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Feb 1, 2007 @ 7:53 PM pain    
willsmalto


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pain of any kind is good. it's your friend. it keeps you company. when you feel pain, you feel alive. never let go off pain( never give up on life).

who doesn't like pain?
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 8:02 PM pain    
SunBabe


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Live with it -- exacerbating -- 24/7, head to toe, for 15 years and THEN let me know how much you appriciate your "friend"

'Scuse me...my attitude toward it is .

And I know I'm not the only one here who's been VERY tempted to give up on life -- literally, as in d-e-a-d -- because of p-a-i-n.

No, I do NOT like pain.
I'd like to be HUMAN and functional again.

...and I can tell you that my patience is wearing pretty thin.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 8:04 PM pain    
LipGlossQueen9


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pain
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 8:06 PM pain    
Raiynth


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Nope. Not into pain. Sorry.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 8:13 PM pain    
Heaveninawildflower


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Spent most of my life with pain...it's actually better now than it was when I was a teenager...and no, pain is not my friend.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 8:30 PM pain    
willsmalto


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Live with it -- exacerbating -- 24/7, head to toe, for 15 years and THEN let me know how much you appriciate your "friend"

nope sunny, not that kinda pain...thats even worse than death(hell on earth). I meant just something temporary, I mean the sweet-bitter moment(s) in your life
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 10:16 PM pain    
willsmalto


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is it better to feel that pain from start, mid way or towards the end of your life?....those who have seen " the pursuit of happiness" would possibly get a hang of what I'm trying to say here.

A big cake gotten outta pain is delicious/rewarding. Endless pain is no good at all
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 10:22 PM pain    
fayblack


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Emotional pain attached to a specific situation can be a very valuable teacher, if we allow it to be.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 10:53 PM pain    
willsmalto


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Emotional pain attached to a specific situation can be a very valuable teacher, if we allow it to be.

thats right fay...just as they say, experience is the best teacher, we learn from our mistakes. That kinda pain helps you be a better person, I guess. it is practical, well when it comes to rational humans, not airheads, hotheads etc who have this tendency of transfering aggression, hence leading to more pain.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 11:00 PM pain    
ToucherinSparks


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Will, you can have all of my share of pain. Don't want it, don't need it. You might try emailing that Mikeoutthere dude, he was posting something about liking to be whipped, so I guess he's into pain too.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 11:45 PM pain    
willsmalto


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^^^

Touch, I'll tell you what, you've got that "touchness" in you, I mean you've got that sharp wit, quirky and off-beat sense of humor. I just luv the way you put your words together.

Thanks but no thanks, I'll pass on that whip thing and as....oh gosh, I can't even type right...I think I'm about to pass out from laughing my head off......see Touch, I've kinda absorbed some of your pain...I can't feel my ribs....PAIN..as a result of laughing
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 11:47 PM pain    
grumblebear


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I've got degenerative spine disease according to the VA, as well as 3 blown disks at L3, L4, and L5... pain is a daily issue... and a very unwelcome visitor
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 11:54 PM pain    
willsmalto


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thats what I'm talking about, grumble. believe it or not, we can't escape pain. it comes in many forms
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 12:08 AM pain    
SpiritOrnery


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pain of any kind is good. it's your friend. it keeps you company. when you feel pain, you feel alive. never let go off pain( never give up on life).

who doesn't like pain?

Depends on the pain. I have chronic pain that actually helped me become the healer that I am. It led me to healing and led me to health. I have found out how to WORK on and release pain.
I love having trigger point therapy on painful muscles. That can be orgasmic. I NEVER let a man I am not intimate with massage me because of the endorphins that get me high when the muscle spasms are worked on. I usually work on myself if I have pain.
So depends on the pain. The mental and emotional pain actually has forced me into making changes in my life I would not have otherwise. I get rather lazy and procrastinate so at times, pain is necessary. But like pain? No. Some of the benefits and side effects? Maybe. Depends on each situation.
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 12:26 AM pain    
willsmalto


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spirit, I couldn't sya better


Some of the benefits and side effects?

sure depends on the situation..... like I'm going through real pain now cos of this neighbor who has sex with the wife every blessed day on earth. At first it was beneficial...yanno...but it got too old....I sleep at my desk at work sometimes as a result of this...sleepless nights
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 1:16 AM pain    
SpiritOrnery


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go check what I posted there lol. I feel for ya.
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 1:33 AM pain    
SunBabe


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I love having trigger point therapy on painful muscles. That can be orgasmic.

ES, this just goes to show the differences in types of (physical) pain. I have to be blunt and honest, but just reading that almost makes me puke. Literally. I'd be 10 times more willing to plunge my hands and feet in boiling water to build up endorphines than to have anyone on earth poke my trigger points or do deep muscle massage
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 1:54 AM pain    
SpiritOrnery


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Sun, I could not stand deep muscle massage. It used to make me sick. It doesn't any more. I can work with people that have intense pain problems and decrease their pain. Remember, having had it, I was the perfect Guinea pig. I learned by having people work on me and knowing that that would not work on me at all.
My sensitivity to the energy in the muscles is such that people that cannot be touched, I can work on. I work on and off the body. People that have come to me all drugged out in pain, get off the drugs. I am a healer.
SpiritEnergy
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 1:59 AM pain    
willsmalto


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go check what I posted there lol. I feel for ya.

on my way to check it out..thanks for the concern
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 2:13 AM pain    
SpiritOrnery


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another one...
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