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Apr 9 @ 7:03 PM Now why ..do you think..    
beckyiv42000


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A person who shows such animosity towards you and others would bother to email you ?? And further more to put themselves in the position of being accused of harassment in doing so?? Especially when the email is filled with slander and foul language??? I know I have never emailed someone I dont like first I may have responded tho .. mainly cause it could be twisted/altered and used against me.. I rather have my confrontations in the open.. where all can be seen.. and also.. if someone did do that to you would you report them?? or forward the nasty email to the MODs? or maybe even copy paste it in a thread for all to see how sweet and wonderful they really are?? (um wait that happened a few times already huh ) anyways just wondering what you all would do in this type of situation..
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Apr 9 @ 7:07 PM Now why ..do you think..    
BandTMom


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Becky, I have often wondered this too.

There are very few people on this site I "don't like" and they aren't important enough in my life to waste time emailing.

I also wonder about total strangers who come across your profile and just decide to email something nasty. Now what's the use in that?

IMO, both cases are done by someone who just want to stir up trouble.
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Apr 9 @ 7:15 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Loreli


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I don't dislike anyone....just wish a couple would leave of their own volition...
Would I post it? People probably already see that individual for who they are.
I would block and ignore!
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Apr 9 @ 7:25 PM Now why ..do you think..    
SensualGemini


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...I don't open much mail, so they got smart and loaded the subject line. There was so much filth in the ones I received, that I would not post on here and just clicked the block button.


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Apr 9 @ 7:36 PM Now why ..do you think..    
beckyiv42000


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Ahh yes the old you WILL read my rants ploy .. how childish ..
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Apr 9 @ 8:13 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Angel178


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Well, just a thought....

Maybe these people e-mail because everyone is always saying, "stop fighting in the forums and take it to private e-mail".
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Apr 9 @ 8:15 PM Now why ..do you think..    
beckyiv42000


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So that would give them the right to use foul language and attack someone without provocation?? nahh I think they just have no self control really to HAVE to email such foul stuff to someone out of the blue
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Apr 9 @ 8:17 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Angel178


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No. Nobody has the right to hurl foul language around in the forums or in e-mail. I'm sorry. I must have misunderstood. I just meant....better to take it to private than on every thread.
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Apr 9 @ 8:19 PM Now why ..do you think..    
missliss78


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Well hello, Becky!
Have you dropped by to read my latest blog?

BTW, the block function is really a marvelous tool on this site.
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Apr 9 @ 8:19 PM Now why ..do you think..    
ColdinWisconsin


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If you really want to drive them nuts...just click the little button (mark unread) and then pretend like you never got it.

It stays their burden and not yours.
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Apr 9 @ 8:26 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Gallows_Humor


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ok..what IS the point of this thread??


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Apr 9 @ 8:27 PM Now why ..do you think..    
pomegranate


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It might just be possible that the person was responding to insulting and libelous (it's called LIBEL, not SLANDER, when it's written/typewriten, by the way), and harassing posts made about them and their posts in a thread that had since gotten locked down and therefore, that person didn't get a chance to rebut your remarks? I dunno; just a guess.
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Apr 9 @ 8:29 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Gallows_Humor


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but the first 4 posters...( excluding Lori...) NEVER attack anyone...

just ask them...

(yes Angel..that makes it 3 people...

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Apr 9 @ 8:32 PM Now why ..do you think..    
BandTMom


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...I don't open much mail, so they got smart and loaded the subject line.



You too, SG??

Actually, some of the ones I received are just repeats of things said in the forums. They were not an attempt to discuss or bury the hatchet. I think some of the words were in the essence of STFU.

Discussing by email is great but not when mud and foul language is thrown around.
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Apr 9 @ 8:33 PM Now why ..do you think..    
SensualGemini


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Yes GH, you can take Lori's spot...
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Apr 9 @ 8:34 PM Now why ..do you think..    
ColdinWisconsin


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Wait a minute Gallows! I don't attack people!
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Apr 9 @ 8:41 PM Now why ..do you think..    
beckyiv42000


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Posts: 1,649 It might just be possible that the person was responding to insulting and libelous (it's called LIBEL, not SLANDER, when it's written/typewriten, by the way), and harassing posts made about them and their posts in a thread that had since gotten locked down and therefore, that person didn't get a chance to rebut your remarks? I dunno; just a guess.
ahh and the star player has arrived ..
( I knew ya would POM too much attention not to grab it for yourself) I would like to know where I had slandered or libeled you?? I gave my opinion of your actions nothing more...yet you emailed me with foul words (which is totally your MO and you have been warned by the mods about it ) and libelous accusations out of NOWHERE.. I have never emailed you or did anymore than post my opinions on something to have you rant about them like you do to anyone who disagrees with you... I have yet to see a civil discussion from you ... and frankly usually just skip over your rants to find something worth reading...it does get tiresome tho to have to wade through either your rants or whines about being MADE the victim (what is that about? how can you be made the victim on a site where you have the option to leave??)

Um GH?? hey Pot yer black !!!

[Edited on 4/9/2009 8:43 PM]
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Apr 9 @ 8:42 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Angel178


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ugggg....this whole subject is awful...can't we just all get along?
If you are unhappy, then ignore people and just don't post around them or e-mail them....

I don't think that we should directly address people in a thread that is supposed to be hypothetical
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Apr 9 @ 8:45 PM Now why ..do you think..    
beckyiv42000


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If you are unhappy, then ignore people and just don't post around them or e-mail them.
THAT was the point if you dont LIKE someone WHY would you email them??
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Apr 9 @ 8:47 PM Now why ..do you think..    
Angel178


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You are right. I'll step back. I was just trying to imput my opinion.
I didn't shouldn't have worded it like that...
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