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10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(


Nov 27, 2011 @ 1:11 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
techead


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I pity the parents of the kid who tries to bully my 11 year old niece.. My brother has no qualms about getting both parents with one punch. I've seen it when she was in preschool and this kid use to hit her in the back of the head one day he hit her so hard it left a knot.

I was working at the school that day repairing a duplicator when I saw him and his wife. Asked him what was going on and he told me. The funny thing was he was very calm, that was until he got behind close doors. Ever hear thunder so close it raises the hair on you arms? When he came out the door of the principles office he was pointing back at the bullies parents and told them if their kid didn't stop picking on his daughter this is what will happen to both of you standing in your own kitchen. And he hit the filing cabinet and caved the side in. That sound startled the whole office, he then told the principle to send him a bill for the cabinet lol, but swore it would be somebody's F-in head next time if she even comes home with a scratch on her anywhere.

Funny thing is my sister n law is so liberal in her ways of dealing with things like this that she turned to the mother of the other child and told her that she would take care of her since my brother didn't hit woman...
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Nov 27, 2011 @ 1:30 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
riffraff


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You have a real classy family destroying school property.
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Nov 27, 2011 @ 4:02 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
techead


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You have a real classy family destroying school property.

Thank you!!!! Was it you that had to deliver the new one? If so then you realize that it was better to do that than to knock the hell out of the father of the spoiled brat that was picking on my niece.

Of course I understand why you posted your reply. Cowards usually troll on the mighty. Here are some bread crumbs to pay my toll Mr. Troll

Now go fish Gollum or is it Smeagol?.......
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Nov 27, 2011 @ 5:35 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
riffraff


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Was it you that had to deliver the new one? If so then you realize that it was better to do that than to knock the hell out of the father of the spoiled brat that was picking on my niece.
Your niece unfortunately has a father without much brain power to make his point in any other way but to destroy school property and threaten another family right in the Principal's office. The Principal actually should have called the police.

Your niece is likely contaminated living in such an environment that would only teach her little mouth to repeat spew she hears from her parents and uncle. The poor kid might have been bullied because she was just parroting what she hears at home. That's never an excuse for bullying but no doubt the bully's parents are just as dysfunctional. Its very sad when children grow up in sick homes like that.

Of course I understand why you posted your reply. Cowards usually troll on the mighty. Here are some bread crumbs to pay my toll Mr. Troll
Your powers of understanding are very limited. Cowards never troll on the mighty which is why they're cowards. But the mighty stupid wouldn't understand that.



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Nov 27, 2011 @ 6:17 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
techead


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The Principal actually should have called the police.
Well there's a clever idea

Your niece is likely contaminated living in such an environment

You have no idea how mature my niece is for her age. Just because you were reared in a "take a ass whoopin" atmosphere doesn't mean all American families rear their children that way. Oh and that is a cowardly reaction from a coward who would not ever stand up for their family such as yourself.

Your powers of understanding are very limited
So says you.. However, I am willing to bet that as for your understanding of situations such as this it is more of a bow out and run than stand for what you believe in. Don't worry I'm sure your find your courage somewhere Mr.Lion if you can't get it from the man behind the curtain. The world could always use another loser standing on Wall Street.

The poor kid might have been bullied because she was just parroting what she hears at home.
What we have here is a failure to communicate and an assumption on the part of the respondent that he knows what really goes on inside of another's household. The only problem here is your ASS sumption.

