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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 12:03 PM |
What would you do for great sex??
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Jackeys
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I have a question..say you've been having great sex with a person but then all of a sudden you have a bad date together. Even though you know that the relationship isn't going to work out because the two of you clearly want different things what if you still want the great sex?
Do you give a grace period before you address it or do you just let the great sex go along with the relationship.
Just to be clear don't think emotions here, just think about what you would do
to keep having great sex.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 12:12 PM |
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guiltless
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I would open the discussion and tell the person straight up, that you want to remain friends with benifits.
No need to get into all the deep stuff, just explain it flat out.
What guy would turn this down?
Wonderful sex (assuming he thinks so) and no commitment.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 12:29 PM |
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willsmalto
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the two can't walk hand -in -hand. you either choose one or none. friends with benefits would be the only solution as of now. who doesn't want great sex?
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 1:09 PM |
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jamminjerry
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logic implies that i would fall in love with her. 
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 1:12 PM |
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jamminjerry
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my point is simple. the only great sex i can recall was when i was in love. the rest was just sex. two critters humping.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 3:22 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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fact: the relationship fell apart majorly but the sex was the best i could ever have.
fact: i walked away from both. it was not fair to put myself through the torture just to get nookie.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 3:33 PM |
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razzired
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Jackeys, is this is not a hypothetical question and you're talking about you continuing to see the guy your previous thread was about, I think you need to have a long talk with yourself about whether or not you can actually have a relationship with him that's just about sex, or if what you're really trying to do is maintain contact with him by using sex.
If the answer is the latter, I think you know what the correct action should be.
MJ
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 4:10 PM |
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chinabull2000
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If all you want is great sex then you should continue seeing him, but if you want more than just great sex you need to move on.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 4:11 PM |
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jamminjerry
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 5:34 PM |
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Cidronlvnv
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to me, the sex, great or ho-hum is a by product of a relationship. if you want sex, just for it, fork over the money and buy some. but, thats not me. so, if the relationship isnt goin anywhere, neither would the sex. sure, it may have been memorable, but it wont last as there is nothing behind it aside from simple, sheer physical pleasure, but without the emotional connection, its doomed in the long run
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 6:04 PM |
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Loreli
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fact: the relationship fell apart majorly but the sex was the best i could ever have.
fact: i walked away from both. it was not fair to put myself through the torture just to get nookie
Well said.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 8:11 PM |
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kinglouis2005
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what would I do for great sex?
Ill let ya know about 10:30..lol j/k
What would i do for a klondike bar? prolly bout the same...again j/k
great sex is about communication...there is a reason that most of the time a one nighter is not great..its because neither of you know anything about the other...UNLESS you communicate in bed..
I guess I have been lucky, i have had what I consider to be great sex with women who I had no commitment with..it was rare but it has happened.
BUT the best sex I have ever had was with..my current GF and 2nd my ex wife.....why ...love, familiarity MORE communication.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 9:53 PM |
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jeanc200358
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Great sex is too easy to get...I'd move on.
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 11:43 PM |
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momma24
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I guess it would depend on how I felt about the guy. I had an ex whom I didn't love, but was rather interested in, and after our relationship was clearly not going anywhere, we broke it off. However, we didn't see any reason to stop having sex and no it wasn't the mind blowing great sex you are talking about....but I bring it up to eliminate the f**k- buddy idea. When I started having feelings for a different individual, that arrangement ended, and I allowed the possibility of a new relationship to emerge. The best sex, as you say, was with my son's father as we were engaged...and I was very much in love. Although love does not have to be involved to have great sex to some...it does to me. So...I don't know if this answers your question..but my point is...if there is not love between you, there can't be great sex. To me, great sex is more than sex...and you can't make love with someone unless you share that love .....does my opinion make sense? 
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| Jul 27, 2006 @ 11:57 PM |
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willsmalto
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Great sex is too easy to get...I'd move on.
thats a whacking great lie.
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 6:45 AM |
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Halfevl333
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LOL Heck yeah I would keep at it... Right now I would even go with bad sex... It has been so long since I had sex, it is almost enough to make me think about going back with my Ex again...and boy are we talking bad sex... ROFL...
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 9:53 AM |
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kinglouis2005
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So...I don't know if this answers your question..but my point is...if there is not love between you, there can't be great sex. To me, great sex is more than sex...and you can't make love with someone unless you share that love .....does my opinion make sense?
It makes sense to me along these lines, but then you know already I am a deviant...
Being in a relationship with someone tha tyou love implies a level of trust and communication that you dont really have with other partners you may have had sex with.
When you have the trust and communication you are more likely to try new things, speak up about what you really want, CARE about what they really want, also obviously you are extremely attracted to that partner to have a loving relationship with them in the 1st place.
But I can say I have had great sex independent of love and relationship because I was extremely attracted to them, they were (presumably) extremely attracted to me, there was communication so we were not afraid to voice our wants and desires, I cared about making her feel good and she seemed to care about making me feel good. While the love wasnt there and the relationhsip wasnt there the sex was in fact great based on the scenario I described above.
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 10:00 AM |
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jamminjerry
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duh half elf! rarely does the opinion of an old person make it to the first row!~ LOL old folks like us are way too picky about who we share intimacy with. if that was not true you would be spending most of your "entertainment budget" on loose women in bars!  we just cannot seem to go there, no matter how many threats we make about scoring some poon!
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 1:19 PM |
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tahoma
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Wait until I feel that the person I am seeing might develop into a serious relationship and with that the feelings that come with it.
I've had "bang-me" GREAT sex before but then it's just an empty feeling when you go home alone there is no emotional attachment. I'm so over that!
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| Jul 28, 2006 @ 1:25 PM |
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jamminjerry
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how does the song go? "whats love got to do with it" without offending the scientologists in the room, i do like to think its called "the big bang" otherwise its just humping. or as the other song goes "lets get it on": LOL dammit gal, ya got my mind going! see how easy i give in!
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