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sugarhoneybee
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Do you think that everyone feels like nobody sees the "real them"?
What can we do to feel that people ARE seeing the "real you"?
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:09 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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If I ever get the 'real me' to please stand up, I'll let you know. Of course Geminis are worse, but lots of us tend to be chameleons...just accessing a different part of our multiple personalities depending on what's going on...
Sugar, you're a Gemini - do you really feel you're 'one you', or do different aspects of you show up as needed?
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:10 PM |
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willsmalto
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To see the real me, you need to come really closer and closer to me. And when I mean close here I mean spend not just some time but a lot of time with me. I seem the real me from afar but far from the real me....if you know what i'm babbling about here
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:10 PM |
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dooney123
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What can we do to feel that people ARE seeing the "real you"?
Just be yourself and don't worry what other people think about you.
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:11 PM |
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LibidinistLady
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Problem is I'm the same online/on the phone/in person. Sometimes I have foot in mouth disease. Ya either like me or you don't. There is no inbetween.
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:21 PM |
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Dukums
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You have to be comfortable in your own skin, and then value transparency. None of us are mind readers although some do try to assign values to those they "think" they know.
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:21 PM |
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robodad
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Problem is I'm the same online/on the phone/in person. Me, I'm better looking in person.
(are the nails dry, yet?) 
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:26 PM |
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sugarhoneybee
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Sugar, you're a Gemini - do you really feel you're 'one you', or do different aspects of you show up as needed?
I think I'm fat because that's the only way I could fit all these personalities in this one body! 
Seriously though, I think I try to be the "real me" with people but I do wear several hats and have to "put on" different me's from time to time. I mean, I can't be the "mothering me" when I am trying to be the "sexy me", right? LOL
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:31 PM |
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Luisa909
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I often try to be real me....but not always it's so easy.
It depends on the external events and on my mood
I am always myself when I write
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:33 PM |
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robodad
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I often try to be real me....but not always it's so easy So, it's not easy being yourself. 
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:34 PM |
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acslim
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that was a cool song
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:35 PM |
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Dukums
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Well it depends on whether or not I want to indulge the child within, whether or not you can mix the mothering you and the sexy you! 
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:39 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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So, it's not easy being yourself.
Nope, not always. For me, the hardest thing is showing when I'm hurt. That's when the walls go up big time.
[Edited on 3/13/2007 3:40 PM]
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:39 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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There are like 12 "real Renaes" and some of them you want to be like 20 feet away from at all times
Happy Manic Renae- Fun at first but gets real annoying real fast
Happy Renae- That's the best one i think
Angry Manic Renae- Frightening. Wants to beat everyone up.
Angry Renae- Just yells at everyone, and usually retreats into solitude for hours.
Manic Renae- doesn't stop talking.
Depressed Renae- cries over television shows and thinks everything is an insult
Ultra Depressed Renae- thinks she's worth shit, retreats into solitude for weeks, spends hours in front of the mirror criticizing
No Emotions Renae- Weird
Intellectual Renae- Talks about the news/politics all the time
Music Renae- Talks about The Beatles all the time
Star Wars Renae- Talks about Star Wars/Ian McDiarmid/Shakespeare all the time
Seinfeld Renae- Talks about Seinfeld all the time
WWE Renae-Talks about wrestling/The Undertaker all the time
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It's a lot deeper than that, really, but that's pretty much a cross section of what I could be at any moment.
[Edited on 3/13/2007 3:59 PM]
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:43 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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not sure but i think the real me comes thru in my posts... prolly should ask someone whos met me huh?? and most times ANYONE can tell the mood im in and how imfeeling .. not too good at hiding that 
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:44 PM |
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Dukums
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Same here Heaven. If I get hurt, I shut down and I am like an inpenetrable fortress.
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:48 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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prolly should ask someone whos met me huh??
Actually, you're more you in person...your posts show who you are, but not how much you are. I liked you a lot before I met you, I love you dearly now...
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 3:53 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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Ditto my dear freind totally !!! 
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 4:37 PM |
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grumblebear
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I try to be me all the time... when I was in my teens I did theater work, and while I enjoyed "being different characters", it was still me...
we all have facets, extremes, reactive times etc...
People say I pretend to be gruff, and have a big heart etc.....
The gruff part is my public side...
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| Mar 13, 2007 @ 4:45 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Just be yourself and don't worry what other people think about you.
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