| Feb 1, 2007 @ 12:48 AM |
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wildbutgoodgirl
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When I moved here I could not get over all the men being such jerks. Standing up women not even calling to tell them they will be a no show. and when the do show they only want one thing and if you dont give that up in about 10min. then they are read to call the night over. But now that I have found md and read blogs and profiles I understand a little bit why the men here are like that. I would not want to be around all the rules and judgment that most women give out. nothing seems to make them happy.
No not all texas women are this way and no not all texas men are either. but please ladies look back at what we are saying. try to view it from a man's view. would you want to talk to you.
p.s. men stoping standing the women up and if are not going to show up call them!!
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| Feb 1, 2007 @ 9:09 AM |
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Guerrero
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Some of us "other guys" know how to approach women that know what they want. I've got high expectations just like anyone else should when it comes to meeting a potential.
My expectations are only on things that people can change ... not the things they can't.
You can always have your attitudes, dislikes, likes, interests, tastes, etc changed.
You can't however change your height, skin colour, etc.
So, with that being said, maybe you should open up your preferences in some areas, and close out on the things that are changeable ... get with someone that fits your personality regardless of height, skin colour, etc ... and you might find happiness.
When you limit your options... you can't be surprised when the pool is empty by the time you get to it.
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| Feb 1, 2007 @ 10:33 PM |
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wildbutgoodgirl
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Guerrero what you said was nice and true but what does it have to do with women bicthing? no i am not trying to start a fight. I am just missing the link. I read your post as being against racism and my post has nothing to do with racism. Please let me know if i am wrong.
Once again i do think what you wrote was a good point view.
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| Feb 2, 2007 @ 4:32 PM |
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a_heinsohn
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Wild, his post seemed to be more targeted towards your only including caucasians in your profile. Which I dunno, I think there are enough choices online for dating that its not like you'll be running out of new candidates anytime soon just because you narrow things down a bit. I don't know how particular you are about that preference and it really doesn't matter. If something unchangeable is unnattractive to a person then why should they try to force themselves to change their own minds? I would sooner be more lenient on changeable aspects of my date than things that will never change. My date doesn't like theater? Eh, maybe she'll change her mind. She's 8 feet tall? Pfft, maybe we can be friends...as long as she doesn't expect to ride with me in my civic anyways.
As for your original topic yeah I see some women fuss about where are all the good guys at blah blah blah. But I typically notice just as many whiny guys too.
Just out of curiosity though did you not have these dating problems before moving to Dallas because thats how it sounded. I find that to be strange but then again I'm not a single woman in Dallas so I wouldn't know. In Houston I can say I can't recall a date ever being a no show nor have I ever done such a thing to my dates. I've always found it odd how many people complain about bad date experiences. Either I have great luck (not success, just a good time meeting new people) or I'm just not as pessimistic as some.
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| Feb 2, 2007 @ 9:19 PM |
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wildbutgoodgirl
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a_heinsohn no i have never had any bad dating untill i moved here. At first i wondered if it was just me being an outsider then i got to know some women that have grown up here and they said the same thing. Thank goodness it is not just me. lol
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| Feb 3, 2007 @ 4:44 PM |
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Guerrero
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Well let me clarify myself a little more clearly before my words get turned futher than what they already apparently are.
"Other guys" = guys that don't stand people up, guys that know how to treat a woman, etc.
Racism had nothing to do with what I was trying to say. I was trying to get the point across to step out of your "normal searches" and be open to new people. Maybe you ere just lucky in the past, but in texas there are too many shady people.
Your title is "bitchy women" but you're talkin' about men ... so that alone just kind of threw me off, sorry about the confusion. Like if you're used to meeting guys in a bar ... don't expect to find "mr. right" in texas from a bar, or a club, or anywhere similar to it.
I've always said Tx is a bipolar state, we've got mainly extremists here ... extreme personalities on both ends of the scale. You just have to roll the dice and find someone in the middle.
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| Feb 4, 2007 @ 12:01 AM |
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wildbutgoodgirl
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OOO ok. and to make myself clear i can understand men standing women up here because they bicth so much is what i was trying to say.. and as far as my box, i dont do clubs or bars.But you are right i need to get myself out and find out what dallas has to offer other then clubs and bars. i like the arts so, where are all the art spots? lol
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