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Sep 7, 2008 @ 11:20 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
I AM A 28 YEAR OLD DIVORCED FEMALE FROM THE RIO GRANDE VALLEY TEXAS. NO KIDS GOOD JOB. DIVORCED FOR 9+ YEARS. R ALL MEN OUT THERE JUST LOOKING TO A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS NOW A DAYS? ARE MEN AFFRAID OF INDEPENDENT WOMEN? MAYBE BECAUSE I AM INDEPENDENT THEY FIND ME INTIMIDATING. SOMEONE HAVE ANY INPUT?
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Sep 7, 2008 @ 11:25 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
All the friends I ever had did not come with benefits........but a good dental plan or a 401k would be nice
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Sep 7, 2008 @ 11:28 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
LOL THANKS I NEEDED THAT.
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Sep 7, 2008 @ 11:55 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
I like independent women........did you vote for Ron Paul too???
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Sep 7, 2008 @ 11:59 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
I ACTUALLY DID
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 12:06 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
yes....very independent.........no wonder you scare democrats.........
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 12:12 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
well then they r just insecure
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 12:16 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
I like all my bank deposits secure..........I sleep better at night
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 12:20 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
funny
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 12:28 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 1:29 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
texastigress


Posts: 13
berenice,

Most men are out there for just that - whether it be one night or a FWB situation. I was in the same situation, except these guys wanted me to participate in swinging, BDSM or some other weird thing that floats their boats and not mine. You know what? I'm with you. Most men don't want to be with women who have their heads on straight - I think that they're afraid that this strong and independent woman will dump them in a heartbeat whereas the needy ones will cling to them like these guys were their life support. You and I really don't need a man in our lives to make ourselves complete, but we want a man in our lives. I'm hoping that the one I met recently and like very much is wanting to develop a REAL relationship because like you (and I've been divorced for almost 25 years) are looking for something other than a FWB or NSA arrangement.

Good luck in your search and wish me luck with mine...

=^..^=
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Sep 8, 2008 @ 1:31 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
man...what a lucky guy.......wish I could be that lucky
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Sep 9, 2008 @ 7:15 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
texastigress


Posts: 13
u b velly rucky if u catch clicket and keep 4 pet...
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Sep 9, 2008 @ 1:26 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
thank you so much for your post. its good to know i am not the only one that feels like this. i was starting to think i was crazy. thankds again and good luck in ur current situation.
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Sep 9, 2008 @ 8:04 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
i am crazy.....but it helps
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Sep 10, 2008 @ 8:04 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
texastigress


Posts: 13
You're quite welcome Berenice. Remember, you're not alone. And don't mind Loinlee_Sole...he's a cute, sharp-witted smart@ss.
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Sep 10, 2008 @ 1:45 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
Loinlee_Sole


Posts: 166
I dont have a smart ass .......just a highly intelligent left cheek
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Sep 12, 2008 @ 2:46 AM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
SpiritOrnery


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Sep 14, 2008 @ 1:32 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
DwainP50


Posts: 5,102
MOST men Huh? I love when people use most or all. I guess we are all lucky that ALL wasn’t use yet! That would apply that you know me and that I have done all that you complained about, plus being intimidated by your independent nature. I guess to a few women there are three categories of men,
ALL, MOST or Others! I must be in the OTHER category because it would be refreshing to find an independent woman and not one who is clingy or over bearing or dominate or attitude or to change you to suit her family or friends. I always felt that if men act a certain way it is because they found in there pass that some lady or ladies who were willing to go along with that type of accommodations in relationships. Believe me when I say this a lot of men will not do certain things over and over again if it didn’t work for them in the pass. In a way maybe certain ladies need to clean up their act also, what do you think?

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Sep 14, 2008 @ 1:48 PM DIVORCED, INDEPENDENT, AND LOOKING    
berenice


Posts: 9
what do u mean clean up their act? as to your remark about mort all or other, when i say most i mean 90% not 100% therefore i said most. so i dont understand why men get offended when women say most. if your not in thagt percentile then dont worry about it. as to clean up their act u need to be specific coz ur generalizing by saying their implying that all women need to clean their act up. so that takes me back to u being slightly offended by me saying most which is basically what ur saying by typing clean up their act. becareful what u type.
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