| Sep 28, 2007 @ 3:25 PM |
Where are the good women, wanting/ready for a serious relationship?
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Proulxs
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I have look and not looked for women who are looking for a serious relationship with no games, who want a good guy who is not afraid of commitment, and they are no where to be found, maybe you can prove me wrong?
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 5:32 PM |
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Integritydad
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dont know
raised four children and have been single since i was twenty eight
woman say they want the faithful strong committed type
crap they want the hot car/truck a man with money
and a man that spends all his time with his friends
so they can spend all their time with their friends or MOMMY
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| Oct 1, 2007 @ 6:17 PM |
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scorpio597
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Your right they all say the same thing .No headgames the commitment treat me the way you wanna be treated be faithfull and must except my kids .Its in all the profiles . yet try to find one that truely wants what shes asking for .there somewere in canada most be a women who wants a decent guy .
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 6:47 AM |
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budgirl64
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I am right here, but i guess the question I ask is where are all the men with those qualities seems they dont exist either
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 1:34 AM |
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The_love_Giant
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Maybe ur looking at the wrong area. And at the wrong age group
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| Oct 4, 2007 @ 10:09 AM |
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HeavenScent1967
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I know all too well how hard it is to get frustrated with the dating world. It seems men and women alike have trouble finding what they are looking for and are all too eager to complain about the other sex. I have been single for the better part of 8 years (a couple serious relationships in there but didn't stand the test of time). I could sit here and pout and go on an on about how I only attract idiots but, I'm not going to. I truly believe when you are ready for a real relationship, it will find you. Most of us can say that we are, but are we really? Have you dealt with all your hang ups and past relationships that may have hurt you? Is your life exactly where it should be, minus that special someone? Can you honestly say you could go on living a happy and fruitful life if you never meet Mr. or Ms. Right? If you can't say yes to any of these, you aren't ready to let love in. You have to completely love yourself and be satisfied with your life as it is and the person you have become before "the one" finds you. For all of you sitting here complaining that most women/most men don't want what you have to offer, you aren't ready either. It may take weeks, it could take a lifetime to find that special someone and you must be okay with that. Don't give up, you just need to do a little more work on YOU before he or she enters your life. I'm certainly not finished working on myself and one day, he'll enter my life. I get just as frustrated as the next person with the calibre of people I've met along the way but, that doesn't mean all men are like that, or all women are like whom you've met along the way. Take the time to re-evaluate what you want in life and in time, things will fall into place. It just takes longer for some of us than it does for others.
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| Oct 8, 2007 @ 3:47 PM |
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greencricket
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the way i look at things is .. i believe there is that special someone out there for everyone .. it's merely a matter of timing .. not only do i have to be ready but he does as well .. someday somewhere somehow we will connect with our soulmate and life will change .. turn our world upside down .. are you ready for it? 
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| Oct 12, 2007 @ 6:08 PM |
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katydid438
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I believe that too Greencricket  uhh! think I'm ready 
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| Oct 21, 2007 @ 9:26 PM |
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pooh49
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Too bad you are so young. You are just the kind of man I am looking for. Men are not the only ones having trouble finding the right woman. Women have the same problem in trying to find the right man.
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| Nov 1, 2007 @ 10:47 PM |
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OtterGal
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Well said, HeavenScent! I apparently was ready because I found my Mr. Right.  He doesn't play head games and he is not afraid of committment.  I will be leaving Matchdoctor soon so I wish you all the best of luck and happiness that I have found. 
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| Nov 2, 2007 @ 10:56 PM |
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katydid438
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| Nov 12, 2007 @ 10:13 AM |
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kim05
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OtterGal, good for you!!, Im looking for the samething, Im getting tired of the dating game myself....
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| Nov 22, 2007 @ 7:10 PM |
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starbright139
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Well I know I don't have a pic of myself up on screen but I am a normal,average, person and have been told I am pretty from friends family and others.I have been looking but not pushing it. I want that serious relationship with no games PLEASE.Not asking for a picket fence just someone with respected and understanding,trusting and to share live with on a even or a standard elevation.I know this works.I know of people that are still together.Good luck ottergal..... OH!!!!! by the way I have sent some men winks and have not got any back that is ok.. time goes and must not waste time so have fun and enjoy life............................
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| Nov 27, 2007 @ 2:32 PM |
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CQ80
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Truth be told that there is the right ladies out there. I read the profile of the guy that is raising his kids on his own and well personally it sounds a little depressing. Calling himself a loser. Life is to be filled with fun and love and the love of life.
And to read the posts .. ther was comments on how ladies are not wanting to commit. And how they want a hot car and truck and money and so on. Yet when I read the other guys profile he claims he only wants a slim to average lady. So isn't that too being selective?
Guys are very selective as well. The majority of men want a model for a lady to be on their arm.. yet a wild animal in bed.
I don't think that these men that made posts should be blaming the society of life of what a women wants. Well except for the 25 yr old that first posted this thread. He seems real of knowing what he wants and is wanting to be in a serious relationship.
Note of the day: Everything starts out as friendship first!
Good Luck Everyone.
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| Nov 28, 2007 @ 2:57 PM |
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MahonMacRi
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Note of the day: Everything starts out as friendship first! Well said, my friend, very well said indeed...but in my case, the problem often seems to be that what "starts out as friendship first," soon turns into, "crazy-stalker-lady obsessing over and me!" 
I guess the whole, "NOT LOOKING RIGHT NOW, THANKS ANYWAY," on my profile just isn't clear enough...maybe I need to replace it with, "Psycho-stalker-ladies need NOT apply!"
Just my .02's worth, sincerely,  "Mac"
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| Dec 1, 2007 @ 6:35 PM |
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pooh49
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We are out here but are having the same problem finding good men. They email once or twice and then disappear or they are all looking for "thin and attractive" as if those two words automatically went together. If only I was a few years younger or you were a few years older. Story of my life
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| Dec 2, 2007 @ 4:47 PM |
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teacuppoms
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well with regards of skinny i noted on my profile im a large woman
yet i ger a lot of emails asking me for a full body pic
i dont have one and dont give them that
but they write and usually they are 20 ys younger than me
it seems young man want older women..thus we are less demanding
we know what we want, we know when our hormones talk, and we know how to satisfy a man
we are not looking for money..
we are not looking for marriage .we are not looking for a one night stand
and many other things
young girls want the man to take them to dance and restaurents and movies equal spend spend spend
we older women dont need any of that nonsense to be happy with a man, we definetly cut throughthe chase
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| Dec 17, 2007 @ 3:09 PM |
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TomG
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So true, I've generally had the best times with older women, I guess it's a generational thing. The younger generation tends to be more superficial and materialistic, in keeping with the general trend in society. That's not universal, of course, there are exceptions out there. Finding them is the challenge.
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| Dec 18, 2007 @ 8:00 AM |
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happygrlok
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I believe I am ready for a serious relationship, but I have not yet found the man who says what he means and means what he says. If he tells me he is going to call me, then I expect him to do that. I want him to know what he wants and not be afraid to go after it. A man who is not afraid to communicate what he does or does not want. Even if it is me he does not want. Someone who will not run or stop talking to me if something negative is said. In other words a man of integrity and courage.
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 2:26 PM |
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TomG
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Sounds reasonable ... I guess men are looking for many of the same things, but aren't finding them, either.
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