| Jun 5, 2006 @ 11:51 AM |
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willsmalto
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ok X writes me the previous day two times in a row and I reply the next day. X replies that same day with "Darling" as the title, "baby" in the first paragraph and "I miss you" at the end of their letter.
I'm sick and tired of receiving these kind of mails. you know someone ONLINE for less than 48hours and the next thing you do is start using words of intimacy.I don't get it. Are these letters intimation of intentions or what? This is beyond my imagination.
Has anyone out there noticed anything like this?
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 11:53 AM |
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wandaful123
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Sorry sweety, I don't understand this myself... xxx
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 12:03 PM |
I don't get it
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willsmalto
Posts: 3,645
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ok words like that. they just keep popping out but that's understandable cos we've known each other on here for at least awhile
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 12:11 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Has anyone out there noticed anything like this?
 Sometimes they appear in the first email..
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 12:22 PM |
I don't get it
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willsmalto
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sometimes they appear in the first mail
if that's the case, then something should be done cos if not, someone's gonna have to shoot themself in the face
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 12:28 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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someone's gonna have to shoot themself in the face
Those emails are just spammers...just have to delete.. 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 12:34 PM |
I don't get it
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ChgoSingleDad
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Yeah... I get those too.....
To me, words of intimacy, or terms of endearment, like "sweetie" or "darling" are only appropriate when the relationship has reached a certain point, and is mutual with both parties.
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 12:47 PM |
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willsmalto
Posts: 3,645
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just have to delete
yeah but you could delete, delete and then delete again to a point that deletion could someday be part and parcel of you. consequently when this happens, you might accidentally erase one of the best or most comforting messages in your inbox.
I got like 3 of those( comforting mails) in my inbox from MD members. when things are kinda going the wrong way or when I have a bad day at work or feel kinda blue, I read those mails and eventually pull myself together or come back to normal in less than no time
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 1:29 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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I agree certain terms should be saved for real relationships.
I had a guy write-first time-and tell me if he beat me in a game of pool I had to marry him... some people just are like that..... 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 1:31 PM |
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Danger
Posts: 1,246
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ok, just so you know men aren't the only ones like that...
i've gotten first emails saying honey, love, you're so beautiful (they never MET me!) forever my love.....what a bunch of...well you know. 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 1:39 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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yeppers, I think we all get these types of messages... all you have to do is send a one-word reply to their first mail and suddenly you're the love of their life etc. Bloody irritating, and I just use my delete button!
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 4:35 PM |
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sassylovesyou
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ok get your point but i always call everyone babe,hun,sweetie etc but thats me just being friendly and not intimate......and not wantin to get intimate either!!!!!! I know most people here in UK use those terms alot...say no more!!! 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 4:48 PM |
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chinabull2000
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Sassy, I think Wills means the mails you get when people tell you how much they miss you, want you etc after one mail. Babe, sweetie, sweetheart, hon etc used in normal context is considered general practive in a lot of places, the UK for example, but telling someone how much you miss them after a one-line mail is a bit too much. 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 5:52 PM |
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walkingman
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These people are scammer's. They are just looking to bleed you dry of any money . That's all it is.
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 5:53 PM |
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spongebob777
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They always like my structure. 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 6:08 PM |
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spongebob777
Posts: 7,904
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I got this little gem this week from the Philippines.
hello there!
just wanna make friends if you dont mind....
eventhough i am a ladyboy but im just hoping for your kind consideration just wanna friends...
tnx and tc...
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 6:10 PM |
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mailorderannie
Posts: 6,021
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Ladyboy? 
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 6:13 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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Tradeja the "dud" for the "ladyboy" ...I could use a "wife" around this place
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 6:15 PM |
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grumblebear
Posts: 10,559
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I'd say something but Sunbabe is intimidated by my structure.... lmao
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| Jun 5, 2006 @ 6:18 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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OOmph!
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