| Feb 12, 2006 @ 4:56 AM |
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pitbullgurl
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So you're on a date.... your chattin' and everything is going great...all of a sudden they open they say or do something that totally surprises you. What totally turns you off the instant someone says or does it?
For moi...I really dislike racism, braggarts, vulgarity or someone asking how much money I earn....and if they start flossin' their teeth at the table (some don't know that this is rude!!  ) I am soooo outta there!!
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 5:04 AM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Would you rather they flossed teeth or scratched the a$$ at the table? 
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 5:27 AM |
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pitbullgurl
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Wellllllllllllllll......I'd rather they did neither....but if your given me a choice...I'll take the a$$ scratcher!! Better he scratch his a$$.... than have some food reminants accidently flyin' my way!! 
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 7:23 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I had a guy over for dinner once and I was in the kitchen fixing dinner and he came out and proceeded to fart!  ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 7:26 AM |
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chinabull2000
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I went on a date fairly recently and we were talking about our exes (yeah, really romantic!lol), and she said her ex was a total c*nt!. Although it was very probably true, I was quite surprised by that, especially on a first date, and it was a breakfast date too! LOL
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 9:14 AM |
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MotownManiax
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For moi...I really dislike racism, braggarts, vulgarity or someone asking how much money I earn...
Wow, pit, it's like we have ESP! Those would be my first choices for datebreakers, too. 
I also agree with china....talking about the ex is definitely Taboo, and showing bitterness to boot?...no, not going there.
I'd add talking about how many toys you own, how the opposite sex just can't stop giving you attention, and what they "expect" from you.
Peace. 
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 9:17 AM |
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sciurusniger
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Acting like a dog that's gotten wind of a female in heat. It is so unattractive to have to keep pushing them off your leg, not to mention it makes it hard to walk, let alone run away from them....
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 9:34 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Aha, simple fix sciur....from now on just bring a leash, they could make excellent pets, once you break them of trying to hump your leg, of course.
Hopefully, they're already housebroken. 
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 11:41 AM |
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RareQuestor
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If any woman wants to terminate our date all she has to do is light up a cigarette in my presence. 
I also agree that money is a very sensitive subject. I don't mind telling you about my job, but all too often when a woman asks about it her question come across as "How much are you worth?" rather than "What do you do for a living?" 
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 11:59 AM |
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ladyraindove74
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LOL...everything stated above, and a negative attitude, or sarcasm, or...blaming everything that happened to them on someone else. Just plain crushes it all. Yep...negativity....
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 12:12 PM |
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father_heart
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well if in not been tuned in and turned on with ya in the first place, it doesnt matter
yet when I am tuned in and tured on, one thig slams the door on it faster then anthing else
Not WALK your TALK
if ya say ya gona then do
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 12:27 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Someone that says they want complete honesty and then when you give it to them they are indignant! Don't ask if you don't want to know.. that's my philosophy from the beginning and they are aware of it!
I also agree with the other turn offs mentioned here... bragging about material possessions, bullies, snobs that think they are above approach...
Just give me someone real, simple, down to earth and we will get along just fine... which is the reason I am with my guy now 
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 12:41 PM |
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Angel54214
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This in the General Topic catagory ok...
What turns me off on people is when your talking to someone and they ask you a question, but don't let you answer in a finished sentence. That erks me to no end. Its like why bother to ask if you don't want to listen.
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 12:46 PM |
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greenizenora
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Along with what's already been mentioned. . .the one thing he can do that totally grosses me out:
While eating. . .chew with his mouth open making little "mmm" noises with every chomp. . . 
Sorry, I just can't take it!
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 12:51 PM |
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pitbullgurl
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This in the General Topic catagory ok..
Which catagory do you suggest Angel?....Dating/Relationships?.....for future reference.
and she said her ex was a total c*nt!.
  The dreaded 'C' word!! You can call anyone whatever you please (even though it demonstrates immaturity)....but the big 'C'?
{quote] While eating. . .chew with his mouth open [/quote]
Sooo with you on that one Greenize. If my sons forget their manners and do that....all I have ta do is give them ' the look' and their back on track!!
Hey..why didn't the 'quote' thingy work?!! 
[Edited on 2/12/2006 12:57 PM]
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 1:03 PM |
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chinabull2000
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{quote]
Look, it's the wrong type of bracket at the beginning... you must've typed it instead of clicking the quote button!
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 1:04 PM |
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spongebob777
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A knee to the groin usually shuts me down pretty quick.
Aside from that, I just cannot see myself with someone who spends their days nagging about every little thing. Nothing will drive me away faster.
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 1:08 PM |
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pitbullgurl
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Look, it's the wrong type of bracket at the beginning
Ok....need more java!!
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 1:10 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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 What turns me off is someone who doesn`t let you get a word in during the whole date.(My last date by the way).
All about..them them them
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| Feb 12, 2006 @ 2:05 PM |
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luvshorses644
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Vanity....Someone that cannot pass a mirror without stopping and admiring themselves, who looks around the room to see what admirers they have. Do you really want a relationship with anyone other than the person in the mirror?
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