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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 9:51 AM |
Why do alot of women hold "sluts" in such contempt?
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Thor1960303
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First off, I know I'm going to get women on here who will right off accuse me of generalizing and say, "That's not me you're talking about,Thor."OK,fine it doesn't describe you.But it does describe many women.
I hear many women talk about strippers,hookers, porn stars or just women who sleep with more than one partner at a time with such revulsion,you would swear they were talking about a Nazi war criminal or something.I mean I've seen posts on this forum about such from women that put so called "loose women" on a scale equal to Al Quieda operatives.What are they doing that is so offensive to you?OK,so you don't agree with their "morals" or lack thereof,fine,you can choose to live another way and more power to you.But why the attitude?Are they really that evil?Are they really the Satans incarnate that your words would suggest?I've heard comments like, "I hope she gets AIDS," from women talking about a woman they know who is a stripper or other sex industry worker.
I suppose I can't help but sense a bit of jealousy among these women.After all, a good exotic dancer can make more in an night than what many "honest" women make in a whole bi weekly pay period.And here's a great scenario for you:A woman of "high morals" is out at a club with her girlfriends for a night out.She is approached by a good looking guy and they start a nice conversation and she spends the next half hour or so "playing the game" with this guy.She's of "high morals" so she's not taking this guy home, but there may be something later down the road.Enter the "slut".She walks in,sits at the bar next to this guy on the other side and makes it clear that if he wants to,he can take her home with a minimal amount of effort.If he chooses to do so,then more than likely,the woman of "high morals" will later launch a hateful diatribe to her girlfriends about "sluts"The man will get some of it too,but more than likely her comments will be directed at the male of the species in general about how men are all shallow pigs with one objective in mind.The majority of the diatribe will be directed at the "slut" complete with catty comments about the sleazy dress she had on that left little to the imagination,her fake boobs and bleached hair.
So,ladies who this applies to, why the hate?If lifestyles and morals are a choice,why not just live and let live?After all, you have your "morals",you'll get your great reward in the long run,won't you?
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 11:22 AM |
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charzie82
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i've got a couple of theories:
1) the human race (in GENERAL) feels the absolute need to make everyone else live according to our personal agenda. by force if necessary. some take it to extremes, some backstab and snipe, some repress. of course, there are those few of us who don't give in to our Hitler-esque urges. so the women of "high morals," at some level, are trying to defend thier turf, or whatever, by making everyone play by thier rules...cuz they can't, or won't, loosen up and try someone else's (which, of course, they don't have to!)
2) they're jealous. i admit to feeling evil twinges when some stacked and bleached goddess struts around what should be MY man fest. how DARE she look better than me and then have the NERVE to be confident about it!!
kinda goes back to the cave-person days, i think. we're all, at a genetic level, competing for the best breeding stock. and by flaunting her attributes, potentially wonderful specimins don't get the chance to see how great WE are...
i dunno....just my unofficially recognized pop-psycho-babbleish thoughts on the matter. 
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 11:46 AM |
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FeliciVagano
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pretty much says it all... 
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 11:51 AM |
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HarleysB_WV
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  Sometimes ya feel like a slut..sometimes ya don't!! 
Suddenly craving an almond joy!
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 12:06 PM |
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zulamaze
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You said it Harley!
IF he walks off from me and leaves with some skank/slut
the way I see it-- she done me a favor.
If he is that damn easy, who wants it!
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 12:20 PM |
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FeliciVagano
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IF he walks off from me and leaves with some skank/slut
the way I see it-- she done me a favor.
If he is that damn easy, who wants it!
so then...this is not true?
.If he chooses to do so,then more than likely,the woman of "high morals" will later launch a hateful diatribe to her girlfriends about "sluts"The man will get some of it too,but more than likely her comments will be directed at the male of the species in general about how men are all shallow pigs with one objective in mind.The majority of the diatribe will be directed at the "slut" complete with catty comments about the sleazy dress she had on that left little to the imagination,her fake boobs and bleached hair.
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 12:26 PM |
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zulamaze
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I don't worry about things like that. My life is full.
My boyfriend and I live together, if he finds someone
he had rather be with than me---- by all means I want
him to have it.
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 12:38 PM |
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FeliciVagano
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you seem to be in the minority amongst women.. or else my perception is flawed.. 
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 12:47 PM |
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wvbluebaby
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i dont try to slander anyone..we each live our life the way we see fit...
but if a pushy woman or man comes into a room, demanding the attention, then yes i can get upset...if a woman or man talks about their sex live in a degrading fashion, then yes i can get upset...it all comes down to respect...if you want my respect, respect others...
