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| Aug 21, 2006 @ 6:04 PM |
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willsmalto
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Ladies, ok you have this first date with this guy that you got kinda nervous when chatting with online either cuz hes intelligent, smart or too hot or blah blah blah.
Now you're confused. you don't know which dress to put on.
would you dress appropriately( formally/sexless), casually or would you just suck in your gut and go for that dress that's gonna get your left nipple playing peek-a-boo with your date? 
why would you dress like that?
thanks up front
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| Aug 21, 2006 @ 7:00 PM |
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JuicyFruit705
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Ladies, ok you have this first date with this guy that you got kinda nervous when chatting with online either cuz hes intelligent, smart or too hot or blah blah blah.
I'm sorry, but I must have missed this morning's headline that read, "HELL FREEZES OVER."
Now you're confused. you don't know which dress to put on.
Oh, yes, I'm often confused about what to wear. LOL.
would you dress appropriately( formally/sexless), casually or would you just suck in your gut and go for that dress that's gonna get your left nipple playing peek-a-boo with your date?
I'd put on my sweater, snowpants and ice skates.
why would you dress like that?
Cuz Hell just froze over, remember?
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| Aug 21, 2006 @ 8:28 PM |
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scarletsara
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Depends how horny I am
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| Aug 21, 2006 @ 9:33 PM |
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SunBabe
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Cuz Hell just froze over, remember? 
would you dress appropriately( formally/sexless)...
I always try to dress "appropriately", but I can assure you, darlin', that "formally" does NOT mean "sexless", by any means. Sure doesn't mean my nipples gonna pop...a woman doesn't HAVE to cross that "line"  
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| Aug 21, 2006 @ 10:23 PM |
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razzired
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Why are questions like this phrased in such a way that to respond means to agree with the presumption that there are only two ways to dress for a date?
FYI, you can dress for a date without looking like a whore or a nun. There *are* other options.
MJ
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| Aug 21, 2006 @ 10:42 PM |
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parTgirl
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good answer MJ!!
I dress casually, whether it's a date with someone I really like or someone I've just met online or otherwise, that first date can usually be nervy...I just had the guts this weekend to tell the guy I like that I like him 'more than a friend' LOL
and yea, I have trouble figuring out which 'casual top' I'd like to wear on any given weekend night ;)
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 1:34 AM |
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Solitaire
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You mean change out of my sweat pants and football jersey?
Is he paying for dinner?
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 8:51 AM |
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zulamaze
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If I were meeting someone for a first date...
I would dress casually nice no matter what they looked like.
I am me and always me -- not putting on any airs for anyone.
Like me as I am or not--- 
MJ---- I loved your answer! 
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 8:58 AM |
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MotownManiax
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 Wills, good buddy, does it really matter what she wears?
...if the date ends up great she won't be wearing anything for long anyway, right? 
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 12:23 PM |
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crackerchickie
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Hehehe, what Motown said....
I believe that you dress in the way you wish to be percieved. If ya wanna look like a $10 hooker, then make sure you get the money at the end of the date.
I always dress in a business suit for dinner, jeans for a picnic type thing, or a dress for the opera (happened once, discovered that I am not cultured in the slightest; ya want culture, get yogurt).
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 3:30 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I wear what I feel like wearing and I won't dress up if I am not feeling good about my body or myself that day.
And who said dressing formal was sexless? I think it's a lot more sexy to dress formally than to walk around looking like you just walked out of the WWE.
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 4:24 PM |
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kattsmeow
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would you dress appropriately( formally/sexless), 
I don't even look like that in a business suit!
First date with my husband was in a red turtle neck, levi blue jeans and sexy black snow boots.
We had a blizzard the first time he came to Michigan,!
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 5:08 PM |
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SandyDiggler
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Well, I'm the kind of girl that's more comfortable in heels than sneakers...so I'm always dressed up.
I would never go on a date (especially a first date) wearing something bordering "slutty" though, or wear anything that would make me feel self-conscious in, that's never the way to go. At least not if you're looking for a relationship vs a one-night stand.
