| Apr 23 @ 12:58 PM |
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pamdemonium

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How would you spend them? Name five things you'd want to do before you meet your maker. Not as easy as it sounds.
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| Apr 23 @ 1:36 PM |
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Snappygoddess

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It really is not easy to say what I would do, because honestly, I don't give dying much thought these days. I have been trying to do the things I can and should be doing(being more loving, hugging my babies and hubby) and living each day as though it were my last.
However.. to answer the question.. if I KNEW I had a few days to live:
1) Make sure all of my loved ones knew they were loved and cherished
2) Make love to my husband as many times as we can manage in 5 days time
3) Tell my beloved pets goodbye
4) Have a "going away" party
5) I want to be surrounded by nature, flowers and my loved ones when I "check out"
Very thought-provoking thread Pam
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| Apr 23 @ 1:40 PM |
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pamdemonium

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The question was asked of me by a friend. I gave the most responsible answers. She said I was a martyr and refused to share her list with me. Until I begged. Her list was full of fun, and fantasy, and risk taking. It was sort of a wakeup call for me to see her list. I'm still not sure I'd change my list, but it's heavy on my mind now.
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| Apr 23 @ 2:37 PM |
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Kenn159

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Have sex for 5 days straight, and try to time it so that i die only seconds after the last orgasm.
What a way to go.
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| Apr 23 @ 2:59 PM |
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Jankia

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I would take my family and spend my last five days at my vacation home fishing on the Cisco chain of lakes.
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| Apr 23 @ 3:14 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower

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Five things? I've already done my fair share of fun and exciting risk taking, one of the few things I've never procrastinated about, so I think I'd probably look for more serene ways of ending my days on earth. I don't think I'd want my loved ones to know what was coming.
1. I'd make recordings to those closest to me, to be listened to at various times - immediately, a year later, five years later, etc. I'd try to picture where I think each of them might be at that point in his or her life and let them get a laugh out of how wrong I'd probably be.
2. Think a lot, and try to mend any fences that needed mending.
3. Spend time outdoors, revelling in the physical world, preferably with my SO so my revelry could be as intense as possible.
4. Hug my animals a lot. Hug my friends and family a lot. Hug trees too, but I draw the line at cacti.
5. Talk to my youngest a lot about the changes that would be coming in his life, and try to prepare him for them.
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| Apr 23 @ 3:41 PM |
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10zie

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1. Update my will 2. Say my farewells 3. Gorge on fav foods 4. Visit fav places 5. Pray for safe passage
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| Apr 23 @ 3:56 PM |
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CPUfan

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6. Take up smoking again... lol...
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| Apr 23 @ 3:57 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower

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^^^^^^^^^^ oops, forgot that one.
Definitely do some smoking, but maybe not all tobacco
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| Apr 23 @ 4:00 PM |
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CPUfan

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(Peace pipe lol)
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| Apr 23 @ 4:39 PM |
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CreamPie907

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I'd find Ken.
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| Apr 23 @ 4:48 PM |
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painter007

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Ken is a sweetie.....................
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| Apr 23 @ 4:48 PM |
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Loreli

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1. Get together with my kids....and I would want them to know. When my oldest son was 13, he had thyroid tumors the size of half a softball. The doc kept telling me..."Oh his bloodwork came back that it isn't cancer". Boy was he pissed at me...even though the doc never told us she considered that before the surgery. 2. Write up who gets what heirlooms. My 3 kids split everything according to my will. There are some things I want certain ones to have. 3. Have fun....bbq with friends, jet ski, ride. 4. Make sure my daughter will have plenty of people supporting her. 5 Vacation with my family.
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| Apr 23 @ 4:53 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin

