| May 29, 2006 @ 2:42 AM |
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lanie13
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when you fall in love, does age matter to you? the situation is like this, you fall in love to someone because he/she had all the qualities you are looking for. too late before you have known that he/she is very young /very old for you. would you stop loving him/her?
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| May 29, 2006 @ 3:31 AM |
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SunBabe
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"Falling in love" is MUCH complicated than merely making that decision based on a list of "qualities". How can one actually fall in love without knowing what age the person is???
Granted, an "attraction" can happen in any age-range, but to be surprised?? Well, I'd hope one would get to know the person a little better before deciding it's actually L-O-V-E. If they lied, plan on living with a lifetime of lies...
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| May 29, 2006 @ 4:07 AM |
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chinabull2000
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Well, I am certainly wondering how you would only find out their age after you have fallen in love with them. After all, honesty is a must in all happy relationships, and if they lied about their age, then I would always questiojn their honesty in other matters too.
Saying that, age isn't a barrier when it comes to love (if they are honest about it), but generally speaking I find that women around my age have more in common with me.
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| May 29, 2006 @ 4:12 AM |
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willsmalto
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I'd not think of dating someone 20+years my senior, not to mention falling in love. well, but when it comes to the "friends with benefit" kinda relationship, I might likely give it a shot.
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| May 29, 2006 @ 11:07 AM |
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walkingman
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I think there is a point where people have to be practical and realistic about age. I agree that there seem's to be more common interest's with people in the same age bracket. I also think it depend's on the culture. From what I have observed Lanie it seem's that most ladie's oversea's prefer somone a bit older. I may be wrong but it appear's that way from the profile's I read.
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| May 29, 2006 @ 11:31 AM |
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omkeerpunt
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My life is all about loud rock music, adventure, being mobile and adaptable and not caring to much about "security" and the consequences of my choices. Have anybody ever met a 45+ year old woman who would put up with, or in any way fit into that. Chances are even slim that any 25- year old woman can handle that.
Should I change to be able to find someone of my age. Fat chance of that happening. I like myself to much to go and spoil it.
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| May 29, 2006 @ 11:44 AM |
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Loreli
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I would get to know as much as possible about the person in my life before letting myself truly feel it was real love. Once that hit and I found out they lied-then, what else did they lie about? Or will lie about in the future?
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| May 30, 2006 @ 5:50 PM |
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Orphes1
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It doesn't matter what age people are to fall in love.
Some people never even meet, and love someone the rest of their life.
To live with someone though, that's a diffferent story. That's when it comes down to personal preferences.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 6:02 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Age doesn't matter to me.
I prefer older men and could fall in love with a man much older than me. However, it seems that a lot of men have hangups about dating younger women who want more than sex.... :(
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| May 30, 2006 @ 6:04 PM |
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spongebob777
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it seems that a lot of men have hangups about dating younger women who want more than sex.... :(
No hangups here. I want more than sex but I also want someone I can make happy.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 6:08 PM |
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MotownManiax
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 I want what Spongy wants...in the same order, of course. 
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| May 30, 2006 @ 6:11 PM |
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spongebob777
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It's pretty hard to find a "younger" woman who is content with quiet evenings at home for very long.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 6:16 PM |
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nightrider3281
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i agree sponge, most young girls have a lot of wild oats to sew yet. I am sure there is an exception out there.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 7:10 PM |
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Orphes1
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I've only met one woman in my life who didn't want sex at least every other day. She was about age 25. She didn't care if she had it or not, but she wanted to always be around someone, and couldn't stand being alone.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 7:27 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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It's pretty hard to find a "younger" woman who is content with quiet evenings at home for very long.
I hate going out, Sponge. I'm at home 80% of my day, most days. Just don't like the active social scene.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 7:46 PM |
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spongebob777
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I'm well past the bar scene and can barely tolerate going to town. These days my idea of a good time is sitting here watching the swans or wandering in the woods. If I go out it's usually to a bonfire at a friends house or a midnight drive on the country roads.
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| May 30, 2006 @ 7:47 PM |
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raykl
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Big matter. Only menopausal ready and beyond.
Is that the baby crying???  
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| May 30, 2006 @ 7:54 PM |
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holding4u
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Age - not a problem. Are they still breathing?
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| May 30, 2006 @ 9:11 PM |
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sleeping_beauty
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age isn't an issue for me as long as they fit my preferences. 
still, there's this other half of me that says, 25 year olds and under, keep out! 
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| May 31, 2006 @ 3:52 AM |
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Solitaire
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Mine or their''s? I mean, somebody has to be able to drive.
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