| Mar 7, 2006 @ 4:55 PM |
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mailorderannie
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I just read on yahoo that since internet dating is so popular, there are now "cheaters websites" where women who have been cheated on can post photos and biographies of cheaters. I've not been shy stating how I feel about cheaters, but I think this is wrong about a hundred different ways.
Would you use a website like this? Do you think this is a major violation of someone's privacy?
[Edited on 3/7/2006 5:03 PM]
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 5:01 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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No...I wouldn`t like it...how on earth is one able to get over the past if they use that kind of a website..and it is to me an invasion of privacy.Ones private life should be just that...Private. 
Good Topic by the way. 
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 5:11 PM |
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Hiwayman54
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Yea sure lets all use it.((just as long as we can find a FOOL proof way to weed out all vindictive women(or men) who post false reports)) and as long as we are going to air everyones dirty launtry,how bout not allowing any profiles posted that doesn't let the man/women respond with their rebuttal. (as we do live in such a just and fair society).
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 5:37 PM |
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sirdidymus
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what is to stop an ex-jilted person from wanting to exact a measure of revenge and posting a whole bunch of "false" information on such a website?
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 5:40 PM |
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Hiwayman54
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Not a thing Sir.......my point exactly 
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 6:07 PM |
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mailorderannie
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what is to stop an ex-jilted person from wanting to exact a measure of revenge and posting a whole bunch of "false" information on such a website?
I totally agree, and that's only one reason I think its wrong. What if the woman was the cheater? I'm sure those no "equal opportunity sites" and I could see a cheating woman pointing the finger at the guy first. wrong wrong wrong!
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 6:23 PM |
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Hiwayman54
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I've known a few men that were cheaters.Always they were somewhat arrogant,smug,c***y and a secreat.Why women would be attracted to these type is beyond me.I think the buzzword nowadays is "playa". For all the effort these women are placeing into this kind of site I have serious doupts the men even give a sh!t.Instead of waisting mass amounts of effort trying to catch these guys,why not figure out why your attracted to this type to begin with??.Quit fallin for the "bad boy" type. If these men truly love you.YOU WILL HAVE NO TROUBLE SEEING IT.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 8:12 PM |
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sirdidymus
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Hey hiwayman,
first - my apologies, i hadn't even realized that you already posted the exact same thing before i did - i didn't read through carefully, sorry about that.
as far as the bad boy types, omgosh, you know - sometimes people like drama - whether they're in the middle of it or just reading about it. i wouldn't be surprised if some people go to those sites with the purpose of meeting people, married or otherwise, if for nothing else - just for the thrill of it ... hehehe
like you said, work on the inner self, stop worrying about boob jobs and getting the perfect tan - and start putting as much work into the "inner you" as we do the "outer you", and then you'll ("you" - as always - in the very proverbial sense) gain some measure of self-respect and maybe, just maybe - find that instinctively, you're losing the attraction for the drama and the bad boy types.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 8:16 PM |
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spongebob777
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what is to stop an ex-jilted person from wanting to exact a measure of revenge and posting a whole bunch of "false" information on such a website?
No kidding. My ex wife said plenty to others without the help of the internet. I was no angel but I didn't deserve most of the crap she said.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 8:27 PM |
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Hiwayman54
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I hear ya Bob.I've been around plenty of broken up relationships and by far I hear more complaining from the women than the men. What I could never figure out........is if men are so BAD.......(why have anything to do with them at all). Water seeks its own level.And this shows up pretty clear in relationships.I know the gals I married when I was young....I'd never marry now. Relationships will always point out what needs work on.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 8:41 PM |
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sirdidymus
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What I could never figure out........is if men are so BAD.......(why have anything to do with them at all).
i always think the exact same thing so - amen - to that!
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 9:08 PM |
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kattsmeow
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I don't think men are bad. 
They can on occasion be bad boys though.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 10:49 PM |
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altogirl67
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I definitely would not use a site like that.... no way. 
It would be like getting information about your guy from his exes... how smart would that ever be? And it is absolutely an invasion of privacy no matter how you look at it.
I've seen it time again... people break up and sometimes, not always, at least one of them goes all psycho and retaliates...
There is only ONE motivation to post information about someone on a website like that... revenge.... immature, psychotic revenge... though I can't say that I have never partaken in vengeful acts. I did when I was younger but like to think I've gained wisdom and enlightenment along with added years...
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 11:21 PM |
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Classy_Blonde
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I have much better ways of making a man miserable. No--I wouldn't use a site like that. It would portray me as being a bitter woman seeking revenge. People usually get what they deserve, in the long run. Good riddance. 
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| Mar 8, 2006 @ 12:17 AM |
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Hiwayman54
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And you'd end up in jail for it Classy.REmember.......anything goes in the good old USA (as long as no one is hit).( or nothing is cut off).There are 2 sides to every coin. Sounds like you just got out of this situation.
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| Mar 8, 2006 @ 12:35 AM |
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Classy_Blonde
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Hiwayman,
I need to enlighten you. The girls know I was just teasing. It's a long story, but I uploaded a pic for fun. Look at my photos, and you will see what I mean.
I'm a Peace Creep. Strictly non-violent, and guns freak me out.
And NO, hon. I've not been in a relationship in at least two years, and I think men are awesome.  As for the cheaters, I don't have time for men like that.
You will soon discover, I like to tease, flirt, and joke around a lot. 
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| Mar 8, 2006 @ 12:28 PM |
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mikey520
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It is just another way to make money. I have always said, that if you are unhappy in the realationship then get out of it. Why carry it into a bunch of drama.
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| Mar 8, 2006 @ 3:29 PM |
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mailorderannie
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Money! Why didnt' I think of that! lol
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| Mar 8, 2006 @ 5:37 PM |
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rythemrevue
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Nope... because it is one;s person view of whether they actually cheated or not. If it was a site with "caught in the act" cheaters..and was definitly proven the phote had the correct date...was legit..and actually showed someone cheating hey why not..may save another from the same fate.But I am quite sure half or so of the people trying to date on even singles webasites are prob cheaters..but who can really say?
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| Mar 10, 2006 @ 1:00 AM |
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rythemrevue
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Sometimes people don't want to look at a site that may hit that close to home hehehe... guys are gonna hate me for this...but I put up a site once and called it Dog Catchers. It was a site where women could post pics and information on guys who were not paying them child support. I had a disclaimer on the site because the informatio I would use was a cut and paste in their own words,,not mine. I got lots of emails on the site...but only one person had enough brass to come forward and want the info posted..... so a lot of these guys continued to get away scott free. I personally thought the site would help....it caught interest...but none of the women even though the stories were about louses.. wanted to demean the guys for not ever paying. ..because most of them said they were still in love with them... dooooooooooooh!
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