| Mar 27, 2006 @ 11:32 AM |
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texmexchuck
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Hello Everyone,
I'm looking for a lover and friend in Central Texas, check my profile out and get back with me....have a great day.
Chuck
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| Aug 31, 2006 @ 4:12 AM |
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lacyvsq
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Hmmmm....wonder if Chuck found a friend and lover or just gave up. Anyone know Chuck?
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 11:30 PM |
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TRAVIS1946
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Maybe he up and chucked it!
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 12:40 AM |
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MemIndigo
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Kind of funny Travis...the banana liked it too 
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 6:48 PM |
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lacyvsq
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 12:33 AM |
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TRAVIS1946
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Bows and basks in the glow! 
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 11:00 PM |
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lacyvsq
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Hello Everyone,
I'm looking for a lover and friend in Southeast Texas, check my profile out and get back with me....have a great day.
Lacy
Now if I am off for more than 3 months, you can speculate on whether I laced it up...
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 11:46 PM |
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lukingforu
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I have always been told that is Friends with Benefits. Just another excuse to avoid commitment or monogamy.
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 12:38 AM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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VERY TRUE!!!!!!!!!
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 1:23 AM |
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lacyvsq
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Not necessarily. My parents were married for more than 50 years and were friends and lovers in a monogamous and committed relationship.
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 2:06 AM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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Yes, but in order for a relationship to be successful, you need to have friendship first, then the other is just the inevitable. In my own opinion, if he were looking for a monogamous relationship, then he shouldn't have to post that he wants a lover and friend.
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 2:38 AM |
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lacyvsq
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I dunno -- a lover and friend sounds sort of poetic
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 7:46 AM |
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muckraker22
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I agree.
for some of us, the emotional link is just as important as the physical
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 2:22 PM |
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Pwilliams09
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This is very true, I went a while before I hookup with an old friend but when I realize that there was nothing more there than the physical aspect, I was kindda shocked that I wasn't really up for continuing to hookup.
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 10:16 AM |
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palehorse
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I have always been told that is Friends with Benefits. Just another excuse to avoid commitment or monogamy.
Why should someone need an excuse to avoid commitment or monogamy?
Why can't he/she just not wanting a commitment or being monogomous for a while be ok??
I have been in that position before. Matter of fact, I'm in that position right now. Freshly divorced, I'd just like to meet some new people & make some new friends.
If we spend an evening comforting each other, even if its just holding hands, why should it be a commitment on either party to be something more than an evenings comfort?
My old "friends with bennefits" days were some of the happiest of my life. You know, I am still friends with all of them. The "bennefits" are gone due to various reasons, but the friendships still remain. More than what can be said for either of my marriages.
I make no excuses. I am here to make friends. If the bennefits come later; Bonus. If not,..I've _STILL_ made a friend. Nothing wrong with that, is there??
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 11:32 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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I agree, I have done the monogamus and commitment to find I should have just committed myself to a nut house lol, I am STILL paying for THAT mistake. Wah!
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 11:53 PM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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I agree with both of the previous comments made by palehorse and SpiritEnergy.
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 11:58 PM |
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magicalgirl
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Ditto...You don't have to have a piece of paper to have an honest long lasting relationship. It seems to me when there is no paper work involved both parties tend to put their best foot forward always. However when it's legal it seems to get too comfortable & both parties begin to feel neglected!
As far as I'm concerned if it's fun yippee, but when it becomes complicated & stars dragging ya down then it's adios for me!!
Just my 2 cents for whatever it's worth!
BTW SpiritEnergy I definitely agree about the nuthouse & marriage part...lol...
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 11:58 PM |
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palehorse
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You're preaching to the choir. Any time I hear the words "bi-polar", "annorexic" or "depressed: I start twitching. The thing is, looking back, there were signs all over. Maybe being older now I can start saying, "Here's your sign!" LOL!
Then,....run like HELL!
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| Sep 28, 2006 @ 12:04 AM |
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criminal_justice_major_20
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LMAO @ palehorse
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