| Dec 3, 2005 @ 2:07 PM |
Whats wrong with my profile?
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r129sky
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I havent gotten a single email or response to a an email Ive sent. Is there something blatently wrong with what I put in my profile?
I think Im the only one whos even viewed my profile.
[Edited on 12/3/2005 2:09 PM]
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| Dec 3, 2005 @ 4:13 PM |
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lecriveuse
Posts: 1,865
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u might want 2 look at the thread of what scares people in profiles. i can c some n urs.
i know u want to be honest, but maybe its going over the top to discuss the job problems. maybe someone sees it as ur looking 4 someone to support u. speculation on my part. anyone else?
good luck with the site.
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| Dec 3, 2005 @ 7:24 PM |
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kaden69
Posts: 529
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I looked @ it and I think it's cute,....lol
If I were to stumble upon you and read through the profile I would assume that you were a natural country boy, seeking just regular people who weren't afraid to be themselves
I would agree w/ my girl lecriveuse about the job thing,... try changing it to speak of what your career is instead of posting that your unemployed, you should talk about your job or preference for work because I find things like that interesting to learn about. If you're a student then say that too.
It really shouldn't matter what your profile says as long as it's honest and real. If your currently unemployed @ the moment it wouldn't matter to someone unless they're seeking a sugar daddy anyhow. You also might try mailing a girl you find interesting, and not wait around for them to come to you cause' I generally don't go seeking anyone and wait for a response first before making a decision to write them back, tho my profile is very specific and honest,.... I'm just old fashioned that way,....Hahahaha
So no worries just be real and have fun! 
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 2:44 PM |
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AngelLight
Posts: 5,620
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Just a few suggestions
1)Instead of saying "I'm not really sure what I'm looking for" try "I am open to anything from online chat, to friendship, to a love relationship"....I suggest this because in the section where it asks for what you are seeking you do in fact check multiple relationship posssibilities
2)Instead of saying that you are unemployed focus on what you are doing....like perhaps just simply state "My current occupation is in construction", or whatever job you are doing, even if it is not permanent you are working
3)Under my idea of a great date you state "I don't know, something were i laughed & had enough fun that I forgot about everything...." That "I forgot about everything" makes it sound as if you might have a lot of problems and could be depressed
4)Instead of referring to yourself as poor try "I am seeking someone who will accept me for who I am, not for what I materialistically have or don't have"
5)I would get ride of the word redneck all together....if you mean you're looking for someone a little country than say that...redneck can be a socially loaded word with heavy negative stereotypic connotations.
Good luck and I hope these suggestions help you. Angel
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 3:13 PM |
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skinnybarncat
Posts: 381
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 howdy....
may or may not be the profile!...who did you contact and what did you say?..who knows if other party was even real!
start posting here in the forums and show your sense of humor...you will soon have 20-50 views a day and some may be women!...  ...and maybe one out of 500 will write to you...  ......live and learn, friend!!!
you are doing OKAY! 
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 4:13 PM |
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devonguy
Posts: 463
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Hi! It just needs polishing up a bit! You have got a go ahead attitude, and I like the way you say you are doing construction work in order to keep your head above water! Plus you have got the guts to ask for help when you need it. Ask one of the girls who have gone to the trouble of expressing an opinion to re’right it with/for you! Good luck!
Ps skinnybarncat talks a lot of sense as well!
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