I can see that you where home schooled so you really have no advice or experience in these matters. Please don't try an cover your yellow streak, it shows every time you post something or log in here. Problem is you were born with it. SO technically it's not your fault so blame your father, and his father, and his father before him.
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Nov 27, 2011 @ 7:28 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
riffraff


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Oh your poor niece. The odds are not good when a child lives among such stupidity. Its easy to imagine what bullshit gets spoken about at home especially when the funny uncle visits. Hopefully the educators at the school will provide enough education that would compensate for an unhealthy home environment. Its been done so there's always hope.
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Nov 27, 2011 @ 8:59 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
Loreli


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If I were the parent of the bullied, I would call the police.
What about the bully?
What is HE seeing at home to make him that way....
cripes.
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Nov 27, 2011 @ 10:02 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
techead


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look riffraff or what ever. You're trolling period. You handle things in your home your way, my brother can handle his home just fine. Your type of individual here's about one incident where something or someone got hit and you blow it all to hell with your exaggerations

You don't have a single clue and it is of no use to try and counter argue how someone runs their household. I, or you can't control anyone but ourselves. So give it a rest your trolling point is made.
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Nov 29, 2011 @ 10:45 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
gypsy29


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My daughter was bullied in the 5th grade... I spoke with the teacher, the counselor, and the principal. I finally brought a cop in with me to the principal's office, had them take pictures of the red hand print and take a statement and threaten to press charges. After having a temper tantrum that my kid had ONCE AGAIN come home with bruises and hand prints on her back!


The bully was sent to an alternative school and put in therapy to keep me from pressing charges.


It stopped!


Parents have to advocate for their children!
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Nov 30, 2011 @ 7:07 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
Loreli


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Good for you, Gypsy!
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Nov 30, 2011 @ 8:08 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
riffraff


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Gypsy gives a good example of how to resolve problems the right way and find solutions where the offender gets the help they need.

Good parents earn everyone's respect. Parents who make threats and destroy property earn no respect and that includes self respect.


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Nov 30, 2011 @ 8:37 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
defman


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That's the way to go, Gypsy!

Yeah, I don't like bullying anymore than anyone else. I look at both sides, even though I'd favour whaling the tar out of the bullies and punish them and so on, but I have to remember, they're sinners just like the bullied are, we all are... it's just tha the bullies have problems too, that makes them lashes out and the easy prey didn't stand up and defends themselves, so they find it easier to keep on lashing out and it helps to get rid of the bad feeling that motivated them to keep on doing it, like a pavlovian dog type of deal.

I feel for the kids, when they gets bullied and they resorted to death in order to escape, not knowing if they'll reach heaven that way. They'll not know, they'll never know, not when it is clear in the scriptures that the dead do not know anything, when they die the first death, so will have to wait for resurrection when Jesus comes back, to judge all, to enter heaven and thus immortality, or have a second death... oh well.

That was from what I leanred in the past few months, discoveries that I never knew before.

In my childhood, though, I used to be a bully. The thing is, my homelife was bad, dysfunctional, and sometimes a mess, so I'd lashed out when certain things, other kids reminds me of it and I would blame them, that's how it is, and in time, I was taught to learn to stop and my parents stop and learn as well, and things got better. Later one I got bullied and it was my turn to learn and I also fought back, and so it goes. I never liked both sides, though. I just want to learn my books and it was sheer exhilarating learning stuff from the books and I gravitated to the books, leaving my classmates behinds miles behind... I guess it's why I got bullied at times... though I had to remind them when they do that so i fought back, in the most dirty, brutal way possible, much more brutal than you hearings would, you'd stopped short, but me, I go further, just to scare the holy terror into my enemies... I'm still a legend sometimes, they'd talked about me to this day...

I just knew I want to be left alone, but they would not leave me alone... I wait, for the longest time, for them to leave me alone, but usually, after days, weeks, then I'd popped... simply go berserk... I'd throw them around, pounds on them, stomps on them, anything to drive my point through their thick skulls, LEAVE ME THE EFFING ALONE! (sighs)...

I still remember each and everyone I ever done and I still remember each adn everry thing they done to me... I even punched the girls out too, for they ain't innocnent as they make themselves to be... those effing bitches... So it matters not... when I hits my teen and college years, they was awanting me but I would nto have anything to do with them, even if they'd changed, but nope, I waited, and I saw their ugly side and I knew they never changed... so I never bothers with them... why should I stay and perhaps be friendly with scum? No thanks. I knows most of them are psycho, in some ways, just no idea how deep their schizoid or whatever nuts they are.