And as for formal...formal doesn't always have to mean not sexy, some women pull off formal very well.
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 5:24 PM |
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Loreli
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I would wear whatever was appropriate for where we were going, what we were doing. First date hanging out is not cool, IMVHO
Actually, I don't think it's cool any "date"
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| Aug 24, 2006 @ 9:53 AM |
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willsmalto
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Wills, good buddy, does it really matter what she wears?
Mo, it matters A LOT, man, well so long as I'm concerned.
Dressing( especially women's) should go with or complememt the weather, the place, the occasion, the person you're meeting, i mean the date's atmosphere( be it a nightclub, a picnic, a party etc).
ok say, you ask this gal out on a date, well precisely to a nightclub and she puts on sluttish-like high heels. what do you expect?
You can’t be breezy if you’re limping. can you? You know you’re going to be dancing the night away, so don’t toddle along in ten-minute shoes. It will annoy everyone( especially your date) who has to wait for you to catch up. Save the spike heels for sedentary tête-à-têtes or when you wanna model for your date( at home), well, in fact if the date went well.
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| Aug 24, 2006 @ 10:14 AM |
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razzired
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sluttish-like high heels
So now our choice of footware is an indication of our sexual morals?
Hon, do you actually read what you write before you post, or just go with it?
MJ - who has no problem keeping up with anyone, even in heels
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| Aug 24, 2006 @ 10:23 AM |
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willsmalto
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I'm by no means trying to educate anyone on here about dressing or something.
I think when someone wants to dress up, either formally, casually or sluttish-like, they should be prepared, confident, remember their body type( very important) and should get comfortable in the clothes.
I so dig sexy, i mean a woman who dresses slutty without feeling slutty...hey but not the exaggerated types  . They way she carries herself and the way her clothes accent her boobs, bum or simply her body 
You might be tempted to ask yourself a couple of questions; what about modesty? Humility? Saving it for the guy at home? Screw that. There's absolutely nothing wrong, IMVHO, with feeling pretty, sexy, fabulous. It's especially affirming to feel that way in front of a large audience or just your date( someone of my ilk).
If you aren't a naturally confident kind of gal, that puts you with about 95 percent of the population. Fortunately, being confident and pretending to be confident are essentially the same thing, right?
Most women who look ‘willing’ in their slutwear seem that way because they're seeking approval. If you've ever worried that you're dressed like a hussy, you've probably never even come close or just DON'T do it.
Gals who dress inappropriately do so with intent and grave insecurity. They tug at their tops, constantly hike their low-riders, and pretend not to notice that their pants have camel-toed in their crotches. You're not one of them(sluts). Like i said before, confidence and others will help you avoid inadvertently looking like a gal who is out to get some ....if you know what i mean
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| Aug 24, 2006 @ 10:38 AM |
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MotownManiax
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 Personally, I'm not too concerned with what a woman wears. If I'm attracted to her (and that's included all shapes and sizes) it's because of a "combination" of personality and appearance.
If she looks like a slob and talks trashy, no attraction.
If she's a knockout but talks shallow, no attraction.
If she has a wonderful personality, dresses normally, and physically appealing (again, all shapes and sizes for me), attraction -- 100% guaranteed.
Does that mean we'll have a relationship? Of course not. She may find "me" unattractive? 
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| Aug 24, 2006 @ 10:44 AM |
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willsmalto
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So now our choice of footware is an indication of our sexual morals?
I'm afraid you got that wrong, hon. Did you actually read and undertand the sense of the sentence your copy-and-paste comment came from? I'm afraid you didn't.
Hon, do you actually read what you write before you post, or just go with it?
Hon, do you actually read, i mean do you have the patience to understand the body of a statement's elaboration before hitting the reply button? My sluttish-like -heels comment was just to say it's totally wrong to put on high heels when going dancing. sure that was clear now
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| Aug 24, 2006 @ 10:46 AM |
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FeliciVagano
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I have visited this thread several times... still trying to figure out just what the question is.. all I can see that makes sense is that he (OP) thought his date was not dressed appropriately, but that he liked it, and well, in fact if the date went well |
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