| Sep 13, 2008 @ 11:37 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Most of us here are single, most of us here are either a full time or part time parent.
Must of us dont want to be single anymore. Say lets say ya do finally land the big fish, the right dish.
Would you have another or more children?
Me yes, if that be in the fates cards, welcome it with and open and happy heart.
What says you?
Why?
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| Sep 14, 2008 @ 3:48 AM |
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rough
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Yes, because I love children, and one simply isn't enough for me! 
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| Sep 14, 2008 @ 7:34 AM |
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oct_cat
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No I wouldn't have another. I love my children . . . heck children are great, but being the youngest & having 'older' parents was especially difficult for me in grade school; it was quite embarrassing when my school friends would see me with my parents at a school function & say "Oh are those your grandparents?"
I just couldn't do that to a kid.
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| Sep 14, 2008 @ 8:35 AM |
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Carol386
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Would I "have" another - I know women my age do it all the time - I would not. Would I adopt or foster - certainly.
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| Sep 15, 2008 @ 12:04 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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Would I adopt or foster - certainly.
so it a kind of yes.
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| Sep 15, 2008 @ 5:26 AM |
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Carol386
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Yes I would!
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| Sep 20, 2008 @ 5:12 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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No.
Now don't get me wrong. Anyone here that knows me knows that I absolutely ADORE my children.
And after having the first set, when my "baby" was not quite 13, I got yet ANOTHER blessing! And he's just got to be THE most perfect little guy in the world...except he's almost 12 now and he's not so little any more.
But...while I get the biggest kick out of kids - even when they're acting badly and driving me crazy, I STILL love 'em to death - I think it's a parent's responsibility to be with their children and to be THERE for them as well. And it's our responsibility to raise them to maturity, and hopefully instill the values in them that all parents wish their children possessed.
Raise them to maturity. Therein lies the rub. I sincerely doubt if I'll be on this earth long enough to raise another one to maturity. And it simply isn't fair to the child to get half way through that job, and then suddenly disappear from his/her life. So for that reason, and that reason alone, I would have to say no, I wouldn't have another.
But bring me GRANDKIDS, okay?!?!?!?!? 
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| Sep 24, 2008 @ 9:19 AM |
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RachelVaz
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I have five and have said for the longest time that I was done, but when Mr. Wonderful does come, I will consider having more if that is his heart's desire. I'm just ready to love and be loved! If this is part of it - then I am open.
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| Sep 24, 2008 @ 10:06 AM |
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jamminjerry
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wow! you are on a roll today! did you take a wisdom pill and a happy pill at the same time! we be jammin 
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| Sep 24, 2008 @ 10:59 AM |
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Makya
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I know I don't want to ever be pregnant again, so thats kind of a no. But wouldn't mind fostering or adopting.
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 2:38 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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I'm just ready to love and be loved!  Good place to be
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 2:40 PM |
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RachelVaz
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OH yeah.... Now if gas prices can just go down... i'll be set:)
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 3:27 PM |
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SunBabe
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Nope-nope-nope, no WAY! (Even if it were possible, lol). I'm done-finished-finito mothering anyone, be it a baby, a teenager...or a man.
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 4:49 PM |
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willowy1
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^^^ 
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 8:28 PM |
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Sweetheart83446
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This time I am going to wait untill I am actually Married. WHY? Because my mom would kick my ass if I didn't.
I wan't two more though. I want to pop one out and then start working on the other right after. I wan't them growing up together. I wish I haden't waited so long the first time.
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 9:44 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Can't have more...and getting to the age I shouldn't. Mine are grown
and I'm twice blessed, a son and daughter.
Could I love someone else's child? Absolutely.
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| Sep 27, 2008 @ 12:34 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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This time I am going to wait until I am actually Married started that game plan myself. Two years and counting, No nuke nuke at all.
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| Sep 27, 2008 @ 2:48 PM |
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BandTMom
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I love kids, but since I am 50 and missing the parts that produce kids, I certainly won't be having any more.
But I'm ready to love his kids with all my heart.
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| Sep 27, 2008 @ 4:51 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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But I'm ready to love his kids with all my heart. Beyond Awesome.
There's a lot of things I didn't get to do for one reason or another with my own three surprises. It would be a mind blowing thing to go threw one nearly completely compared. Ya know learning under fire was kind of rough for everyone involved. And when and or if I do get marred, and when and if we deciding this was something we were both into it 100% til the very end of all, Im so game to get me my own daughter.
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| Sep 28, 2008 @ 12:14 PM |
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cOuNtRyGiRl816
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I always said "one was enough" but I think if I got married again, and that person really wanted kids, then i would seriously contemplate having another. I just don't want to be too old having a kid, and then being like 70 when the kid graduates!
But its always a possiblity!
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