Last time I seen one of them, he still talks on and on and on about it, he never let it go. Another one, still goes on and on about it... Sheesh. They act as if it is the most important thing. Not me, though, from birth to adult hood, we're supposed to GROW, to LEARN, to CHANGE ourselves, to MATURE... yet these bullies, they act like they're STUCK on a certain level, like they are unabble to let go and move on, to learn to change and become better... nope, they seems to LIKE being evil and stay there, picking on and on and on at scabs that most have long forgotten... (sighs)... Sure, my friends, 'if you can call it that, are still around, but I dont' see them, i don't need them, they're always dredging up the bloody past, so I hardly sees them, I see them now and then, talk about new things, and when they talk about old stuff, I mvoe on, bye bye... they seems not to take the bloody hint... theyr'e really stupid at times...

I once was a bully, for a short time, and it's easy to understand, so when I learned why I'm doing that, I stopped, and I was happy, and then I was bullied, and thus I leanred, and things got better, and I was happy. All I cared about is reading stories, reading, studying, learning, growing, god, that's what we're supposed to be doing, not stuck on some sort of childish ideology that kids seems to be stuck on, like fashion is a god, or money, or whatever, that kids used to do, or stil lthinks is more important that LEARNING good stuff in books...

One of the reason why I liked college and most of all University was that I thought people grow out of it, people would listen to each other and help each other, but yeah, some does, but not all. I had two colleges in one year, some days half day in one and half day at other, and both are about fifty kilometers away from each other, Leederville and Bentley, two or three buses to get there, so that was my only time of college and I loved it, apart from the idiots on the buses and my classmates wiht their bulllshit bullying sometimes... Ifight back and I'm left alone, once in a while they forgot and they picks and picks and then I had to stand up and fight back and then I'm left alone and so it repeats itself.

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Nov 30, 2011 @ 8:37 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
defman


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Oh yes, this "friend" who was the ultimate bully of my life? Turns out his angst was being a gay and a homo as well, so he picks on us who are not as secually challenged as he was. Last time I saw him, he's calmer, happier, with his boyfriend, possibley a girl, he would be a girl, and his boyfriend would be the boy, I think. I'd thought it was strange, seeing that, but for years he covers up his sexuality by marrying a woman and having kids and once a week goes out to meet men in strange places for, you know, and he'd come home and they'd argued for hours, days... sheesh. .. I saw all that, being a friend myself and they lived close by and I had no one to see, so I thought he's doing it wrong, even said so myself, but he's like addict, unable to break free... they divorces, get back together, separated, and now, he's with a man, and he's happy, and I thought, how werid! Yet, growing up, he denied this attraction he has for men and so he takes it out on anyone who he thinks is easy to picks on, becaus he has many brothers and they all picks on him, his father included, he's the baby of the family and so that's why he picks anyone he can bully.

Some otheres, I figures out over time, but always I had to defend myself. Then there's my little brother, at times he's such a nasty little shit, I'd beat him until he says, "Okay! Okay! Okay! I'm sorry!" then I'd stopped. I never picked on him, yet he picks on me? How's that for strange? And he's hearing, not deaf, like me. Strange. I always have this thing in me, the absolute certainty of knowing what is exactly RIGHT and what is exactly WRONG. And yet, people seems to disregards the rules nad just do wrong things and justifying it as it makes them feels good. Sheehs. I wonders, though, I wonders at times, that maybe it's the psychopathology thing, maybe, or the sociopathology thing. I'm sure of it. Ill never know for sure. Oh well. SO that's nother reason why I dont' trust people, who knows what shit they'll put on me?

