| Apr 26, 2007 @ 9:56 PM |
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arlington_angel777
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Is it just me, or what the hell happened to the nice guys out here? There are some that CLAIM to be nice guys, but they seem to be pigs like the rest...or is it too much to ask to find a man that opens doors, or is over his last relationship, or let down that they do not want a serious relationship...what is that crap?? And what's this "Lets just be friends with benefits crap"?? Are all you men pigs?? Maybe the nice guys do not live in Texas??
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| Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:09 PM |
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palehorse
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Maybe they are here,...but don't want to talk to someone that assumes that all of them are bad....even if they are quite sincere.
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| Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:18 PM |
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arlington_angel777
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I am still waiting, I have yet to meet a nice guy. And you may be one of the nice guys, but seem to hung up on past, or ex wives or wife to give anyone else a chance? Like I said...there may be a few, but they are too hung up on past disappointments to even give anyone else a chance.
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| Apr 26, 2007 @ 11:05 PM |
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palehorse
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I had my hang-ups to be sure.
I try to be honest about what I want. I give everyone a chance to be a friend but just want the prospective friend to respect my wants and wishes as well.
Anyway,....I don't need "bennefits" to be friends with anyone. I'm friends with a few on here that I have never even met in person. I know it's different for women on these boards (harder it seems), but try to be patient. I'm sure someone will cross your parth.
Best wishes to you,
~R
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| Apr 27, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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SaddenedHeart
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Well, those statements would be totally untrue if I were closer to your age. But being to old for you, it leaves that out.
I definitely believe in opening doors for my lady, as well as holding her chair.
I am most certainly looking for a committed relationship, not just a one nighter.
I am the one who ended my last relationship, so was over it before the door closed! ;}
And I do live in TX...just down the road from you in Irving.
So......
Except for the fact that I'm to old for you, don't think I'd qualify as a pig.
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| May 16, 2007 @ 12:12 PM |
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arlington_angel777
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The pychos are not only on line, but every where. Do I need to get back ground checks on everyone I meet?? GEEZ!!! What is the world coming to? Ya meet someone in person, and not on line, but still you run into registered sex offenders. and convicts. I give up...guess it is best not to date at all or just check backgrounds before I even go out with them....really sad people have to resort in back ground checks on people before they even go out...it is a sick world we live in today!!!
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| May 16, 2007 @ 1:29 PM |
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palehorse
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Maybe you should not concentrate so hard to "find" someone. You are beautiful,..you will meet a good guy in time I'm sure.
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| May 17, 2007 @ 3:30 PM |
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arlington_angel777
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I have mostly been focusing on myself and my little one, getting my business off the ground, the LOOSERS just seem to "FIND" me. It must be ingraved on my forehead or something...lol 
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| May 18, 2007 @ 11:08 PM |
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chevyred
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yes there is alot of us out here that are good honest men.  but when we all come a cross some like you that refuses to look for good in others [and ther is a lot more good than bad] . if more people would stop all the bull shit and be a little more kind to ther fellow human being and start thinking with ther hearts insted of ther ass holes. mybe just mybe we all could find some one to grow old with. so yea i have been on this site looking for a nice lady. and when i see some thing like you [ arlington_angel1777 ].  it makes me wonder where all the nice ladys in texas have gone 
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| May 19, 2007 @ 12:51 AM |
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PCrepair61
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Im not from TX and I live in Amarillo...and there r no single men here...and I hate ta tell ya..but some women cant let go of their bad past relationship's either...the TX panhandle sucks. I think there r some great men in TX but they sure rn't in Amarillo lol.
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| May 19, 2007 @ 4:59 AM |
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arlington_angel777
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I look for the good in people all the time....I do not think its asking too much to find someone that is faithful, pays their own bills, and not have to worry about someone raping me or my child. I am guessing that since you are so rude in your postings, that you too must be one of the loosers, or you might stop to ask someone a few things about the people they have met and not make assumptions and get nasty with responses, and yes it would be nice if people would start treating each other better. There are those of us like myself, that would do anything to help someone out that needed help or just someone there to listen and be a friend and there are creeps like you that assume things and are rude without gathering the facts first!!
