| Jul 25, 2006 @ 2:38 AM |
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wlvmark2003
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Why do some people here get so serious and uptight over what someone else says.I have people e-mail saying im arrogant and an asshole .That doesnt bother me one bit because i dont bash people here other than in good humor.May be a little edgy ,perverted etc but at least im honest.People say they want honesty then when they get it they are so touchy about it.If you dont like or agree with what anyone says then why bother hitting the reply button? I see many phony people here trying to impress others.If you dont like what im saying in this thread then simply dont reply make me sit up here all alone.Feels good and easy to just lay in to someone and keep it going huh? Until you meet someone in real life then all you have to go on are little words strewn across your screen.The one thing that is missing here is clarification.I see alot of hippicrits and double standards.Lighten up have fun ...jeez.If you dont like what someone says ignore them.Be brave rather than a coward who lambasts others.Convenient cowards i call these people.I find it funny how on one thread people will pretend to be so warm and cuddy dishing out compliments and words of wisdom then in another thread jump all over someone.I dig people that are open,honest and understanding here.If you get offended here then you have problems.Until i meet someone in REAL life then i will formulate my serious opinion about them.I see alot of people here bonding together to censor and create some little cult or club to box others out.I guess they feel they should dictate thoughts and ideas here thru a sanitizing process so they can "protect " their little matchdoctor forum nest.shame on you people. Any questions ask me anything words do not offend me.Let me hear you input.
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 3:29 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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Hmm maybe yer pic has people skeered haha who knows yanno them people who are afraid yer gonna eat thier feetsies ahahha  i kinda like it shows yer not afraid to have FUN in vegas I have a few pics like that taken at ceasars too hehe 
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 5:00 AM |
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luvmycats
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If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. 
I have also noticed people don't care for helpful crititque. They ask why nobody winks or emails them, when you give them your opinon, they disapear. Oh well, guess I won't give them mine anymore. 
Lets just all try to have fun on here. It is supposed to be an adult site, right? Some people just never grow up though. 
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 5:11 AM |
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SunBabe
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You'd BETTER share your advice, MamaCat. We've got lots to teach these kids
(hehehe, if this was directed at people like me  , I'm not lisssssening ...and have my opaque shades on  Because whatever I say, it's directly from ME...absolutely no different here than in real life --- ~grin~ I've never claimed to be "nice" all the time. I'd probably burst and die!    )
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 5:21 AM |
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mailorderannie
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I see alot of people here bonding together to censor and create some little cult or club to box others out.
Boy, did you hit the nail on the head with that remark! Better be careful though...they have probably already reported you to the mods and soon POOF, you will be gone!
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 5:28 AM |
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Snappygoddess
Posts: 5,100
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Gotta have a sense of humor in life... even on MD..... especially on MD
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 8:52 AM |
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razzired
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Wow....I'm glad I've never pretended to be warm and cuddly.
MJ
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 11:31 AM |
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Dragonfaerie
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lol lol lol lol
I guess somebody has to add 2 cents to this,
nobody really UPPPPPPTIGHTTTTTTTTT - ARGGHHHHHHhhhhhhhh
it just that the topics and threads sometimes bring out the best and worst in us all.
Its called " human nature "
Deal with it...
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 11:59 AM |
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razzired
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I never said I wasn't uptight. I know I can be, over things that wouldn't bother anyone else.
For instance, the topics on the sex board? Just the names of some of the threads have me wishing for a shower to clean up. And I certainly don't want to know the answers because I absolutely don't want to know that kind of information about total strangers. And I wouldn't dream of actually responding to or participating in some of them. TMI....TMI....TMI. But, I just ignore them and don't bother reading the majority of them.
On the other hand, I've gotten emails because I've been too "harsh." Oh, well. They'll either get over it or they won't. And if they don't, that's their problem, not mine.
I do really wish we had a "block" feature on here, though.
MJ
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 12:42 PM |
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ceemored
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wlvmark: ....Until you meet someone in real life then all you have to go on are little words strewn across your screen.The one thing that is missing here is clarification.I see alot of hippicrits and double standards.Lighten up have fun ...jeez.If you dont like what someone says ignore them. ....
I'm all in favour of the "lighten up have fun" part, hon .... I'm usually a "loner", jumping in here and there on a thread that catches my interest, really not knowing enough at times to formulate any sort of 'opinion', especially if it resembles anything "personal". I like to keep things simple, and courteous, even if it's about an issue that could get my fuse short  It can be difficult to clearly "read" what others say or opine, given the fact that we are void of facial expressions and voices, so I'd rather keep things civil, and not get carried away with E-motions.
