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rosesforme
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Some people know of cheating spouses but choose to stay with the cheating spouse anyway. Not isolated incidents, but consistent cheating. Some say, they are staying in the marriage for the sake of the children. Some are staying because of financial security. Some are even staying for the health benefits!!
Comments people..........
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| Mar 3 @ 7:25 PM |
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BandTMom
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Not for me, but to each their own.
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| Mar 3 @ 7:32 PM |
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Loreli
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IMO-
If you don't enjoy "being" with someone..leave them.
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| Mar 3 @ 7:42 PM |
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daisy315
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staying in a bad relationship for the sake of the children.. ? you are not doing those kids a bit of good.. all they see is someone being someone elses doormat.. they grow up thinking that cheating is ok...
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| Mar 3 @ 7:42 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Not isolated incidents, but consistent cheating.
I can't imagine doing this. Not in this day and age where a woman can get an education and make enough to live.
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| Mar 3 @ 8:14 PM |
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lazareth
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what a waste of time. If my spouse was unfaithful, I wouldn't piss on him if he were on fire, let alone "stay for the sake of the kids" or any other reason
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| Mar 3 @ 9:01 PM |
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malexand
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Sometimes it is very difficult to do.
No where to go.
No close friends.
Children.
I know of a lot of people that stayed until the kids were grown and then booked.
Cheating is one thing, abuse is another.
Abusers should be shot. Period.
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| Mar 3 @ 9:16 PM |
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missliss78
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I detest cheaters! IMO, there isn't even cause for discussion!
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| Mar 3 @ 9:58 PM |
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pamdemonium
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There's no going back, no second chance. Once it's done, it's over.
I agree, you're not doing your kids a favor by staying. Save your sanity
and dignity and end it.
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| Mar 3 @ 10:10 PM |
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katydid438
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Too many negative results,,especially when children are involved. Either make it work and keep your pants up (or fly closed) or make the break before too much damage is done 
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| Mar 4 @ 3:45 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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IMO, if you stay with a cheater and you have children...you're f***ing up the kids more than you would be if you just got a divorce.
But if you want to stay with a cheater, do what you want to do.
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| Mar 4 @ 3:51 PM |
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capobeachguy
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Cheating is one thing, abuse is another.
To me, cheating IS abuse. 
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| Mar 4 @ 3:52 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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THAT is the best answer yet. 
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| Mar 4 @ 4:11 PM |
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Kenn159
Posts: 2,779
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I don't agree
Cheating is bad but phisical abuse is worse.
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| Mar 4 @ 4:16 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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physical abuse CAN'T beat mental abuse.... 
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| Mar 4 @ 4:20 PM |
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kattsmeow
Posts: 21,280
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^^^ That is so true.
I used to think 'Just hit me and get it over with". Not any more though.
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| Mar 4 @ 4:29 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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^^^^^exactly!!!! You can fight back on physical abuse,plus the bastard has to sleep sometime  , but mental? That still affects you YEARS after all is said and done... 
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| Mar 4 @ 4:33 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Mental abuse is worse.
It affects you years down the line and damages your psyche and self esteem for years.
When someone hits you you can hit them back or at least defend yourself...
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| Mar 4 @ 4:38 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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<----------------wants to be abused by LGQ 
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| Mar 4 @ 4:40 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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