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GJay
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August 05, 2009 Article Link: http://www.webmd.com/balance/features/back-to-present?ecd=wnl_brc_080409
Back to the Present
WebMD Feature from "Psychology Today" Magazine
By Jay Dixit
How to live in the moment and appreciate your surroundings every day
Life happens in the present. But so often, we let time rush past, unobserved and unseized. We worry about the future and ruminate about the past while precious seconds of our lives slip away. We're so focused on what's next that we neglect what's now. There is an alternative. Living in the moment—what psychologists call mindfulness—means fully experiencing the here and now. It means you stop doing and focus on just being. It means placing your attention on what's happening at this moment. If you can do that, you'll see it changes everything. Here are some practical tips to help you get mindful now.
Meditate.
Meditating is nothing more than focusing on the present moment. The easiest way to meditate is to simply focus on your breath—not because your breath has some magical quality, but because it's always there with you. The challenge is to keep your attention on your breathing. Inevitably, your mind will wander and thoughts will arise—and that's fine. When it happens, just let go of the thought and bring your attention back to the present by focusing once again on your breath.
Reminders.
Use a reminder of the string-around-your-finger variety. Wear your watch upside-down, put a quarter in your shoe, or put a smudge on one of the lenses of your glasses. When you notice it, let that serve as a reminder for you to notice your surroundings, become aware of your senses and your bodily sensations, and bring your focus into the present. If you get to the point where you're going entire days without noticing it, switch up the reminder.
Slow down.
Attend to the subtleties of experience in the here and now. Get a handful of raisins. Eat one—but don't just pop it in your mouth. Instead, imagine you've never seen a raisin before. Look it over carefully. Consider its shape, weight, color, and texture. Rub the raisin gently across your lips, noticing how it feels. Now put the raisin in your mouth, and roll it around slowly with your tongue. Notice how it feels in your mouth. Take a small bite, noting the flavor. Next, chew the raisin slowly, focusing on its taste and texture. Then swallow, and follow its path down your throat as far as you can. You can have a few more—but remember to focus on what each one looks, tastes, and feels like on your lips, in your mouth, and down your throat.
Make it new.
When you're performing music, giving a presentation, or even just recounting a favorite story, try to make it new in subtle ways, delivering it in a way you've never done before. Rather than performing it by rote, take a risk and try something different—use different words, add a pause, try to express a particular emotion to the audience. Not only will you enjoy it more yourself, but studies find that audiences prefer such performances too. Somehow mindfulness seems to leave an imprint on everything we do.
Mind the gap.
Whenever you find yourself waiting—for the checkout line to move, for the traffic light to change, for the Web page to load—get present. Instead of being impatient and wishing things would go faster, be grateful for the gift of a respite—for the 30 seconds or a minute or two minutes during which you have no obligations.
Move your toes.
Here's a good trick to return to mindfulness if you feel angry or aggressive. Shift all your attention to the soles of your feet. Move your toes slowly, feel the weave of your socks and the curve of your arch. Breathe naturally and focus on the soles of your feet until you feel calm. Practice this exercise until you can use it wherever you are, and whenever you find yourself, feeling verbally or physically aggressive.
Focus the senses.
When you observe your surroundings without judging them—good or bad—you naturally nudge your awareness into the present moment. Close your eyes and focus on your sense of scent and mentally list the smells—the restaurant downstairs, the wet pavement outside, the perfume of a co-worker. Next, list all the sounds you hear—the ventilation system, cars in the distance, the hum of your computer, typing. Then open your eyes and list the things you see—the rustling of the trees, the faces in the crowd, the wrinkles on your palm. Finally, list the things you can sense that you appreciate—the way a beam of sunlight hits the brick building across the street, the welcome sight of a friend's smile, the smell of cookies baking. Remember, you're not looking for things to appreciate—you're appreciating the things you sense. With luck, this exercise will put you in a state of relaxed attention that reduces anxiety and makes you feel alive.
Originally published on January 19, 2009
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AngelLight
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Thanks for the gentle reminder GJay...
Now is all there is.
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lj450
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Very nice G-ay
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redhairNfreckles
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Thanks GJay, I've printed it out to remind me every now and then....
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chubs
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actually, I've also heard that some peeps have tomorrow to look forward to 
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Snappygoddess
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The last 10 months I have learned once again to be aware of the simple things in life..... I often meditate on the radiation table.. puts my focus on something besides where I am at the moment.
Thanks Gjay for posting this... it's going on my desk
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mystery2u888
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little Gjay................. 
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GJay
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The reason I posted it is because it made me think of how I live my life. I live for the moment. I know I should look further into the future, however, I don't know what the future has in store for me. I do know that I am here now; this minute; this hour... I was here before that.. Will I be here tomorrow? An hour from now..who knows..
I try to live for the moment, maintain the positive, avoid the negative and focus on bringing happiness to all who wish to receive it from me. It is not always feasible, but I try anyway. I have nothing to lose and only something to gain!
I really enjoyed the whole article and I do believe if we followed some of the suggestions and advice in the message, we would all be better for it. There is always room for us to better ourselves and live a happier life.
So says I... lol..
[Edited on 8/5/2009 7:16 PM]
[Edited on 8/5/2009 7:17 PM]
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sweet5red
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GJay......... she always says the right things...... sweet N Louisiana
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mystery2u888
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Love  This Gjay.........  little gf of mine......and Happy Late Birthday
I am soo sorry.....
Hope it was a good one!!!
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GJay
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Hey! Mystery! How did you kow how much I love icecream! Bring on more.. Say, where the heck is the cake.. Dang it all, I knew something was missing! Not to worry, I will just double up on the icecream is all!
Thanks again!
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mystery2u888
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I know I always know GJay
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