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Laidback742
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My daughter, Kayla, recently turned 18, and was married on February 20. According to several sources that know both Kayla & her husband ( including family, friends, co-workers, school security and school officials ), along with comments and actions by her husband in the past, me, my ex wife, and our families have reason to be concerned for her safety.
Realizing that she is 18, we are limited to the actions we can pursue. We are not being overly-controlling parents, we are concerned parents. This is not a "We miss our daughter" situation, but a genuine situation in which we feel she is unsafe and may be in physical danger. We are convinced that her actions were done under manipulation and/or fear tactics. I will not go into detail here, but it is something we are convinced of.
Our goal is to try to find out if she is ok, or if she is in need of help. Her actions leading up to, and following, getting married are completely opposite of her personality, which is also a reason for our concern. Within the last 2 months, she has quit high school, 2 jobs she was working, has not pursued college interests or military interests that she had planned on, and has not let us know where she is now. We are unable to contact her through her last known cell number, and as yet do not have a new address for her.
She has always been extremely close to all members of her family, and has had almost no contact with any of her family since February 20. I have not heard from her or spoken to her since the 20th. We have reason to believe that she could be in TX, FL, WV or TN. We feel that she has been, and is being, isolated from us by her husband.
We do not feel that this behavior is simply from the fact of turning 18 and wanting to leave home to be independent; there are too many other issues involved, which I do not want to detail here. We are not asking anyone to take physical action if they see her, or to confront either of them on their own; we mainly need to know where she is, and that she is ok. If you have seen her, please contact me ASAP. We are not positive that she is unsafe or in danger, but we have our suspicions that she is not safe, and we simply don't know at this time.
Below are links to recent pictures of her.
Picture 1
Picture 2
Picture 3
People that know me, know that I would not post something like this unless I was certain it was a truly serious situation. If this is against MD rules, I apologize. If anyone has seen her, please contact me through MD email, or my Yahoo email if you have it.
I just want to know that she is ok, and where she is.
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| Mar 5 @ 5:05 PM |
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Loreli
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Oh, LB....if there is ANYTHING I can do to help....
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| Mar 5 @ 5:25 PM |
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Jankia
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My first thought Laidback was what would I do if I were you.Maybe its just me but if I hadnt heard from or been able to contact my daughter for two whole weeks since her wedding I would not only contact the police and file a missing persons order but hire an investigator to locate her.
I'm not certain but arent there any websites that you can post her picture on to get more help? Of course if your daughter sees something like that about her on the web and there is nothing wrong at all,she may get angry at you for doing it.
People dont always like the love you give them. 
I pray you can locate her as soon as possible.
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| Mar 5 @ 5:48 PM |
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Loreli
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I spose she is too old for an Amber alert.
What about John (what's his name) that did the missing person show?
Or a woman's shelter-to ask advice ...
edited for typos
[Edited on 3/5/2009 6:15 PM]
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| Mar 5 @ 6:08 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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I would file a missing persons report for sure and see if they can at least locate her or her husband. Do you have any contact with HIS family?? They might be worried to .  but since the circumstances are so odd for her loss of contact I would definitely file a missing persons report. My heart goes out to you LB and prayers said for you to be able to contact her and she is safe .. 
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| Mar 5 @ 6:22 PM |
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daisy315
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have you been able to contact her husbands family?..
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| Mar 5 @ 6:23 PM |
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BandTMom
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I agree with Becky and Jankia. Contact the police immediately.
My thoughts are with you and I hope you find her safe, sound, and soon.
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| Mar 5 @ 6:31 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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I am in agreement with contacting the police about a missing persons report.
Even if she IS 18, she is your daughter & you haven't been able to find her for two weeks.
Yes, HIS family?
Any info from them?
Do you have HIS full name? Make of car? Whatever you know could help the police.
omg, LB, my heart goes out to you, also.
Prayers right now.
I will be printing out her pics so we can watch out for her. I have teens, too. Who knows?
If there is ANYTHING .... Just ask for it.
