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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 12:30 PM |
Are women ALWAYS looking for thier next BF,SO,Husband?
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guiltless
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Do women ever just want to have "one nighters"? It seems that every prespective relationship HAS to be a Husband hunting adventure.I have a very nice friend who is constantly complaining that she cannot find "the one". Every date is an attempt to find her "soulmate". Can women just enjoy the Here and now, without the thought of wedding bells? Is it just a women thing that every encounter must be with THAT Goal in mind?
We guys are simpler I guess. We look to a date as... a date, not a Life partner hunt. If it happens it happens, but I don't know many that are solely focused on finding "Ms. Right" at every turn. I would love to give her some advise, but I haven't dated for YEARS! (don't ask how many!)
Any thoughts
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 2:11 PM |
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definitelydi
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Umm...I guess the insecure ones are. 
If it happens it happens
These are words to live by. Be happy with your own company.
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 2:12 PM |
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zulamaze
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Can women just enjoy the Here and now, without the thought of wedding bells?
Yes we can. Things have changed some---Why should we buy the whole pig just to get a little sausage. 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 2:27 PM |
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Thor1960303
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Hey Never, you forgot the basket where the wallet and brains go.I have a friend who tells his male friends when they get married to "put their balls,wallet and brains in a basket because he won't need them anymore."According to the Blue Collar Comedy team you can include your spine as well. 
Personally I think more women can be happy with casual dates,even casual sex,yet there is this silly social stigma attached to it.Women are programmed to seek the serious relationship,it's one of those things buried deep in society's structure.When it became OK for women to get an education back in the day,college for a woman was justified because it was an opportunity to seek a suitable husband.
Ladies,cast off the yoke of yesteryear,you too can seek casual,fun dates. 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 2:31 PM |
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zulamaze
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How well I know ----
But seriously Thor--- thanks for your permission... 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 2:36 PM |
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NeverB4Alone
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Now-- never -- what do you plan on doing with that thing?
(but Zula...just the sausage isn't as much fun without the pig attached!)
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 2:45 PM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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Now Never----
we all know it does depend on the PIG!
And what do you have planned this weekend? 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 3:11 PM |
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zulamaze
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not at all dear... 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 3:12 PM |
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jeanc200358
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Do women ever just want to have "one nighters"?
BTDT. It's basically a very unsatisfying experience. That's not to say the sex isn't good, necessarily. But it's just I find it difficult to think of men in terms of a "penis with legs."
It seems that every prespective relationship HAS to be a Husband hunting adventure.
Not for me it isn't. I don't really care if I ever marry again. However, having been single for the better part of my life, I'm at a stage now where I would like to have someone to share my life with. Being alone sucks. Dating different men is kinda fun, but it sucks, too...I prefer having a connection with someone; I don't like "trivial" relationships with men.
I have a very nice friend who is constantly complaining that she cannot find "the one". Every date is an attempt to find her "soulmate". Can women just enjoy the Here and now, without the thought of wedding bells? Is it just a women thing that every encounter must be with THAT Goal in mind?
Oh, absolutely. In fact, most guys I speak with or encounter I know are defniitely NOT "the one." It is so rare that I find someone who I think could be "the one," and then, it usually turns out he lives 1800 miles away or something, so it's very frustrating.
We guys are simpler I guess. We look to a date as... a date, not a Life partner hunt. If it happens it happens, but I don't know many that are solely focused on finding "Ms. Right" at every turn. I would love to give her some advise, but I haven't dated for YEARS! (don't ask how many!)
Any thoughts
Well these days, since I am looking for a life partner, I hope that at least most of my dates are potentials "lifers." LOL...I won't date anyone who I don't think at least has the potential of becoming Mr. Right in my life.
Okay, well, maybe I would, if he is gorgeous and hung.
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 3:33 PM |
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guiltless
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I knew that this group of diverse and knowledgable people could explain it to me. Well done.
Jean, I have to say you are one of the best conversationalists I've encountered. Your ideas are clear, and explanations direct. Would that we could all express ourselves so well. It's a gift!
I also agree that with Thor in that social Stigma plays a big part in this. Casual dating could lead to the preseption of an "easy woman". No one wants that label
NeverB4, You Kill me with the Pics. .
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 5:04 PM |
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hope67
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i like the song and idea of toby keith's - i'm just talking 'bout tonight . - hey if you can be some sort of freinds as well , that is a bonus . but married , yikes , not for me .....
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 5:10 PM |
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wiccked
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men are hunters and we know what you are hunting for!!!!!  women are gatherers and nesters since we have what you are hunting for, we want to give all to you but only if you will stay in our nest!!!! this has got to be the stupidist post i have ever made!!!! 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 5:47 PM |
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jeanc200358
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Jean, I have to say you are one of the best conversationalists I've encountered. Your ideas are clear, and explanations direct. Would that we could all express ourselves so well. It's a gift!
Oh, go on.
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No. I mean it. Go on!
Well, aren't you nice? You don't know how much it means to hear you say that; thanks very much!
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 5:55 PM |
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GildedLion
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=wiccked
men are hunters and we know what you are hunting for!!!!! women are gatherers and nesters since we have what you are hunting for, we want to give all to you but only if you will stay in our nest!!!! this has got to be the stupidist post i have ever made!!!!
I thought it was very smart until you said stupist. 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 6:38 PM |
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Loreli
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Are women ALWAYS looking for thier next BF,SO,Husband?
nope.
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 7:07 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I don't like to casually date, so yes, I suppose I am looking for a boyfriend. It's sad that I'm nineteen and just tired of dating, but I am.
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| Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:18 AM |
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Mysterious_URS
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Are women ALWAYS looking for thier next BF,SO,Husband?
NO WAY..  ...been alone 2 long to change my ways,  but would love to have a special friend.......
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| Aug 18, 2006 @ 5:23 AM |
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Ron9
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I am not actually looking for a “wife”. I had one for over half of my life - so if that part happens fine - if not fine.
I am looking for an honest to goodness girl friend. I don’t see the purpose in dating just for the sake of dating. Dating just to date could (and I expect does) cause a lot of short term relationships - and also causes settling - which causes short term relationships. Dating just to date also causes casual sex. Hurt feelings are another byproduct of dating to “just see what happens”.
So - since I am looking for an SO - maybe I need to pull down my pants and see if I am female ............. nope.
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| Aug 18, 2006 @ 5:38 AM |
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chinabull2000
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I am looking for a lifetime partner now, whether that be a marriage or simply living together is not so important to me. I don't casual date anymore, nor do I have one-nighters, neither of those options fit in to the way I now live my life, nor are they the right example to set my daughter. I do go out on dates, but usually on the first date I decide that she (whoever she may be) is not the woman I'm looking for.
And hey, if I could meet a woman that views "dating" the same way as I do and is the woman I'm looking for, then bob's your uncle and I'm sorted!
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| Aug 18, 2006 @ 7:40 AM |
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hotlips12095
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I dont need a BF, S O or another husband! I went thru enough with the 1 I had/have i just want my divorce. I have Male friends-but Im not parading guys thru here- not good for my 17 yo son ( spec needs) to see - a very bad example .
If I find someone and it goes past friends fine- IF NOT Fine
GOOD for u China- alot of guys care more about themselves than the example they were setting for their daughter!
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