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Blondino
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better put ...no longer available on my profile .... he he 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:06 PM |
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whoredog2
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 God, I could only be so lucky. That would truly be heaven.
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:09 PM |
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Always_Striving
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A bully, just like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.
Hopefully that bully won't give the beholder a black eye. 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:16 PM |
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Blondino
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yes it is striving .....
you saying I am Ugly and Whore is a Pre School Teacher ... 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:18 PM |
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whoredog2
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but either way, blondino, it would still be heaven.... 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:19 PM |
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Loreli
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Not to be mean or anything but seems like some people are lacking a backbone around here, letting people affect you so much.
Well said Viper.
If a person starts a thread, they should be ready for many differing opions. If they jump into a thread, it is also with knowing you aren't always going to get agreement. 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:21 PM |
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whoredog2
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true loreli so true. i, unfortunately, have to admit that i have been lacking some backbone in SOME of these threads. it's all good though. 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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Blondino
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yes true ... I have found my backbone against the Bullies .. and there are only a few as far as I am concerned ...
However easy to say when you are an american and a christian .... when you are not and you are in the minority in here .... its hard to take the tosh they come out with about your country and religion ... 
f*** em let the Banana dance
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 3:48 PM |
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8Knots
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I think some of these people are so darn lucky, in real life I'd hang em fro starboard yard arm, draw em and quarter em! On a good day!
Bad day... well... a good keel hauling against the barnicles den let me sea dogs have the rest to gizzard dem!
If they survive that den I'd get me galley slave to rub'um with pork fat den row um up the river so the mossies can do dair works. Dair inflate like balloons wid der swellin!
bout right! 
Dont push me!
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 3:55 PM |
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carpediem48
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Congratulations and best wishes to Blondino and Puppy (scrollback to page 4)
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 3:59 PM |
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Blondino
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I know I had weak moments and would be first to admit my faults
I am still unwell and find it hard to keep that backbone strong
So before you judge everyone .. you have to walk a mile in another person shoes
However not one to give in to circumstance
Tomorrow I will be stronger
Better
More compassionate
A better person
More positive
More giving
More forgiving
That is my pledge
Forgive Them Father for they know not what they do
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 4:01 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I think some of these people are so darn lucky, in real life I'd hang em fro starboard yard arm, draw em and quarter em! On a good day!
I`m sure you would ya big bully..  
(just kidding)
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 4:20 PM |
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Blondino
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Notty .. hugs ye Bully welcome back to the fold ...lmao
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 1:12 PM |
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Martin666
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You can generally work through an episode of bullying if you keep your cool and make an honest effort to engage the other person. It's just like real life. I guess it has to do with how we deal with conflict as individuals, and -frankly- how afraid we are of conflict.
Free speech 
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 1:57 PM |
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Classy_Blonde
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Darn it, Martin! It's really difficult to bully someone who is always nice. Would you hurry up and piss me off, please?
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 2:57 PM |
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vipervenom
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This is a good thread...for me to poop on I kid I kid.
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 4:32 PM |
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Artemis122
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I really meant to "bypass" this BULLYING thread, but now, I just have to say something... WORTHWHILE or not, it's your CaLL -- no Judgments Please!!
You can generally work through an episode of bullying if you keep your cool and make an honest effort to engage the other person. It's just like real life. I guess it has to do with how we deal with conflict as individuals, and -frankly- how afraid we are of conflict. Martin, I've always seen and been taught that CONFLICT is the "cause" of the Fight or Flight syndrome... Rather I would like to point out Root Cause (which to me) is a Matter of Diversity and people's inability to ACCEPT and RESPECT individual differences, real Life and Online... then on top of that, Most People are very "direct" in their Beliefs and will "Fight Tooth and Nail" just to BE RIGHT (with no LISTENING SkiLLs to hear the Responses...) which often leads to Intended or Unintentional Confrontations, thereby CAUSING Conflict..... thus Tempers Flare, Rationality Disappears, and an ALPHA (pack mentality) must Emerge and Survive..... yelling "Me Chief!!"
the other side of the Coin in this CONFLICT -- because innately WE ALL have a Desire to BELONG here, that's why it's called a "Community....."
ok, taking my SoapBox home now.....
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 4:35 PM |
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Moony
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Ginger??? Sorry,but what does it mean?? It may sound stupid but I really don´t know...not familiar with some words here
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 5:17 PM |
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Bj864
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You can generally work through an episode of bullying if you keep your cool and make an honest effort to engage the other person. It's just like real life. I guess it has to do with how we deal with conflict as individuals, and -frankly- how afraid we are of conflict.
Free speech
For me it isn't a matter of being afraid of conflict. It is a matter of not giving people an opportunity to release their person venom and insults on me. Some of them just get worse if you answer them. If you take note, they tend to try to bully the people that disagree with them. They obviously have some kind of emotional issues or they wouldn't get so upset just because a person thinks a different way. To me getting different points of view is what makes it all interesting, as long as people don't resort to vicious personal attacks.
You Martin, handle the bullies better than most! I have noticed you lose a little of your cool, once in awhile.
These bullies also seem to like to change the subject from whatever the thread is, therefore they kill a lot of threads, one way and another.
To me, they are people I do not want much contact with, for they can have an affect on you, just like being around rude, arrogant people can have an affect on you, in real life. Sometimes it takes me a while to figure out they don't want to discuss anything, they just want to always be right and attack other people. When I finally get them figured out, I stop reading their posts. It takes me awhile though to get to that point. I can accept some anger or frustration, but not a continuing personal attack.
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| Nov 30, 2006 @ 5:40 PM |
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SunBabe
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Moony said:
Ginger??? Sorry,but what does it mean?? It may sound stupid but I really don´t know...not familiar with some words here
I browsed very quickly and couldn't find the post that used this word (I looked VERY fast ), but I would guess that in the context of this topic that "ginger" would mean "to eliven; to energize" -- if someone is said to "have ginger", like the spice, they are more likley to be a bit feisty and energetic rather than passive or dull.
(I hope that was the question you were asking, Moony. And I hope my attempt at explaining it helps -- English has a million strange or subtle secondary-meanings for words  )
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