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| May 19, 2007 @ 5:01 PM |
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chevyred
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you just poved my point. and i was not being roude i was telling it like it was
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| May 19, 2007 @ 5:06 PM |
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chevyred
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ow and by the by the lasy from amarillo said it best some weman can't look past old relationship's 
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| May 20, 2007 @ 1:09 AM |
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arlington_angel777
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And some just can't spell...lol
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| May 20, 2007 @ 8:53 AM |
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countrysimple
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The question you started with is where have all the good men gone.
There are still some out there. There is one on this site that is a very good man. I know, I dated him for almost two years. He is a very good man and any woman would be lucky to have him.
Did you ever stop and think maybe it isn't them but you that is the problem? From the things you have said on here you seem to be the type that holds all the mistakes of your past problems against everyone you meet. There are some real jerks out there and we have all met some of them but that doesn't mean they all are. If you start out thinking they are going to be jerks it isn't fair to them or you.
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| May 20, 2007 @ 10:17 AM |
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arlington_angel777
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Why on earth would you think I would hold past mistakes on everyone I meet?? That is a load of crap!!!! I NEVER DO THAT!!!! Have you actually READ the postings on here or are you just trying to stir up crap??? ONE I dated from this site...a truck driver. Nice at first then he decided it was too much for a phone call every now and then, I do not mean every day even...once a week would have been nice. Another guy not from this site...I helped him get into an apt. and move here, paid his bills for a few months even!!! I am a single parent, I do not think it is asking too much for a man to get a job and pay his own bills!!! The last one just recently...dated him 2 weeks before he told me he is a registered child molester, ect. and was in jail 12 yrs. So how is all 3 of these guys I have met have anything to do with the other?? NOT A THING!!! So how did I hold what the guy before him did to me against the next guy I met?? NOT!!! GET THE FACTS BEFORE YOU START BASHING SOMEONE!!! If the guy you met on here was so great, and anyone would be lucky to have him...then why are you not still with him?? Or WERE YOU THE PROBLEM??!!!!!
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| May 20, 2007 @ 10:31 AM |
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palehorse
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just beacuse someone is great doesn't mean you are meant to be with them...
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| May 20, 2007 @ 1:28 PM |
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countrysimple
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I stand by my original post ........ oh and I did get your email about it.
The man was that great and I may have been the problem. I just wasn't what he was looking for. That is not his fault and I really don't think it is mine but if it makes you happy to think that go ahead.
If your additude was the same with the truck driver I understand him not calling. The second one ..... well ... If you had to help him get a place to live and pays his bills that should have told you something. The last one, there are webites that let you check that and with a child you should have.
That still doesn't mean all men are like that.
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| May 20, 2007 @ 2:02 PM |
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Newsguy56
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All the good men haven't gone anywhere. We are right there in plain sight.
We work a fulltime job and pay our bills on time.
We do the cooking, the laundry, the yardwork and the housework (well, sometimes). You see us in church, in the mall, at the movie theater and might pass us in the grocery store aisles. But in the blink of an eye, we won't meet the "good man" criteria because we are too old, too overweight, too short, too tall or too (fill in the blank).
You might think: "Maybe he is married and has a family, or already has a girlfriend (and a wife and a family, if he is a good time juggler)." Or "He's just not my type."
Reverse the roles and it would be the same thing for a guy looking for "a good woman."
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| May 20, 2007 @ 7:22 PM |
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arlington_angel777
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Well, everything there you listed...NO PROBLEM!! I look at whats on the inside more then what is on the outside. You may be drop dead gorgeous but if u r an ass NOT INTERESTED!!! I am sure that applies to most men and women. Most that I have encountered are very shallow and are looking for the barbie doll or model type, which I am NOT!! About the only things that would be a problem are the things I mention on here, and the ages, and location. Hard to date someone more then 30-40 miles away, you would never see them!!
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