| Nov 21, 2007 @ 8:26 AM |
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Fender
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I know I should ignore it, but sometimes it's hard. I honestly mean no negativity towards anyone, but sometimes it seems like that is all people get.
I am me, sometimes funny, sometimes loopy, and never would I hurt someone on purpose. It just sucks when people think you think you are all that, when all I am doing is kidding around.
...Almost makes me want to stop, I honestly feel like crying. Whenever I right someone and apoligize for something I may have done wrong, I mean it, it just sucks when they think you are superficial, and like a cheerleader in high school,popular.
I can't change me and what I think is funny. But I don't like being upset when people say stuff to me. I know I should get used to it but  I'm too soft hearted.
I don't even know why I am letting this all out here, so sorry and hope you don't feel like me now.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 8:39 AM |
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Loreli
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Just use your moties 
I forget, and people think I'm mad, but some people won't let everyone in, anyway! 
These are for you 
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 8:43 AM |
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Optimistic66
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I can understand your feelings Fender. I kind of had the same feeling myself about what I've said or commented on here in the past. But then I said screw that. My opinions are just as important and meaningful to me as others who comment or give their opinions on this site. And if a person fails to see humor in something I might comment on , well thats not my problem. But this is a public site and open to anyone. So just remember that you are going to come across some narrow minded people. Just be yourself.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 9:01 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Some people say nasty things about me, too....like I'm nasty, an attention whore, stupid things like that. Yes it has upset me in the past...I think there are some people who it honestly doesn't affect but I know that I'm very sensitive and stuff like that does affect me...
Not everybody's gonna like you. You have a very strong personality, from what I can tell, as do I, and some people just don't react well to it.
Most of us here do like you though, including me.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 9:07 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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You have to remember that sometimes things will be taken wrong. If you can't actually see a person giggling...some things can be misunderstood.
But like they said.....just have fun and be yourself. That's what this is ALL about. finding people who have the same sense of humor, moral and ethical beliefs, and even sexual interests. We aren't all going to click together. But when you find a few that do....it's WONDERFUL! 
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 10:04 AM |
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twotall911
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hey dont let anything bother you remember this is cyber world
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 11:13 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Yeah what he^^^^said... 
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 12:06 PM |
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Kenn159
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In reference to the hate mail you getting because you think you are all that.
I do agree with what Lip said in another thread, something to the effect of, I would much rather a women be strong and confident in who they are[what some people call full of themselves or all that] ,than a women that hates herself with little self respect.
Which reminds me of another quote from Kaos in another thread .
Don't tell your problems to people:
80% don't care
20% are glad you have them
I’m not saying not to share you problems if you choose, what I get from that quote as it relates to you is, this 20 percent do not want you to be doing well because they are jealous and it’s a one up and no one can be doing better than me kinda thing.
Some people are threatened by self confidence in a women, and if they see you are, they will tell you about it in a offensive way.
Just know that going in, that it is their issue not yours.
Just keep being you. 
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 12:23 PM |
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Sweetheart83446
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Bender, screw em. Don't waste your emotions on people who do not deserve the time.
"You only need people in your life, that need you in theirs."
Remember that sis. Tons of us love you to death. Those are the only people that matter.
You are silly, funny, quirky, and are married to the mod, of course you are going to get hate mail. Its called jealousy. One of the worst emotions. Let that emotion consume the people that try to hurt you, and then sit back and laugh as they implode.
Luv's ya girlie.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 2:01 PM |
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sweet5red
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fender many times i let people on here upset me.. thats why i did my latest blog.. some people type say things and dont realize how words can cut.. but they do.. i hope i make sense.. i know they dont like to hear the fact that i dont like being single but some of us dont that dont make us whiney.. just need to let off steam once in a while or bend an ear.. you talk i will listen.. we love you.. Sweet N Louisiana  
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 2:10 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Fender, especially if you're not the type to put hurt out there, and especially if you're sensitive, you're more vulnerable to being hurt. Dale Carnegie teaches that at least 3% of the people you meet won't like you. Not for any particular reason...they just won't...as you also won't with 3% of those you meet. And if there IS a reason, real or imaginary, address it best you can, and if you fail, at least you have the peace of mind knowing you tried. And then let it go. Some people give you energy, some take it. Know which is which and don't give up your energy to those who don't deserve it.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 6:09 PM |
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Fender
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Thanks to all of you guys  your all great!!!!!
...I have decided to ignore her, funny thing is I was going to delete her from my friends list, because her attitude towards me sucks, then she went ahead and deleted herself,lol......
She's just jealous cause she can't be the top of the pyramid!!!!!!!!
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 7:19 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,401
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Too bad when "adults" get that way...
You see all kinds of immaturity here, unfortunately
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 8:58 PM |
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Fender
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The thing is she wrote that I was superficial and flighty, which to me describes Paris Hilton, when I am down to earth, normal, and myself
The she said I was "popular","well whatever being popular on Matchdoctor get's you". wasn't that the rudest comment? It pissed me off. I've blogged though and set it free. In a classy way without naming names or copying emails.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 9:17 PM |
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luneib
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Sometimes just because a person posts alot people get jealous, don't let them bother you. They apparently are jealous of the attention you are getting. That is so childish. Just ignore them.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 9:39 PM |
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sciurusniger
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Abraham Lincoln said, "You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time."
Of course he also said yes when Mary wanted to go to the theater, however, substitute the word "please" for "fool" and you'll see his wisdom.
As others have already pointed out, some folks have a LOT of issues. Not problems, but Issues. The most common way to express them is through jealousy of and meanness towards those they imagine to have something they covet for themselves but that their miserable behaviors towards others doesn't bring them.
There isn't a dang thing you can do but set them aside. Keep your focus on what is positive, work to be the goodness you wish to see around you.
The rest is just so much stuff and nonsense. Rather like dust bunnies under a bed.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 9:54 PM |
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kjac
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I used to let the idiots get to me too. Until some people helped me realize how completely unimportant the vile venom displayed here is.
We could go at any moment. Whether you die from a brain tumor, a massive stroke, or explosive diarrhea. If you died, would you really want to go while being upset over some stupid words a classless fool punched onto a keyboard while snorting a line and guzzling a Budweiser?
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 10:08 PM |
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katydid438
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If my feelings have to be hurt I would rather it be in person, face to face.
That's reality! On-line sarcasm and witty put downs is like a group jerk off with out the group being present. It's like that 20 inch fish that got away 
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 10:20 PM |
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signme
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Luckily I'm finally at that point in my life where I really don't care what people think of me, except close friends and family. If somehow my feelings get hurt, I retreat for a day or so, lick my wounds in private, plan a great revenge (which I don't carry out, but it's fun to plan!) and then bounce back. Not everyone will like everyone, not everyone will agree with everyone. That's life and we just have to muddle through the best we can.
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| Nov 21, 2007 @ 10:35 PM |
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ForumMod
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don't let them worry you, darling fender. those are the kind of people who don't even have enough imagination to see 1/10th of what we see in each other, sweet wife of mine. 
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