*HUGS*
ps... check email
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| Mar 5 @ 6:40 PM |
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blueyes101
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Ok, if his family isn't any help. You can always purchase a older model scanner, ( they pick up cordless phone and cell phones ) and sit outside their home, I know this is illegal, but mostly if you use this info for criminal activity. ( if you contact the police, and they catch you using it, it shows your concern ).
If this sounds like something you may do, call the cops first, let them talk to the parents, then wait for them to call the son.
If you contact a P.I. they will do all this for you....
If you can find criminal intent, and they left the state, it becomes a federal matter.
IUf the cell phone she was using is in your name, you may be able to get a GPS reading on where it is. Even if she does not answer it..
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| Mar 5 @ 6:57 PM |
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Laidback742
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TY for all your thoughts.
I will be contacting the local police to see what our options are at this point .... I haven't before now, as I was thinking/hoping that we would have heard more from her by now, but it is becoming apparent that isn't going to happen .... I assumed also that, at her age, there was little they could, or would do, unless she went to them, or there was positive evidence of something wrong ..... but at this point, we need to push it, I guess ....
Again, thanks ....
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| Mar 5 @ 7:15 PM |
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blueyes101
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The police want to wait, to see if she will call, but anytime you are trying to locate someone, the sooner the better , or the trail gets cold.
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| Mar 5 @ 7:33 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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All I have to offer is my prayers for her safety and your peace of mind. I have 3 daughters and can only imagine how I would feel if I couldn't talk to them or even find them. My heart goes out to you LB 
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| Mar 5 @ 7:41 PM |
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whatagal
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I don't know you LB but I am willing to do anything that I can to help you find your precious daughter. She is a beautiful young lady. (Though if you possibly could increase the size of her pics it would be a big help. Please do let me know what I can do to help you.
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| Mar 5 @ 8:28 PM |
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missliss78
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I'm so sorry for what is going on.
I have no suggestions except for what's already been posted here.
Your daughter is a beautiful girl.
My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family...my hopes are for a positive answer to this soon.
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| Mar 5 @ 8:36 PM |
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RareQuestor
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A private investigator may be able to help if the police are not. Be sure that he or she is licensed, however. Here is a link to the Indiana Association of Professional Investigators:
http://www.iapi.net/
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| Mar 5 @ 8:37 PM |
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signme
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Thoughts and prayers for you and your family, LB, at this difficult time. I do hope you are able to get some answers soon.
Keep us posted, please.
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| Mar 5 @ 10:44 PM |
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blueyes101
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If you have a friend at the bank, they may be able to let you know " where " she last used her credit/debit card.
If you have access to her mail, you could look at her statement, or even her phone bill.
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| Mar 6 @ 2:43 AM |
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Earl47
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Here's your answer. My answer which is reality will be one to anger everyone. But angry and all and pops and whistles...hear this so in a year when you find out what i say is fact it can save time.
NUMBER ONE...The Freak Creep your Daughter is with..got her started on CRACK. She is now a CH as they are called.
How i know...by your 3rd paragraph in your topic your stated she has done things such as marrying this creep and dropping out of school which is not in her way of personailty or regular activity or choices. What this tells is that she is under the control of crack cocaine substance.
Here's a way you can locate and find her. Call your state and local police and say your daughter and her hunko ran off doing crack and are CH's. Then they can find them and want to find them based on reality.
Or...you can choose to ignore ME...and you will see her around you in seeral years as a crack head skank that will be her way of life. Sae my responce by pasting it in notepad and in one year you will think i am psychic. This isn't psychic but is reality of the signs of real Those whom choose to not listen are named the CONTRIBUTERS of CH"s, because not dealing with it real time only post pones and helps to keep the process of human destruction going.
Pick up your phone and tell police a creep took you 18 year old and got her on crack and they're on the streets.. This will help try to correct this.
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| Mar 6 @ 3:37 AM |
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Nightowl001
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LB, I wish I knew what to say. I can't think of much I can do to help, from here, but if you can think of anything, let me know.
I hope filig a missing persons report gets some action.
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| Mar 6 @ 4:12 AM |
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mystery2u888
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Oh LB I am so sorry to hear that........I also agree with Becky ....... you can't do this alone ....everyone's input is a good one and I understand your concern .........thoughts and prayers for you and your family......
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