| May 28, 2006 @ 4:25 PM |
Here is my story
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steakk
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I grew up knowing `Bob` (names have been changed to protect those `certain people`). Bob started dating `Sarah`. Bob and sarah dated off and on for about 3 years or so. Sarah eventually got tired of being with bob, and the way he treated her. She came to me. Well, Sarah and I dated for quite some time. Again, off and on, like her and Bob. But, her and I were happy, and always got back together, and did what we had to to work things out. After about 3.5 years of Sarah and I dating, she broke up wiht me, this time it seemed like a permanent thing. I had asked her why, and she couldnt give a straight answer. Well, in my eyes, if she couldnt give me a straight answer, and was telling me that I wasnt doing anything wrong, I really couldnt feel sory formyself, and had no choice but to consider it her loss. Shortly there-after, I had started dating someone named `Nicole`. Nicole and I got along great, but we had our differences (she drank entirely too much for my liking). But, we did what we could to make things work. About 3 months into dating Nicole, Sarah calls me. She says that she still thinks about me, and wants to give things a shot. Now, I was with Sarah for 3 and a half years, and she was the love of my life, so naturally I jumped on the offer. I broke up with Nicole immideatly, and was 100% honest with her and the situtation(which is why her and I are still good friends today, honesty). Well, right after I broke up with Nicole, Sarah starts to play some games. Stating that she is confused. Does not know if she wants Bob, who makes them a family, or me, who makes her happy. She went on with that game for almost 6 weeks, putting me through mental hell. Due to the stress she was putting me through, I lost all I had going for me. My house, my job, and my social circle. In the long run, she did come back to me, and we were happy for another 1.5 years. After that 1.5 years, things start to go sour again...she couldnt tell me what it was...well, she WOULDNT tell me, rather. Finally I discover she ws talking to Bob again, and that she is once again, confused. It was at this point in time that I did what any sensible man would do, and drove to her house to fight for her. Not a fist fight with Bob, but an emotial one with her, to show her what she means to me, and how i can treat her, and how we are right for eachother. She said that even though what I said means a lot to her, and she loves me to death, that she does not know what she wants right now. It was at this point in time when I had to do what I had to do. I looked at her, and said: "Sarah, the last time you played this game of being confused, I lost my house, my job, my social circle, and my family. I am not prepared to do that again, and I do not think that I should have to put myself through that again." I asked for my engagement ring back, and my apartment keys. She gave them to me, w/o a tear in her eye, and w/o any emotion in her voice. I then walked out the door.
Thats my story, take it for what it is worth. But, all I ahve to say is that I feel that I deserve better than someone that is going to be playing games like that. I do not need it in my life. And if she can let me walk away, after 5 years, and not shed a tear, or show any emotion, then so be it. She apparantly did not feel for me how I felt for her.
Your thoughts, and opinions?
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| May 28, 2006 @ 5:31 PM |
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Grouchysmurf
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Is Nicole hot?
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| May 28, 2006 @ 5:38 PM |
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steakk
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Nicole (her psuedo name) is attractive, yes. But, if you are going to say `then get back with her`, I do not think that I want to do that. Right now, I think I value her friendship than I would value a relationship with her. Besides that, she likes to cause too much damned drama.
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| May 28, 2006 @ 7:57 PM |
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Grouchysmurf
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I wanted to know if she was hot cause maybe she would want to go out with me... :-P
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