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Kenn159
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Ok so you met someone that seems perfect in every way.
You are crazy attracted to them and you just love were their head is at and you have this strong connection to them.
This seems to good to be true, you have never been attracted or ever wanted anyone like you want this person.
But then comes a little surprise.
In the scenario for guys, you find out she has a book that glorifies Lorraine Bobbit to idol status and she has a really nice kitchen knife collection. 
In a scenario for the women, you find he has books on Nazism and he tells you Hitler was just misunderstood.
What do ya do
For the guys, which head will you listen too?
And is it worth a little danger for get great sex?
For the women, he is really hot, would you take him for a test spin?
The rational brain verses instinctive sexual attraction.
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| Jul 9 @ 3:02 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I`d use my Brain...I`m old enough to know better...especially if one has learned from their mistakes..
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| Jul 9 @ 3:09 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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attraction falls into the emotional mind. Not the rational mind.
Bliss is fond in the wise mind.
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| Jul 9 @ 3:12 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Wise words from a wise man...
Hiya Burns...  
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| Jul 9 @ 3:28 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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In a scenario for the women, you find he has books on Nazism and he tells you Hitler was just misunderstood. In the past I really met a guy like this
I was very attracted from him but I was not very gald about that aspect of his life....
I thought and thought then I met his family who was the same 
I didn't feel comfortable with them and with their opinions and the end because of our differences we became estranged
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| Jul 9 @ 4:16 PM |
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pamdemonium
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And is it worth a little danger for get great sex? Is this a trick question?
For the women, he is really hot, would you take him for a test spin?
No. If I want to test him, I want to keep him.
However...the Nazi thing...it's a dealbreaker. Too far apart on the insides.
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| Jul 9 @ 4:29 PM |
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Kenn159
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attraction falls into the emotional mind. Not the rational mind.
Bliss is fond in the wise mind.
Thats why I said "Verses"
The Rational mind verses Instictive attraction [the lizard brain].
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| Jul 9 @ 4:31 PM |
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willowy1
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I am going to pick on the men a minute The rational brain verses instinctive sexual attraction. Men are very logical but not where the penis is involved  Emotions and sex are not always intertwined in the male brain.
Women need the emotional attraction to follow through. Sure I might see a man who is sexy as hell but if his morals are much different from mine I will lose the attraction.  And this just happened to me a couple weeks ago. 
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| Jul 9 @ 6:52 PM |
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1RockinDude
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If there is no personality, beyond the outward looks  Multiple personalities also ! The older one becomes more wise they are. And it is very easy to know what you want in someone. But becareful in being overly selective. All of us have our own quirks someone might not like. You have to be understanding, if you care for them. Comunication is one of the best things in any relationship.
The eyes may see the attraction..but the mind see's everything else.
But if you never take the chance in someone, then you will never know .
If the last name is Bobbit..run like Hell !!!!!!
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| Jul 9 @ 7:05 PM |
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LaughTillYaPuke
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Pffft Natzism? Nope, that would be a huge turn off.
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| Jul 9 @ 7:12 PM |
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grumblebear
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I had that happen for me a long time ago... Beautiful Sexy, smart, funny... about the fourth date she asks me if I'd like to go sprinkle goats blood in a field on Halloween....
See ya.... I was gone...
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| Jul 9 @ 7:20 PM |
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nah12
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it's when you find the sexual attraction and the rational mind all wrapped up into one soul that life will be like you have never experience before....
once you've had that you will never settle for anything less ...
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| Jul 9 @ 7:23 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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^^^^^^^^^^^ Amen.
I can settle for friendship rather than being in love, but settling for someone I'd feel contempt for?
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| Jul 9 @ 7:23 PM |
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willowy1
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^^ Yay Nah! 
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| Jul 9 @ 7:48 PM |
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capobeachguy
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Lorena Bobbitt?
I have a strong attachment to Mr. Happy and I want him to remain strongly attached to me--I'll pass!!
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| Jul 9 @ 7:51 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Rational!!!
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| Jul 11 @ 2:37 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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Wise mind and you can have both.
And
Heyya Tinks.
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| Jul 11 @ 3:05 AM |
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Always_Striving
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Bang her then dump her
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| Jul 11 @ 3:13 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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heck........Lorena isn't so bad...her actions were just misunderstood....
Arrest and trial
Lorena was taken into custody and charged with "malicious wounding". After her arrest, she commented to police that "He always have [sic] [an] orgasm and he doesn't wait for me to have [an] orgasm. He's selfish."[3]
During the trial, the couple revealed details of their volatile relationship and the events leading up to the assault. Lorena stated that John sexually, physically, and emotionally abused her during their marriage. She also stated that John flaunted his infidelities, and forced her to have an abortion. Several witnesses provided testimony supporting Lorena's claims. Lorena's defense attorneys maintained that John's constant abuse caused Lorena to eventually "snap" as she was suffering from clinical depression and a possible bout of post traumatic stress disorder due to the abuse.[3]
John denied the allegations of abuse. However, when he was cross-examined, his statements often conflicted with known facts, severely weakening the prosecution's case.[3]
After seven hours of deliberation, the jury found Lorena "not guilty" due to temporary insanity causing an irresistible impulse to sexually wound her husband. As a result, she could not be held liable for her actions.[4] Under state law, the judge ordered Lorena to undergo a 45-day evaluation period at a mental hospital, after which she would be released.[3]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lorena_Bobbitt
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| Jul 11 @ 4:22 AM |
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vinnytmd
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"verses?"
a. A single metrical line in a poetic composition; one line of poetry.
b. A division of a metrical composition, such as a stanza of a poem or hymn.
c. A poem.
2. Metrical or rhymed composition as distinct from prose; poetry.
3.
a. The art or work of a poet.
b. A group of poems:
I don't get it? Rational mind? Maybe one is starting off on the wrong foot.
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