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 5:47 PM |
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nah12
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 i'd NEVER
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 6:52 PM |
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HarleysB_WV
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Just from my own personal observation, I'd say it's because quite a few forgot what a "sense of humor" was or simply don't bring it to the forum with them.
I can think of several threads on here where we've just had a hellofa laugh riot going on!!
Taking things too seriously can lead to stress (yep, people get stressed out online) and personally I have enough stress in my real world that I certainly don't need to find it here on the internet. Normally, I just laugh a little at it. Rarely will you find me posting a "serious" comment. I have posted a few, but most of my posts bear a sense of humor. (at least I think they do ).
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 7:00 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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why are people uptight here? they dont realize that we are all just binary code on here and that some things are just illusions.
 that and they are pissy in real life too!
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 7:00 PM |
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grumblebear
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Life is too short to take seriously...
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 7:26 PM |
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Jankia
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Maybe theyve been on here for so damn long and not finding anyone to match there superiority complex they become uptight.
Maybe they get uptight because of all the two-faced people on this site that claim to be respected in there community,fabulous moral parents of their children and faithfull spouses to their significant other or there ex on one thread to get the attention of the opposite sex and then show how immature and adolescent they really are on another .
Maybe they get uptight because a certain member gets his profile cancelled for far less than some that are on here only to antagonize everyone they dont like and follow them around these forums to dispute everything they say.
Maybe because certain members are mods favorites and can do whatever they like knowing they wont get bumped out but the other will.Seems like there goal is to get others uptight so they do get banned.
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 8:06 PM |
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chinabull2000
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Maybe they get uptight because of all the two-faced people on this site that claim to be respected in there community,fabulous moral parents of their children and faithfull spouses to their significant other or there ex on one thread to get the attention of the opposite sex and then show how immature and adolescent they really are on another . I couldn't have put it better myself!
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 8:07 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Me? Up tight??? Now,,why would I be that way?
I haven't been, that doesn't mean I can't be though.
Wheres my prozac???????????????????????
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 8:24 PM |
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SunBabe
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To whom it may concern: (<----called CYA, in other words)
Hey, I never ONCE complained or turned anyone in for ANYTHING they've ever posted!! (except a couple obvious scammers) I can hold my own, thank you very much 
And unless there was more ugliness posted AFTER that slimey stuff from one person regarding my children, I see no reason (personal opinion) why anyone other the originator should have been 'chastized'...that was nasty and ugly and WRONG, because of the points that I made -- Points that were nothing more than the plain everyday ordinary TRUTH. In some ways, I wish it had stayed, just to see the 'other side' of 'some people'...last thing I saw was my final words.
If someone has an "issue" with me and my outlook or posting style or personality (which hasn't changed a whole lot since I was a kid, btw  ) then either accept it or DON'T READ WHAT I HAVE TO SAY. Please.
To get the attention of the opposite sex?
Puleese.  When I want to flirt, it's MUCH more obvious and rather blatant, if I say so myself!
"immature and adolescent"? 
I dunno, I'd say "whining" falls into that genre. ~shrug~
Not everyone's going to agree on everything...not on anything, with some people. But if one is going to enter into a discussion, or even a debate, it helps to get FACTS straight (and for everyone involved to consider the quoted sources) and to not compare apples with oranges if the discussion veers into a specific topic.
Hypocrites? "two-faced people"? Some of us AREN'T, believe it or not! SOME us actually lay ALL our cards on the table...which, to be honest, is rather intimidating to many. But so what? Isn't a person supposed to be just plain themselves in this world? 
Oh well...I am.
MY choice.
Plain and simple. 
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Maybe they get uptight because of all the two-faced people on this site that claim to be respected in there community,fabulous moral parents of their children and faithfull spouses to their significant other or there ex on one thread to get the attention of the opposite sex and then show how immature and adolescent they really are on another .
Oh my...now that I look back, perhaps this WASN'T directed at me, lol It IS rather a broad general statement, isn't it? 
My apologies -- could be "anybody"
[Edited on 7/25/2006 8:31 PM]
[Edited on 7/25/2006 9:12 PM]
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 8:38 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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No idea if it was me either...coulda been, except for one thing...what I post is what I believe. You can disagree with me, but if you think I'm posting it to get the attention of the opposite sex...it just ain't so. Also, I've never turned ANYONE in for anything, not even rude emails. I'm a dab hand at block and delete, and if a post bothers me, I figure that's my tough luck. I just try not to respond in kind.
And by the way, that's what I'm like IRL too. I'm actually a member of two OBN's at work (Old boy's network and Old broad's network). The guys made me an honorary member.
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 8:48 PM |
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kattsmeow
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I feel better now. The mood elevators are working real well...
There was only one that I protested about. Then I was a bad girl and got my patty smacked. I deserved it too.
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