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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 2:43 AM |
DO WOMEN REALLY WANT NICE GUYS?
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wlvmark2003
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First off not being mean not bashing women here.Have to say that because there are many sensitive types here.Im being honest and speaking my opinion.
I think most women desire a man with a little mystery or edge.I think women get bored with nice guys.They are too predictable for one thing,Always on time,always opening doors,never standing thier ground,dressing the same,compliments galore,undecisive,predictable.Nice guys are boring.Women say they want a nice guy but thats just to tie them over from the jerk or bad guy they had before.I hear this all the time from my male friends and most female friends..I think women want a man who is in touch with his inner a-hole.Not saying men should mistreat women all im saying is have some balls.Women would you rather have Colin Farrell or an accountant that looked like Colin Farrell
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 3:06 AM |
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AngelLight
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Yes, there are some, and perhaps many who seek a "bad boy", but I think there are just as many women who would not even consider one.
I am one who would not give a "bad boy" the time of day.
Sometimes nice guys do come in last, but often they do not.
The only men I will date are good men, and I have dated many good men....kind, gentle men.
The issue is one of mutual chemistry. When there is mutual chemistry it's all systems go.
And yes, IMHO, I believe most women seek a good man who is masculine, strong yet gentle. That to me is a "nice guy" and the most desirable type of man who will "come in first", not last.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 5:37 AM |
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Snappygoddess
Posts: 3,598
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Nice doesn't always mean boring! I married a "nice" guy and trust me, he is far from boring... keeps a smile on this gals face for more reasons then one 
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 9:17 AM |
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DwainP50
Posts: 5,009
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I don’t really know what women really want as far as in a man, they are all so diverse in there taste, hopefully one day one would find me interesting enough for me to be hers, until then I patently wait and enjoy life. 
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 10:24 AM |
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definitelydi
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I like a man to be nice where/when it counts. I don't like a man that I can walk all over or who won't fricken' communicate because he's afraid to"upset" me. Grow some balls! Put me in my place when necessary, but do it respectfully.
Shoot me in the forehead if he's indecisive because there's only room for one person in a realtionship to be indecisive and it's ME! 
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 11:48 AM |
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grumblebear
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Image is a huge issue with many folks... because I ride a harley, have long hair, am tattooed, etc... I've lots of excitement chasers pass through... my issue is I'm looking for a mellow, stable, gal, who isn't looking for the insanity, yet likes an evening riding out on the bike, to the Dairy Queen, or to the park.....
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 12:17 PM |
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luvmycats
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my issue is I'm looking for a mellow, stable, gal, who isn't looking for the insanity, yet likes an evening riding out on the bike, to the Dairy Queen, or to the park.....
Whoo Hoo! Grumble, I didn't think you would ever admit to looking. Good for you!  
I would love to find a man who rides a bike. My son is always making comments when he sees a guy on a bike, some are "Biker types" I don't want that and all that comes with it. Daytona bike week comes to mind. (I don't have the body to flash) I would sometime in the future like to find a "Nice Guy" one that shows respect, knows how to be kind, but also won't let me walk all over him.
Wlvmark, the nice guys you speak of just make me want to puke. Sure it would be nice to find one that opens doors, but not standing their ground, dressing the same, compliments galore, undecisive, predictable, NOPE. They are the ass kissing, suck ups who also lie and cheat. They tell women what they think we want to hear and it is rarely true. If a man is going to compliment me, I want it to be sincere, not a bunch of hog wash that he thinks I want to hear. BUTthat doesn't mean I want an a-hole either, just a guy that can be one when they need to be, as in defending me! 
As for looks, I don't care what he looks like, as long as I think he is attractive, and that leaves the door WIDE open. I have been attracted to many different types of men. I prefer the more casual, kicked back type that will willing get gussied up for special times. Not one who thinks he has to have every hair in place and dresses like Don Johnson. YUCK! They may be nice to look at, but if I can't mess up his hair what fun is that? 
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 12:22 AM |
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GildedLion
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I hope they do. I am somewhat enigmatic, it's in my gaze. It's usually somewhat guarded, but I am articulate and sensitive, and whenever I speak or write, the underlying tenderness comes out more and more until I'm completely revealed. Sometimes I don't do this, but I am most successful when I do. I think it is because I am so sensitive that it's almost too much, but I have masculine characteristics too.
I think that as women get older they want nicer guys. I think this is because of the wisdom that guys who are not nice are fickle and undependable.
But some girl out there will like it that I am the way I am hopefully.
