| Mar 28 @ 4:10 PM |
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RachelVaz
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I hear ya,,, girl.. The best of luck to u!!!
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| Apr 23 @ 9:09 AM |
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catman602
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 I wonder why single moms think a guy will not date them "just " because of the kids ? I want the kids to like me . and mom like me . we can go anywheres . Oh , I forgot . < ---- big kid here . Yes , I am the big kid .  don't tell mom I am .  mom mihgt tell me to clean up this mess .  BUT , the the . MOM . why .
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| Apr 25 @ 11:59 PM |
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Makya
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I haven't had a problem getting a date because of it, but have decided not to go further because of it. I had dates that seemed to be great when it was just us. Went on several dates with them and decided to introduce them to my children. But I didn't like their interaction with my children, so I broke it off.
Only happened twice though. Very picky about who meets my kids.
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| May 12 @ 11:27 PM |
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RAKS37
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Are you hesitant to date a woman who has children
Dunno, but maybe shoulda.
Things went south with GF
Coulda loved her two like my own
Kinda multiplies the pain.
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| May 23 @ 10:39 PM |
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lilred2004
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I agree with ya to some extent on that. I have three boys two of them live with their dad and when I have them on the weekend they are definalty kinda shoved up my you know what. My other son is only a month old so he has could care less.
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| Jun 13 @ 4:50 PM |
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loneoak99
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its harder the find a guy with having kids. I guess when they see your kids they just hit the door. Or your just looking for a guy that does not care you have kids
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| Aug 2 @ 9:19 PM |
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Lee4love1
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I am hesitant at times when I see how her kids act. If they are smart mouthed and I have seen plenty...How can I even change that?
It's ok to date a single Mother--but she doesn't have to be perfect. I don't expect her to be...I would date her--if we could understand each other..
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| Aug 3 @ 2:02 AM |
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mzlara388
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I date, my son doesn't. That's the key. I have to be very comfortable for my son to be brought into the picture.
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| Aug 6 @ 2:21 AM |
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painter007
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My sons are now 20 and 18....and over the last 2 years I probably went out maybe 10 times......but the 13 years before that I never dated....I just raised them.....I just couldnt bring myself to have someone in my life while they were young and it not working out. I couldnt do that to their little hearts. but thats just me, and I dont regret it at all....
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| Aug 6 @ 2:40 AM |
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ragtopcookie
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The past 14 years of single parenting...i only dated single mothers.....and only then...every other weekend....when my kids went to their moms....worked out visitation where we both had a kid free weekend to be single.....plus i joined parents without partners....learned alot about being a single parent......cookie
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| Aug 6 @ 3:03 AM |
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painter007
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Maybe its because my sons dad didnt make time for his sons that I had them all the time......But I would do the same thing over again in a heartbeat 
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| Aug 8 @ 6:03 PM |
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h0pper
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I dated a woman that had two daughters. One lived with her and the other was married and had a child but lived across the street from her. We had talked for mothes before we met for the first time. I wanted to meet her children but she felt it would be best that I don't. I found out later that the live at home daughter did not want her to meet me at all. As time past both daughters and the lady's grandchildren accepted me. I never tried to be their daddy. I only tried to be that person they wanted me to be. I made thier mother happy and I made them happy also. The disipline action was hers. She asked for guidence as did her kids. I gave to them what I felt was the best intentions and let it be just that. This lady and had our parting but still are good freinds. Her children talk to on occations and still traet me as a father in some ways. They know that I will be blunt but honest and that is what they want to hear. Just saying here. Don't replace....be there when needed
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| Aug 8 @ 6:20 PM |
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painter007
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My sons baseball coach was a great influence on them  and yes blunt.....black and white.....no grey area.....but in a loving guiding way.
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| Oct 12 @ 5:45 PM |
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INDIANA_BBW
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I am a single Mother of a 16yr old and I tell u this he is far from being a mommas boy..I have raised him by myself all his life and I tell u this the most exciting thing I have done with my life....his dad left me when i was pregnant so i picked up what i was supposed to do and raised him the best i could
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