And one final thing, I give as good as I got, perhaps better than I got... anyone tries anytihng on me, even until now, or unto the future, I'd give as good as I gets.. I stand up for msyelf and I'd fight, no matter what, even if I have to stoop down and be dirty, I'd do it. I'd defend myself against scumbags who thinks they're better than me in any way shape or form. No matter what, I'd fight back, even with a gun at my head I'd FIGHT to the DEATH! That's how I am. So far no one has picked on me or fought me, apart form my other friend... the gay one was from my high school, and my other one, childhood abo friend, he's the other bully/friend I have. Last time I fought him, he thought I was "safe" for him as he was too scared to fight the other deaf drug addict who was clearly mad, in the sense of a psychopath type... well, we fought, and I regretted that it happened in front of my ex's kids, espeically as it scared my "daughter" as it were... she never seen grown men fighting such a down-and-dirty fight like that... it scared her so bad, she shook for hours... I had to hold her and comfort and promise never to do that ever again... though I wonderd how... oh well. anyway, I had to use a chain to strangle the idiot to stop his drunken bullying... there was no other way... I was about far gone, fed up, and I though, what can I do to stop this shit? Saw the dog chain and grabbed it, wrapped it around the abo's neck and strangle the fukker, until he was so black, unable to breathes, I shouted at him in his face, STOP! And he nodded his head, so I let go... got in the car with my family and drove out... never saw him for a long time.... he came back all apologies and contrite, saying he did it so he didn't hav eto fight the other bloke... sheeshed, what an idiot... you don't like someone, WALK AWAY...even though I could not walk away, being that he was crowding my girl then, and then he turned on me and that's when i realised he set me up... so I frankly do not trust people, we're all sinners and scumbags... nothing pretty about us... only good thing is we'll have better life with Jesus, that's abou tit. Nothing we can do will make us any better, not Star Trek, nore New World Order shit. Thtt's how it is, no matter how much people will denies this fact.

You only have to see movies, and there it is, good guys being bullied by bad guys, and good guys trumping the bad guys, and sometimes, bad trumping the good, thus kids gets brainwashed with unrealistic ideas, expectations, and the like of what life is all about. (sighs)...

Oh well. It's all good, even if some of it was painful... but then life is painful at times, and it's supposed to teach us to GROW UP! To become MATURE.. not stay stuck at a certain age repeating the same bullsit over and over and over, like some are... I find that amazing. How boring their lives must be, to be stuck at a certain level of IQ, or intelligence, or age, and never improve, never grow, never change for the better... stuck forever... horrible, a horrible way to live.

Pain are supposed to make us become away of something that is wrong and we're supposed to figure it out by asking ourselves questiosn, what, why, when, and so on and figure out answers, by looking up solutions, even adapting solutions that fits and sovles our problems... that's called maturing, growing up, bettering ourselves... that's the rule of life... not be stuck at a certain age, like the idiot Nazies does, stuck, with their wei
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Nov 30, 2011 @ 8:39 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
defman


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Pain are supposed to make us become away of something that is wrong and we're supposed to figure it out by asking ourselves questiosn, what, why, when, and so on and figure out answers, by looking up solutions, even adapting solutions that fits and sovles our problems... that's called maturing, growing up, bettering ourselves... that's the rule of life... not be stuck at a certain age, like the idiot Nazies does, stuck, with their weird rigidness kind of thinking... poor saps... no flexibilities... inflexible mind, unable to adapt to new ideas, unable to bend, too stiff and they'll be brittle, when they bend the wrong way they snaps... poor saps.

Poor kids... they have no one to talk to, no books to figure things out... they'll have to do it the hard way, ask yourselves some questiosn, go look it up in books, there's always some answers somewhere, when we can see with our own eyes...

Oh well. Such is life.
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Nov 30, 2011 @ 8:52 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
defman


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The thing with bullies, they're DISHONEST with why they're doing the bullying... they'll denies that they have problems, and they'll denies why they're picking on someone... it's dishonest... they're even lying to themselves, so they'll keep on doing it, for years if it makes them feels good. Like psychos, they'll never quit.

I grew up, bettering myself, learning to see behind what's obvious, and mostly it's someting in their background, in their family life, that makes them angry, pissed off, something, it's all hidden, and so they do it, to pick on someone for their looks, or their weight, or something easy they can see, nothing hidden that they cannot see. IT's all a show... but it's something they're unwilling to say...