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 12:26 AM |
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grumblebear
Posts: 10,241
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ok, I'll rephrase... if I was looking, but I'm much too bitter, and I honestly do swear to never allow any woman near enough to me to ever hurt me...
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 4:05 AM |
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luvmycats
Posts: 9,498
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Oh Grumble, I just want to give you a big hug. I hope someday you change your mind and allow some love to come your way.  
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 5:36 AM |
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GildedLion
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from luvmycats
Wlvmark, the nice guys you speak of just make me want to puke. Sure it would be nice to find one that opens doors, but not standing their ground, dressing the same, compliments galore, undecisive, predictable, NOPE. They are the ass kissing, suck ups who also lie and cheat. They tell women what they think we want to hear and it is rarely true. If a man is going to compliment me, I want it to be sincere, not a bunch of hog wash that he thinks I want to hear. BUTthat doesn't mean I want an a-hole either, just a guy that can be one when they need to be, as in defending me!
I kind of like to think that I have good taste, so if I'm with a girl, I want to treasure her. And compliments galore can be sincere, if the words aren't generic and meaningless. I mean of course saying pretty, smart, and whatever are trite expressions, but if I tell a girl that I like her cheekbones or the razor of her wit, it will be more sincere, especially if I expand on the idea and give concrete details. Nice guys are predictable only if they're stupid. And nice guys aren't indecisive, they're just cautious.
I'm not so predictable, I mean I guess someone can conjecture I will face whatever I do honorably and with chivalrous intent. I am not going to bed a girl, or steal, or lie, or whatever. So, that might be predictable.
But I'm intelligent, you can guess I will be sincere, but you don't know how I am going to formulate my words and shape them, or what insight I will arrive at. That's the benefit of finding someone whose qualities are admirable.
And the age of chivalry is in desperate need of a comeback. And that includes defending his girl, but calling it an @$$hole is a bit of a stretch, more like honorable.
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| Jul 30, 2006 @ 7:33 PM |
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grumblebear
Posts: 10,241
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People slay me... if you read the thread on disability, most folks do not want someone with challenges, or health issues, and then they expect us with those challenges to ignore reality? sorry.... but if the game is already fixed, and we know the rules... don't be upset when a few of us decide not to play.... 
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 3:00 AM |
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milan1985
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Right. From my experiance in dating/relationships i have to say that women do not really like a man who is a pushover often he is called a "nice guy". You gotta be a MAN is the sense of the word you know, take control of situations, blah, blah, blah. You need to find a balance between the "Grrr i am a man where is my beer!!" and being "nice".
Being nice is definatly a good trait to have... and show it when you meet the person BUT remember to be assertive and show your personality rather than a fake.
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| Aug 3, 2006 @ 10:13 PM |
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GildedLion
Posts: 119
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One doesn't have to be fake in order to be nice.
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| Aug 8, 2006 @ 10:54 PM |
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Earl47
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This question is simple for a man my age of 50, that was born and raised in the huge city of Houston Texas.....Yes women want nice guys, but the problem is, women always end up with the aggressive con artist type of a creep!! Why???
Because of the fact, they don't realize the nice guy isn't some guy walking from table to table at some booze bar/club,...but he is the nice guy minding his own business and only is waiting for you to talk to him.
I saw my two sisters i grew up with, lose the good good guys!!! But they would always choose a creep that was the aggressive type!!
Take me for example, i'm here, but i'm not hanging out in some booze bar, i'm the nice guy, that loves people, that is versatile and broad minded and non violent, that's why women aren't noticing me, because the WOLVES in front of me are aggressing them!!!..I'm not angry at all, it's the women i feel sorry for because it is so easy for them to find good men...Earl
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| Jul 6, 2007 @ 12:18 AM |
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Silvertongue62
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Ah No!
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| Jul 7, 2007 @ 9:48 PM |
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1stsignofspring
Posts: 15,351
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nahhhhhhhh.......why would we want to go and do that for?  
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| Jul 7, 2007 @ 10:32 PM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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But they do want to talk to nice guys. You Know! Tell the nice guy how much of a scmuck the bad guy was and then they go and get another one. Lol.........
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| Jul 8, 2007 @ 7:02 AM |
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1stsignofspring
Posts: 15,351
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<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< Repeat offender............  
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| Jul 10, 2007 @ 1:58 AM |
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tulip717
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DO WOMEN REALLY WANT NICE GUYS?
yes , with integrity and boundries but nizzzzzzzzzzzzze
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