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And where did you get THIS idea from Missy?
This is by NO MEANS my final draft. This IS NOT my last will and testament!!!!
Alright. So heroin. It's a given. Were gonna shove the stinkin needle in our arm. But...while I'm cranked to the gills I plan on also having my nipples pierced. I've always wanted one of those raunchy chains that go from nipple to nipple. May as well do it while I can't feel anything. Take pictures, would you? I'm of course going to get my clit re-pierced as well. BUT, I also plan on piercing all my friends too. Hey, I'm dying, they will feel too guilty to deny me. Sex with a woman. Or many. At once. I haven't quite decided, but I figure I've got 5 days. I do sex with a woman on Monday (say that's day one) and if I dig it, I'm gonna get me an orgy harem. Smoke an entire cigar. Don't know why, but I wanna. A cigarillo counts. Go down to Mehico and line up about 15 guys (20 would take too long) slowly oil each of them up until they are hard as rocks and take my time slowly screwing each and every one of them while the other 14 watch) What? I should worry about venereal diseases right now? Pffft. Shave my head. Granted, this comes more towards the end as I don't want to freak people out totally, but still...gonna do it. I think I have a nice head actually. The point? To freak everyone out at the funeral. Give them something to talk about. What the hell else are they gonna talk about for 3 hours. Most of those people will be meeting for the first time and they are gonna need an ice breaker. See? There is me...always thinking of others first. Pornography (aka nude pictures) Yeah, I'm having lots taken. Like, grab a couple extra chips for the camera while your at Walmart lots. The way I figure it, it's just plain old scandalous. If they turn out nice, I want them slid under everyone windshield wipers during my eulogy. If I die real thin and bony like...have a book made, market it to mothers who can force their sons to look at it if caught masturbating to a Playboy or something. All profits to go to my daughter of course. Yet another reason for her to be glad she is adopted. I will eat bacon for every meal every day I will actually attempt to screw myself with a banana. Seriously...I hear people do that. I would write a detailed descriptive letter to every man I have ever fantasied about while masturbating. (Alright, I can admit right here that this is something I may need to start pretty soon if I'm gonna have it done in time) I would tell them why I mentally screwed them, why it was so mother f***ing awesome, if I thought their friends were better (in my own head) But I can assure you, it would be absolutely filthy. And while I may be bald and dead, there is gonna be a lot of frigging erections at my funeral. I would write a letter to every man I've had sex with that was an ass (in any way shape or form) and tell them what I thought was so deformed, creepy or just plain yucky about their wieners.
Speaking of ass, I would also have anal sex. And it would be good. I would make a video and have it posted on the internet (after my death of course) of me telling Brad Pitt every single thing I have ever thought of doing to him. I would write a letter to every old boyfriend (including a picture of me having sex with a woman ) and telling them I went gay because of them. .....And how awesome it is. I would fly to Scotland and have some guy talk to me (seriously...just lean over and talk to me) while I got off listening to his voice.
If I am with a man at the time. I WILL have sex with his brother, his best friend and his father if he's not tooooo gross.
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| Apr 23 @ 4:57 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin

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The question was asked of me by a friend. I gave the most responsible answers. She said I was a martyr and refused to share her list with me. Until I begged. Her list was full of fun, and fantasy, and risk taking. It was sort of a wakeup call for me to see her list. I'm still not sure I'd change my list, but it's heavy on my mind now. My God...do you have a confessional in your living room?
Love you girl. Live. Love. Laugh.
It's what it's all about.
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| Apr 23 @ 4:57 PM |
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CreamPie907

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Speaking of ass, I would also have anal sex. And it would be good. You're LJ's lover, aincha?
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| Apr 23 @ 4:58 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin

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Poop.
Did I ever once mention poop?
No, I did not. Therefore, I am not involved with LJ.
Meem's has got a man.
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| Apr 23 @ 5:03 PM |
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CreamPie907

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It was sort of a wakeup call for me to see her list.
Ooh..honey...it's later than you think.
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| Apr 23 @ 5:50 PM |
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Jalon

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I will eat bacon for every meal every day Me too!
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| Apr 23 @ 6:41 PM |
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10zie

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6. Take up smoking again... lol... This statement was a beacon on my screen just now. Oh Yeah!
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