This girl who killed herself, I look at her face and I thought for sure I understand, it's her beauty, her face is beautiful, and that's might be the reason why they're bullying her, not her weight, or whatever it is, but her face... she's real pretty.

I was picked on precisely because I was good looking, women just loves to caresses my skin, my face, throughout my childhood... always talkng and smiling at me, touching, touching, touching... (sighs)... it got so I hides from women, prefering books to their touches... from childhood to now... even at times I misses a woman's touch, oh well. But that's how it was, at schools, I'd be picked on and I used to wonder why, and when they picks on me, I'd have no recourse but to fight back... I use any means, to fight back... I didnt' care if I got hurt or they got hurt, as long as they'll be punihsed and be too hurt to fight back, then I'd be happy, they'd leave me the hell alone.

So I'm sure of it, the girl's classmates were jealous of her looks and thus they hated her, so they picks on her and taunted her about her obvious whatever, but hidden in their taunt is the hidden jealousy that they liked her looks or something. This, to me, makes more sense.

My brother, however, picks on me because I never listens to anyone, I studies books and I loves doing what I do, and I never bothers anyone. I guess this pisses him off, because he can't do the same, he don't have the same mind as I do, no curiosity, all he does is spouts off endlessly, a little shit with a big-know-it-all attitude, yet he neverr studies a thing... (sighs)...

Big talkers, I saw, are big eotists bullies, with hardly any substances at all. Poor saps.

In the last few years, I was shy, I kept mostly to myself, and I never speaks my mind. In the last year or so, I learned to speak my mind, especially after my encounters with those scumbags scammers and liars and cheaters and most of all, idiot women who acts like bullies, trying to shut me up, when I wanted a specific type of woman, a biblical woman I'd be ahppy to love and cherish forever... one who is truly Faithful, Trustworthy, Loyal... such a rare gem. Yep, feminists hated that. Too bad. I don't care. I won't bother with weak feminists types and I speak my mind, I dont' care. I asserts myself and be damn to anyone. I'm sick of being kind, shy, quiet. I lay it all out. I grew up at last!
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Nov 30, 2011 @ 8:59 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
riffraff


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Hey, nice humungous Cutting and Pasting job
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Dec 1, 2011 @ 10:56 AM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
eastham


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What is HE seeing at home to make him that way....

Most bullies are in fact abused at home.
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Dec 1, 2011 @ 12:28 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
bluewind37


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My niece was being bullied at school. Despite all of the meetings with the principal and the parents of the bully, it wouldn't stop.

My sister was at the point of involving the cops herself. Then one day, my nephew saw the bully in action picking on his sister, grabbed the lid off the school trash can, (he's younger and smaller than his sister), and he whacked the bully up alongside the head with that lid.

Was he in the right? Yes and no. Yes because he was sticking up for his sister. No, because using that lid as a weapon is not what his mother (my sister) has taught him.

Did get the desired result..the bullying stopped. Did the kid's parents threaten to press charges? No, they knew what their son (yeah, a boy bullying a girl... ) bullied others. I don't know what they've done in regards to their son's ways, I just know that after that, my niece was no longer bullied.

And for any who might be wondering, yes, my nephew got a 3 day suspension from school over that incident. But, he says if he had it to do over again, he would still clobber that bully with that lid.
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Dec 1, 2011 @ 12:49 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
riffraff


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Was he in the right? Yes and no.
Yes and yes. A brother should always stick up for his sister. And maybe the bully was bigger than him and it took a lid to equalize the situation. Must have made a nice sound too. It wasn't like he used a broken botttle or a baseball bat.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYQ99V5Eito


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Dec 1, 2011 @ 1:42 PM 10 year old takes own life... because of bullying... :(    
techead


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Yes and yes. A brother should always stick up for his sister. And maybe the bully was bigger than him and it took a lid to equalize the situation. Must have made a nice sound too. It wasn't like he used a broken botttle or a baseball bat.
You condone this action yet ridicule the action that was taken by a father where no one got hurt. Anyone else smell BS from this guy/girl?
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