** you emails and stuff like that or men 5 times older then me it is so not kewl but i am waiting and relaxing and my standards r not so high, i just want some one honest sweet caring and loving, someone fun and great to be with i want the basics you know but r they too high??
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 6:21 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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Your standards and/or basics can not be too high. You are the only one who knows what you want and you should not settle for less. Dont lower your standards for anyone or any reason.
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| Oct 8, 2006 @ 3:37 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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I am not sure if the filter works on free memberships or if you have a paying membership but there is a filter system for emails. You can have it filter all the emails out that are above your preferred age group or people outside of the distance you wish to receive emails from. Even if they don't match some of your profile I think.
In your email page, click the settings tab and read it carefully.
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| Oct 8, 2006 @ 5:47 PM |
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The_Guy_99
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Actually it might be easier for you to opperate under tha assumption that all guys are jerks. Sure from time to time one can be both sweet and honest, but guys all have their moments where that are absolutely incorragable jerks. Then again, you may want to think about where u're looking to try and find a guy... or well as you said, where u're waiting to find a guy if the only people that find you are old enough to be your dad.
But It works in reverse too. Not every 'great guy' out there has found that somone for him either. For instance in the little bitty town that i'm livin in now, I've met about 4 great women..... my coworker's wives. So while you continue to wonder if there is a real man out there, I'll sit here and continue to wonder where the single women are.
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| Oct 22, 2006 @ 10:59 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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 Right Here!!!!  lol
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| Oct 26, 2006 @ 12:46 PM |
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ponderaa1
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My idea of a real man would be someone like Charles Ingalls on "Little House on the Prairie". I got most of my family values from watching Little House and the Waltons when I was a kid. I think it warped me, cause men like that aren't real nowdays.
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| Oct 28, 2006 @ 2:14 AM |
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jaminwesley
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Men aren't like that anymore. And neither are the women. Step outside the box a little bit. Not every guy is Michael Landon.
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| Oct 30, 2006 @ 6:22 AM |
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whatagal
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Not every guy is like Michael Landon...too bad...they should be.
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| Oct 30, 2006 @ 8:54 PM |
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lacyvsq
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 What a boring life it would be if all guys were the same. Whatever would we have to discuss in blogs and on the boards? What would we complain about? How would we know that our guy was head and shoulders above the rest?
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| Nov 1, 2006 @ 12:48 AM |
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3BearMom
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I think that there are a lot of great men out there ones that are ready and willing to make some woman the best man that they can be. We are all unique in our own ways not just men but women too. Like Lacy said if we were not different then what would be the use of looking for someone else you could just date yourself.
So men when a lady pays you a compliment of winking at you return in kind or email back thanking them and then go from there. You can either thank them and say no thanks or say thank you and see where it goes. I know that because of the non responses from men when I wink that I have stopped winking and just send an email instead.
I am sure that most women would prefer and email to a wink but then it is hard to start something when you fear rejection. I think that most men do fear rejection more than women and that is why they don’t wink or respond to winks and emails but then how are we ladies suppose to get your attention – this is a dilemma that needs solving guys. Tell us the ground rules that you want us to follow and I am pretty sure that every single woman will do their best to follow them. After all we are all here to find someone it should not be this hard.
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| Nov 4, 2006 @ 1:20 AM |
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moonsoup
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There's no such thing as a real man.
they're all fake.
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| Nov 4, 2006 @ 1:45 PM |
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Spawn8181
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All fake! Hummm a real man would not like to be told that! Matter a fact I am a REAL man. Why do you ask? Well lets see I am a single father raising my son going to school and work parttime and still make time to spend with my REAL friends! Most men have one thing on there brain and that is Where they can stick it! A real man lives his life for his family and if he is lucky enough find that one person that he can give his heart too!
There are still real men out there KEEP LOOKING you will find one!
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| Nov 5, 2006 @ 5:30 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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 Amen to that comment! 
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| Nov 5, 2006 @ 8:22 PM |
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redbronze
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Perhaps real men are doing what real women are raising kids and working.. Smile... This is what I am thinking as real men and real women don't have all the time in the world to scam others they only have time for a brief few remarks till they go back to doing what they have to do to make their families work out.. smile Spawn good response...
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| Nov 7, 2006 @ 12:02 AM |
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Spawn8181
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:) ty Just cannot stand some people saying we are all dogs or players.There is such a thing as Mr. Nice Guy! I hope I raise my son to respect and treat a woman like they deserve to be treated!
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| Nov 28, 2006 @ 1:25 AM |
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Ratigator
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I'm only 26 & with the average standard most people like to set for themselves these days, that ain't all that old. But I used to be real heavy about "finding that special someone" or "waiting for the right one to come along". Well, with all the efforts I'd put into my persuit & all the falling behind I'd came to realize that had happened in the course of my waiting around, I found that I missed out on the one thing I should've really been paying attention to. Life...
Anybody can be happy, anybody can be sad. But when you take a minute to just step back from it all, you really find yourself somewhere in the middle of everything else you've been doing & you get really confused about that. You start doubting the the quality of your being because of the end results of your efforts & this pulls you into that down-spiral of depression & anxiety.
If anyone'd asked me (which, I know, no one did), you shouldn't assess your worth based on the end result of your efforts. You should base them on the "quality" of your efforts. It's like that saying..."You get what you pay for". This same concept can be just as true for our love lives as it is for buying a lawn mower at a garage sale. Most people don't look at things this way & if they say they do, they really aren't...because the assessment is so astonishing, it literally changes your direction without warning, notice, or recognition.
But this issue is very contradictory, which is why you can't look at it any other way but carefully. A woman can get hit on & harassed online just as easily as she can in a bar. Guys...we can get blown off MORE easily than we can, even. So the spectrum is balanced. It always has been. But the assessment of it's quality is simple- that's just life. People say your life is what you make it. Look at it very carefully; look at all the things you're NOT doing even more than the ones that you are. Consider the possibilities & take your actions, accordingly.
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