| Mar 3, 2008 @ 2:40 PM |
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I12B810
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I was wondering why don't men want baby daddys involved in the kids life. I had a man quit talking to me since my kids daddy see's them a man from here (penjoylife) replied "i see well im not ok with ex's being extra baggage sorry bye". I always believe its great when a absent parent is involved! Whats wrong with this guy?
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 2:41 PM |
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I12B810
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I mean it's not like I hang out with my ex!
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 2:48 PM |
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waiting41
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The father of your children is only baggage if you step out of the boundaries of co-parenting. This guy is obviously immature and insecure, and you don't need the stress, nor do your children. Good luck!
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 2:48 PM |
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Loreli
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Competition...lack of self esteem.
and not all men are like that, thank the Lord.
I do know women that are like that also!
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 2:53 PM |
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Fullstopstart
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I think it is down to selfishness and possesiveness That man wants all for himself.
Me. Another man could not replace the bondage of the initial childs Father.
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| Mar 6, 2008 @ 4:07 PM |
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swingpup
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Sweety, what you do, who you associate with for what ever reason is certainly no individuals business but your own. By not talking or typing to you I think he did you a huge favor. 
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| Mar 10, 2008 @ 2:36 AM |
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Say_Yes
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Well, he is an immature, jerk, who is threatened by your ex. You are better off without him and fortunately, you found out sooner, rather than later.
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| Mar 13, 2008 @ 2:48 PM |
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I12B810
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Thank you everyone who replied. I appreciate all your comments. I realize that he is trying to be a control person or very immature. Thank you again.
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| Mar 13, 2008 @ 4:19 PM |
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swingpup
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anytime   
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| Jan 8 @ 10:28 PM |
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wolfy72103
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i can help you understand I KNOW this man.. and the advice you got was right on!!!
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| Jan 11 @ 3:56 PM |
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jamminjerry
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perhaps you might google "classical conditioning". that is the greatest hurdle to overcome in any relationship. we be jammin 
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