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Jul 5, 2006 @ 9:05 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
lovingyoualways


Posts: 8
Since we are on this why thing.....why is it that women say they are single and looking for that special someone, yet in their photo they are all hugged up with some guy or sitting on his lap. ??????? What is up with that??

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Jul 5, 2006 @ 11:49 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
un_angel_ha_vuelto


Posts: 4
well i dont think i have a pic with any men in it, but that goes to the next question, why do men take a photo with a chick and instead of just having a new picture taken, with web cams and throw away cameras they decide to take the pic crop it and take the person out so u see like half a arm of a girl when you mention it, they are like oh thats no one, then later u find out its their current girlfriend
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Jul 6, 2006 @ 7:53 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
lovingyoualways


Posts: 8
I didn't say that I meant all women. If it doesn't apply, then i'm not talking about you.Yes, that is true. That's what i'm talking about. However, not only men do that. Some ladies are also guilty of the very same thing. Moreover, in my case; it turned out to be her husband and they were still curently married and living together with their 5 children. Go Figure

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Jul 10, 2006 @ 11:50 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
lacyvsq


Posts: 6,163
Hmmm....you know where I can get one of those guys to get all hugged up with for a picture?
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Jul 12, 2006 @ 6:50 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
dravan


Posts: 4
And this brings up another issue. those that dont even post a photo. come on what ya got to hide for crying out loud that's rediculous, complaing about one thing and not doing another as well
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Jul 13, 2006 @ 7:18 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
un_angel_ha_vuelto


Posts: 4
I couldnt agree more, why is it that we have to send u are personal email addy for a pic, is it that risque that it cant be posted here? At least a simple Head shot and i mean the one on your shoulders.

I have to say two kudos to ya dravan
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Jul 13, 2006 @ 6:22 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
lovingyoualways


Posts: 8
We are not talking about pictures being posted or not. We were talking about people lying about their pictures that are posted. It is up the person if they want to post a picture or not and respect their choice. That does not mean they are trying to hide something. Me...i chose not to put my picture up. (If that was directed toward me.) It is just a preference; everyone has his or her own. I don't have anything to hide. And by the way, why would a guy worry about other guys pictures being up?? Something to make you go hmmmmmmm......

By the way, it is spelled "ridiculous" Shakes head

Tech Sargeant Hernandez

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Jul 14, 2006 @ 12:51 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
baperoxideprincess


Posts: 1
I agree... pictures are completely a personal preference. However, without pictures, most people won't even respond... That is a shame. It just goes to show you how superficial we are now...
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Jul 16, 2006 @ 5:50 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
magicmouth2u


Posts: 1
well hopefully my .... none hugged up pic with a man will show soon... if your single your single if your not yout not just post the facts please
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Sep 13, 2006 @ 4:37 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
crm282


Posts: 3
Alrighty, dravan, not everyone has the ability to post a photo. I used to have a digital camera...gone...I am not on a computer at my home, so I cannot save one to the files on this computer...come on. I don't even remember how I got my photo posted here. But, I know that I do have one photo saved on my e-mail account. That's where e-mailing someone for a pic comes in. I used to have more on my old computer, but it died. So, give people a chance.
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Sep 14, 2006 @ 11:23 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
TRAVIS1946


Posts: 82
A dead computer can be most un-co-operative. (did I spell that right??) That is understandable for not keeping a good supply of photos. On top of that, many employers frown on such work time activities.

At any rate, women and men should post the best quality image they can so that others can see what they really look like. The images should be no more than two years old and as clear as possible. Webcam and phone cam pictures usually are of extremely poor quality and leave a poor impression.
If nothing else, put on your Sunday-go-meeting finery on and go to Sears, Olen-Mills or some other inexpensive studio. Spending a lot of money is not necessary. You can get the photo scanned at many print shops, or one hour photo shops.
Most of your images should be fairly close up so your face can be seen clearly. Full length, scenic type pictures just don't cut it. Group pictures, unless with your children or grand-children, are not good.
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Sep 15, 2006 @ 3:40 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
d_morris_60


Posts: 2
Superficial or not,Ive been Burned too many times by women saying one thing and looking totally different when we met.

Sorry I know we have all been there and done that,but its a fact of Internet Dating.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 11:00 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
TRAVIS1946


Posts: 82

Re: Lacy..."Hmmm....you know where I can get one of those guys to get all hugged up with for a picture? "

Hugs are good for your health, even from casual blog thread writers. I have a few to spare.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 11:17 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
TRAVIS1946


Posts: 82
Re: d_morris about being burned.

Likewise about being burned. Last time I met someone without a photo, she could have been presentable if she had good grooming habits. Sloppy clothes, unkempt hair, no makeup, and deplorable manners do not make a good impression.
No matter what a persons physical characteristics, she or he can be neat and presentable. Good grooming is very important in attracting a friend, lover or mate. It also says a lot about what a person thinks about her or him self.
There is such a thing as fear of the unknown.

Anyway, there is someone for everyone.
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Sep 17, 2006 @ 5:44 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
criminal_justice_major_20


Posts: 33
Most of the time, females tend to post pictures like that to take away any insecurity they have about themselves.
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Sep 24, 2006 @ 7:47 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
lacyvsq


Posts: 6,163
Travis, maybe we should get together and exchange a hug or two...

You also have great wisdom concerning the grooming. I used to define good looking as good hygiene and a fairly flat stomach. If a person does not care for himself/herself, why should s/he think that someone else would care for him/her. That caring applies not only to physical appearance, but also to mental and emotional/spiritual health. Perhaps also to financial health. On the other hand, I think sometimes people deliberately or sometimes unconciously downplay themselves to insulate from actually having relationship.

Hmmmmm
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Sep 25, 2006 @ 12:33 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
criminal_justice_major_20


Posts: 33
Now that is truly something that makes you go hummmmmmmm
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Sep 26, 2006 @ 7:59 AM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
muckraker22


Posts: 5
lacyvsq,


you have valid points. as have several others here in ths blog

for me, there is another option.
I am what you might call, in the limelight. I am very well known
throughout Fort Bend County, although the word celebrity would
not be appropriate to describe me.
nevertheless, it is my decision to remain unseen until I meet
someone and then I will share my photo

I would rather remain annonymous (looks wise) for that reason


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Sep 27, 2006 @ 9:28 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
Phyllis


Posts: 178
I tried to cut the guy out of my picture and when it's on the forum as the last one posted, it looks like a fun house mirror deal-but who cares anyway? Some people, like me for instance, don't have a scanner and have to send pictures to my friend in Michigan for her to scan for me. I'm totally dense about all the great things computers do.
As for the ones not posting pictures-that's just as good as the ones who post pictures that are 29 years old and 59 pounds ago. Mine's horrible, but...alas...it's fairly recent and I am not trying to hide behind a couch or just have a face shot or whatever-It's full length and it's close up enough to see the real me...for better or worse...
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Oct 6, 2006 @ 9:46 PM Something to make you go hmmmmmm.....    
SpiritOrnery


Posts: 24,150
Well, I had a pix without a man in it and it had a camera in it so I covered it up in paint. It turned out lots of fun doing it. In another pix, I covered a pimple up but didn't use the pix. You can open the picture up in paint and copy part of the picture and cover the hand up, lol! If you are good. Pretty fun!
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