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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 10:22 AM |
quiz: bilingual; do you know datespeak!
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lecriveuse
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http://web.tickle.com/tests/standard/datespeak_men.jsp?test=datespeak_men
http://web.tickle.com/tests/standard/datespeak_women.jsp?test=datespeak_women
you're a What You Believe Middle Pos!
What You Say
You get an "A" for effort! You always intend to speak the truth, but sometimes you can't help but twist your words a bit. As a general rule, you're straightforward and sincere. Hats off for that much....You've managed to find a way to communicate your message clearly — most of the time. Good work. Whether this comes naturally for you or you've learned the hard way, you know that that misleading a guy can result in a messy situation. You know he can't read your mind, and you probably don't have the patience to wait for him to pick up on your cues. You avoid the typical game-playing that so often accompanies dating. By speaking the truth, you demand — and most definitely receive — lots of respect from the men you date. You realize that speaking in code doesn't get you very far, so you refrain from using it as much as possible.
What You Believe
You pretty much take what he says at face value. You don't search for too many hidden meanings in his words. Of course, there's a part of you that's aware that there could be underlying messages. But you'd rather give him the benefit of the doubt than dwell on disbelief. Although this trust reflects a great amount of respect for the guy you're with, it's probably a good thing to maintain some cynicism. It's common for people to say things they don't necessarily mean, or throw in a white lie or two to avoid an awkward situation. Until you know his intentions, it's smart to hold onto a healthy dose of skepticism. Much to your credit, however, it seems as if your first inclination is to trust his words, which reflects your open, honest nature. Good for you. Although he won't always speak his mind, your straightforward ways will make him more inclined to follow your lead and communicate directly. You'll be well on your way to cracking the datespeak code!
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 11:39 AM |
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skinnybarncat
Posts: 368
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 another test for me to fail at?,,
do you get a commission from tickle? 
 how do i sign up?
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 12:13 PM |
quiz: bilingual; do you know datespeak!
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lecriveuse
Posts: 1,865
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nope. i like to take them n so do other women. y r u here? 
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 12:55 PM |
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skinnybarncat
Posts: 368
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how do i sign up?
nope. i like to take them n so do other women. y r u here
mmmmmmmmmm,,,,sorry...
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 1:52 PM |
quiz: bilingual; do you know datespeak!
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Heaveninawildflower
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Interesting, but limited. I'm more likely to say half of what I'm thinking, and unfortunately I apparently do expect him to read my mind, or at least half of it...and that's not just limited to dates either, I do it to friends too.
you're a What You Believe Middle Neg!
What You Say
Okay, so you seem to have figured out that he can't read your mind. Good for you. But, you don't exactly say what you mean either. Datespeak requires a very difficult balancing act. Maintaining complete honesty in a dating situation is very complicated. You end up with a lot of tip-toeing around the heart of a subject. Saying what you mean can be awkward for both parties. But you've managed to find a way to cushion your words while hinting at the true meaning behind them. Good work. Whether this comes naturally for you or you've learned the hard way, you know that misleading a guy can result in a messy situation. You could be a little more direct when talking datespeak, but you're clearly not intending to avoid a topic altogether. Just be careful. If you like him, let him know. And if you don't, find a way to send him that message. It'll save both you and the guy some trouble if you refrain from speaking in code!
What You Believe
Hmmm...seems like you're not quite sure whether to trust him or not. You probably want to take what he says at face value, but there's some nagging part of you that just won't let you completely believe him. You definitely don't analyze his every word. Pat yourself on the back for that one. But you do keep your defenses up just in case. Unfortunately, cynicism has become a beneficial attribute for people submerged in the dating scene. Maybe in the beginning it's smart to look out for number one and refrain from trusting too easily. But you need to know that when a guy has proven his good intentions, it's time to put your questioning mind to rest. This is key to having a good relationship. Skepticism may protect you from getting hurt, but when you see a good thing on the horizon, make sure you show some trust. It's a smart woman who knows how to crack the datespeak code.
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 1:59 PM |
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lecriveuse
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i couldnt tell u, heaven. i've always been candid since i was a kid (i remember my mom saying i'd always tell ppl what was on my mind. probably a leo thing. who knows?). i wish i could speculate about urs.
i'm on another website called bookofmatches that has forums AND a phd who goes more in depth about stuff like this. i dont know if u have to register for the site. since we're cybersistes anyway, IM me, n i'll take the test 4 u (as u feed me the answers).
i'd expect close friends n family 2 "read" my mind more than anyone else cos they pretty much know how i tick. again, the quizzes r great 4 a laugh n maybe thought provoking if i c fit. i wouldnt go changing who i am or incur any self-doubt cos of something it said. i hope u dont either cos u r absolutely heaveninawildflower. there's just no imitation or duplication. 
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| Dec 4, 2005 @ 2:46 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 15,332
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Lecri, CyberSis, thanks, I needed that! I just registered for BOM, looks interesting.
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| Jan 1 @ 5:59 AM |
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Sweetheart83446
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I know pig latin.
elloha riendsfa 
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| Jan 1 @ 6:03 AM |
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katydid438
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datespeak=BS.. 
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| Jan 1 @ 6:04 AM |
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Sweetheart83446
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^^^^
Exactly!!!
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