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willowy1
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What is Your Conflict Style? Do you withdraw, force your ideas, smooth things over, confront and charge, or compromise?
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| Mar 20 @ 7:56 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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suggest "having sex" might be the best one... 
( some of the time....)....
(it depends on the person too...  )
...but on the other hand..... 
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| Mar 20 @ 7:57 PM |
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willowy1
Posts: 9,192
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So you fight naked?
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| Mar 20 @ 7:58 PM |
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lazareth
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suggest "having sex" might be the best one...
you been talking to my hsuband?
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| Mar 20 @ 8:09 PM |
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willowy1
Posts: 9,192
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I never want to have sex when I am mad at my man.
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| Mar 20 @ 8:17 PM |
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keeno
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so you and thor never .......
on topic, i think i use different techniques based on the situation, compromise is my favorite, but it can't be applied to all situations. i like to learn so i am willing to try something new, as in doing it your way. i am experienced so sometimes my way is better take my word for it....
[Edited on 3/20/2009 8:20 PM]
[Edited on 3/20/2009 8:21 PM]
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| Mar 20 @ 8:18 PM |
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kjac
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It depends on the conflict. Actually, I've done all of the above at one time or another.
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| Mar 20 @ 8:19 PM |
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willowy1
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Keeno this love pat is for you
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| Mar 20 @ 8:22 PM |
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keeno
Posts: 2,363
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so that means we'll never..... 
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| Mar 20 @ 8:33 PM |
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twotall911
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shoot first
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| Mar 20 @ 8:43 PM |
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pamdemonium
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I generally want to be perfectly clear what happened to cause it.
And, sometimes, when I'm angry, I cry.
Weak, I know, but that's how it goes, if the matter is
or was very important to me.
I try to make a resolution if I can. Sometimes, in spite
of best efforts you have to just let it go.
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| Mar 20 @ 8:55 PM |
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jaybird777
Posts: 1,143
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I crack a joke. Hard to be mad if yer giggling. If I can't carck a joke I tickle a crack.
Whatever works
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| Mar 20 @ 8:57 PM |
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willowy1
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| Mar 20 @ 9:20 PM |
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uab_5
Posts: 4,759
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Kung Pao Kitty!
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| Mar 20 @ 9:36 PM |
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Kenn159
Posts: 4,402
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Kill em all and let God sort it out.  
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| Mar 20 @ 9:38 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Because of the matter of fact way I tend to speak/post, often times people take it as me being confrontational, which I am not. It really depends on how important I think what I have to say is..is it worth the conflict it may cause?.. if not.. I will try to explain myself better and then leave them to draw their own conclusions... I don't hold grudges but I have very little patience for those who want to twist my words and try to make me look like I am being bitchy or picking a fight. I do not like arguing but if I feel 100% strongly about the subject at hand I will try to debate it in a mature manner.
But sometimes you will run across people that just cannot see reasoning and it's best to just walk away from the entire situation.
Really good thread topic Willow
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| Mar 20 @ 9:38 PM |
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Laidback742
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I don't believe in conflict whatsoever, and I'll kick your butt if you wanna argue about it .....
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| Mar 20 @ 9:39 PM |
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willowy1
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 Best post ever!
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| Mar 20 @ 9:40 PM |
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daisy315
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I'm like pam.. if I get really angry, I cry.. but it takes a helluva lot to get me to that point.. but if I start to cry, ya better walk away.. one thing that will set me off is elder abuse or neglect.
But most of the time, I just walk away.. I don't scream or yell.. and I refuse to stand around and let someone scream at me.
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| Mar 20 @ 11:51 PM |
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katydid438
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At work I usually try to smooth things over and/or compromise.
Personally,,I usually go off my stick for a while  , then decide if doing anything at all is of any value in my life
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