| Sep 19, 2006 @ 7:27 PM |
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mischivepixie
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why do ppl think is so nice to be rude, to make "freinds" with some one and then call them names.......... i got no clue for i know i am not a toothpick but i am not a whale, what do you think??
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 11:41 AM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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I think that you should not pay anyone who makes those thoughtless and crude comments any mind at all. First, you need to love yourself. Then everything else will fall into place. As long as you like yourself the way you are and keep your self respect then people will see you the way you see yourself. Anyone who makes those crude comments, mostly have a complex about themselves. They do rude things in order to make themselves feel better. Most of the time, those people are very unhappy people who seek attention in any possible manner. You have to like and be happy with yourself.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 1:39 PM |
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DwainP50
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Ditto! Right on the mark "criminal_justice_major_20"! 
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 6:08 PM |
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mischivepixie
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i love me there is no prolem with that it is just them, i love me to my crazy i dont give a crp attitude and crazy ass self, i know i am sweet and i know i will make anyman happy but the thing is when ppl like that show up and say shit i get pissed, as i put it at least i know that when some one goes to sleep at night they know they r holding a women with curves not some tooth pick lol anyways thanx
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 6:17 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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Comments like that use to make me mad as well but I had to get it thru my head that no matter what anyone said it would not bother me. Getting pissed off is what they want you to do. They get pleasure in the fact that they have the power to control an emotion.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 9:04 PM |
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lacyvsq
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That little block button works just great for people that make those comments.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 11:10 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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You are right about the block button lol I have had to use that button a few times myself lol
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| Sep 23, 2006 @ 10:52 PM |
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mischivepixie
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i try that but if i do that then ten thousand ppl will be on that list i get 30 or so messeges a day asking me if we can phne sex cam to cam or meet up danm well i will try thatnx yall so has anything kewl been going on
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 2:56 PM |
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baghdaddy8099
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There is always a percentage that are dis-honest and covering up for their short comings. They are hiding something from you and what ever was said or done exposed them. Just be honest and true to yourself and ignor the undesirable.
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 7:25 PM |
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baldy855
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Another perspective: Many people build themselves up by putting others down. Most who do this learned it during high school peer pressure and it is so much a part of them they don't realize what they are doing. If you point it out to them they will sometimes become aggressive and accuse you of being over sensitive or making it all about you. They aren't trying to put you down but build themselves up. With that understood you can decide what kind of relationship you want with that person.
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| Oct 8, 2006 @ 3:23 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Hi Pixie...I went to your profile to take a look at it and see if maybe there was something there that was getting these guys after you. If you want the quality of the people that are contacting you to change, make some pictures in which you do not look scantily clad and are not sexually provacative.
The pix (looks like a bra or lingerie to me) look rather like you are advertizing for that type of people. Then in your profile are many sexy hints for further enjoyment along those lines. If you aren't fishing for that type of man, change the 'bait' you are throwing out there. Dig thru that profile and take the teasing parts out, post a pix that isn't luring.
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 12:00 AM |
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TigerSoul
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Sounds like you're running into internet goobers. Though it's not going to be a popular opinion here, websites and chatrooms are not exactly the greatest cross-sample of psychologically and socially balanced people. Before anyone gets their panties in a wad over this statement, I will concede that the Texas forum on MD seems to have a bit higher maturity bar than most.
Good rule of thumb is to not invest time or energy into those not worthy of it -- whether it's on a computer screen or in the corporeal world. I am reprehensibly offensive, but typically with those I'm close to who can immediately recognize it's humor. 
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| Oct 9, 2006 @ 2:13 PM |
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chubby_apple78
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First of all, Pixie, you should not let anyone get to you. Why would you care about what any one on the internet has to say about you. It's likely that you will not meet most of these jerks, so why would you let a remark made by someone who does not mean anything to you, that you do not even know , and probably will never meet get to you? I suggest that you have fun with internet dating. Be an online player, meet lots of guys, examine your options, until you find someone that is worthy enough to give them all of your time. I think a lot of girls get hurt because they start talking to a guy and can already start imagining futures with men. It's not like that! I know this girl who got her heartbroken a few months ago and she is still trying to get over it and it was over a guy she was talking to for TWO WEEKS!!! That's nuts! Take it slow. Have fun! If a guy you hardly know is rude to you blow it off...dont even think twice about it because afterall he is insignificant to your life, so dont give him any importance by thinking about it. I am a big girl, too, so trust me i've had my share of comments. and I only get those remarks after I realize that for some reason we didnt click and choose to move on...so its there bruised ego thats talking....whatever it is...dont sweat it....men come and go....eventually you'll find yours. I hope for your sake its sooner than later!!  best wishes!
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| Oct 10, 2006 @ 7:55 AM |
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1948496
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I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This isn't an excuse to gain...maybe...just don't excede! When you get right down to it...heck...cna/do you love as good as the other woman?
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