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 1:58 PM |
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reinfire
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I suppose I can't help but sense a bit of jealousy among these women
Some may be jealous. A lot of strippers, porn stars, so forth have beautiful bodies and when women are not feeling so "confident" (which society is "oh so good" at doing) and our mate has a calendar of Miss Boobs in the garage, then perhaps the word "what a skank" may come to mind.
It may be comparable to men calling gorgeous men, or a guy that their girlfriend/wife thinks is sexy........ "gay". (whether he is or not.)
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 2:53 PM |
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UnconventionalCreativity
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Let's face it; we hate competition. Admittedly, I've caught myself calling women "sluts" because they've caught the attention of the person I am interested in. It's not necessarily appropriate, but some women, once scarred, find it necessary to lessen their insecurities by degrading someone else, preferably the person who caused all this turmoil. I mean, who likes their man gawking at another pretty woman?
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 3:11 PM |
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zulamaze
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I mean, who likes their man gawking at another pretty woman?
Theres nothing wrong with looking. Just because you are married or in a relationship doesn't mean you are dead or blind -- look but don't touch!
It doesn't bother me when a woman gawks at my man, I just smile at her.
Like-- thats right baby -- he's mine.
And he says it doesn't bother him for another guy to check me out.
He says why would I want a woman that noone wanted to look at. 
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 3:16 PM |
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jamminjerry
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going simply on the subject post, its called classical conditioning.
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 3:44 PM |
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SunBabe
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I tend to agree fully with the statements Zula's made.
Hey, if someone wants to be a slut or a stripper or a porn queen or a meter maid or a doctor or a nurse or a Girl Scout Leader, that's THEIR choice, it's THEIR life...and those I let into my life is MY choice. (And I can think of a certain stripper I'd much rather be friends with than a certain all-so-high-and-mighty former Girl Scout leader!)
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 4:24 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I've never held the "profession" of stripping in very high regard. Not because I'm jealous, though sometimes I am because I have very serious issues with my body. I have always felt, from a very young age, that I personally would rather be in school studying to become something great and powerful than letting tons of people gawk at me naked. I understand some women need to do it for the money and I never considered those women "sluts", though I do feel there is nothing respectable about it.
I grew up across the street from a girl who was a bona fide "slut". She didn't dance for an audience, she had sex with guys she didn't know, she gave oral sex in the school bathroom, and cheated on her boyfriend with his best friend..in her boyfriend's driveway. I didn't hate her for this, rather, because I knew her , I knew she did it because she felt hopeless. She moved here at the age of thirteen and felt like she was so out of place and like no one would accept her. She had dangerously low self-esteem and no true friends except the boys she slept around with. Why would I hate someone who had in essence the same problem as me (low self esteem) but chose to express her problem in a different way?
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 5:07 PM |
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reinfire
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Its not just women holding "sluts" in such contempt. I've heard men use that phrase for "certain" women frequently. (and its sometimes someone "he" has slept with- or someone "he" can't have)
When women call other women "sluts" just to be mean, I think its completely uncalled for. It happened to me in college. I had a whole group of girls calling me a "slut" because I was dating more than one man.
However, if there is a woman, sniffing around married men, bragging about the night before, always after anything that moves- well then- if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck...................
I also think men that "sleep around" and are constantly promiscuous- also are entitled to be called "sluts" - (again the duck thing comes to mind.)
[Edited on 8/25/2006 5:15 PM]
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| Aug 25, 2006 @ 5:59 PM |
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kattsmeow
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also think men that "sleep around" and are constantly promiscuous- also are entitled to be called "sluts" - (again the duck thing comes to mind.)
Hm, I used to call them "Whore dogs".
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| Aug 26, 2006 @ 12:55 PM |
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Thor1960303
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I also think men that "sleep around" and are constantly promiscuous- also are entitled to be called "sluts" - (again the duck thing comes to mind.)Hm, I used to call them "Whore dogs".
The old double standard.Even if the man is labelled a "whore dog",he will never be as reviled by his peers as his female counterpart,the slut.A stupid double standard,but it's easy to see why it exists.
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| Aug 26, 2006 @ 3:17 PM |
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vicryder
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Several women seem to think that any woman, other than themselves, who has had sex with me is a slut.
Go figure.
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| Aug 26, 2006 @ 4:32 PM |
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kinglouis2005
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Who knows? If the moral majority couldnt care for "sluts" or the men who sleep with them then why is there a problem? In theory if they could care less then why bother labeling them, talking about them and as thor said holding them n contempt.
Perhaps those that have problems with them are the same ones who are having difficulty getting a man or THE man due to this so called slut...
i dont know...its confusing to be sure.
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