| Jun 19, 2008 @ 10:25 PM |
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Wishlist98
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With my son-in-law.
When he gets drinking, he wants to feel my butt.
He always makes sure my daughter is asleep when he tries this crap.
I get vrey angry at him, and threaten to tell my daughter.
They have been married for 3 years, and have a 10 month old son.
They live with me, and if I told her, she would divorce him.
I don't want to hurt her, and I don't wnat to see my grandson without his dad around on a daily basis.
This has happened 2 times now within the last 6 months.
Any suggestions of how to handle this one?
I'm at the point where I don't even talk to him..
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| Jun 19, 2008 @ 10:53 PM |
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LaughTillYaPuke
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Yes.
You knock that asshole right on his ass. Period.
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| Jun 19, 2008 @ 11:00 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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Friggin stand up to him and tell him to knock it off  and REMIND him what hes done when hes sober... tell him he needs to not drink if he cant control h imself PERIOD!!! come on if hes doing this with you hes been doing it ELSEWHERE too... so who is really getting hurt?? and where do YOUR loyalties lie?? with him or your daughter  ... sheesh 
someone please tell me this is a prank its just too out there
oh and yep with Laugh here knock him on his ass when he does it let HIM explain the black eye and HOW he got it 
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| Jun 19, 2008 @ 11:16 PM |
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Kenn159
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Your daughter has a right to know this, and if she found out later that you knew this but was hiding it from her, she would have reason to be upset with you.
What she does with the information is up to her, but she has a right to know.
Don’t embellish, or play it down and make excuses, just be concise.
Good luck.
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| Jun 19, 2008 @ 11:29 PM |
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Loreli
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I woulda slapped him into next week the first time....
I agree, Becks
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| Jun 19, 2008 @ 11:33 PM |
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signme
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My initial response would be to tell your daughter. This may be happening with different ladies also. Would your daughter want to stay with someone who does this indiscriminately with other people. And why would you want your grandchild be part of that? It may be nothing but it may also be an indicator of something worse. It needs to be checked out.
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 8:05 AM |
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Wishlist98
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No, this is not a prank..
I think I'm in shock that he would even attempt this with me.
And, yes ,I've wondered if he has tried this with other women when he is not in this house.
My daughter grew up without her father around daily, and I sure don't want this happening to my grandson.
It was pretty rough on my daughter back then. (her dad lives about 15 miles away, and still doesn't come see her much)
I think I'll get him to himself, and have a talk with him, and let him know that I am going to tell my daughter...
thanks for the input everyone..
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 8:54 AM |
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Aeromuse
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With all due respect Wish I wouldn't even tell the dillwad first. I wouldn't give him the heads-up and the chance to get to your daughter first and feed her a line of BS.
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 9:25 AM |
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capobeachguy
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I think I'll get him to himself, and have a talk with him, and let him know that I am going to tell my daughter...
Don't forget to include the part about your recent graduation from the Elena Bobbit School for the Cure of Erectile Dysfunction... 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 1:21 PM |
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ShnFar
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WOOOHOOOO capo  That Oughta Leave A Mark...... 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 2:12 PM |
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pamdemonium
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When he gets drinking, he wants to feel my butt.
Why don't you just let him get it out of his system? 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 2:23 PM |
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LaughTillYaPuke
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You know...that might work. But make sure he's sober. then go sit in his lap and slip him the tongue. I bet he'd never get near you again!
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 2:36 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Remember...Mama said no talking baby. NO TALKING! 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 2:39 PM |
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Aeromuse
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LOLZ @ youse guys
I rather like the Lorena Bobbitt method myself, but I'm a self-admitted sicko 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 2:41 PM |
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Nideluv
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Invite all your friends that you can into your bedroom before your son in law gets home, tell them to stay there and be quiet, then when babyboy arrives get him worked up, tell him to give you 2 or 3 minutes to prepare yourself and invite him to join you in your bedroom, tell him to strip down first before entering the bedroom.
GAME, SET & MATCH. he is cooked.
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 2:54 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Ooh! and wear some Jean'nate'. Yanno...incase he can't perform. 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 4:28 PM |
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Always_Striving
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Oh I love this
I hardly drink but just the thought of this gets me hard......
I think that I want to feel your butt too now.
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 4:50 PM |
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LaughTillYaPuke
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Remember...Mama said no talking baby. NO TALKING!
Well, that rule sould apply to a lot of men though Pammy
Ooh! and wear some Jean'nate'. Yanno...incase he can't perform
I loved that stuff! Kind of lemmony wasn't it? 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 5:14 PM |
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pamdemonium
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In a rancid sort of way....  whoops...sorry...it stanks. 
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| Jun 20, 2008 @ 5:25 PM |
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Aeromuse
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Jean Nate? It smells like a Nana
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