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Sep 16, 2006 @ 10:48 AM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


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Every man I have met in the past 3 years only wants one thing from me-oral sex. They don't want intercourse,they just want me to touch them or suck them. Do I have a sign over my head saying"I give great head" What am I doing wrong to attract such low-life scum? I'm a good girl and ONLY perform such an act on someone I care about. They all have different excuses for not wanting a relationship, but want me to pleasure them. What should I do to keep these losers away?? I meet these losers at work and online. I don't go to bars!!!
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 11:32 AM Do I look like a sex toy?    
robodad


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Here's what you should do on the next guy you date:
Casually bring up a story about a guy wanting a blow job.....then YOU say. "Ewwww! They put that thing in the mouth??????? HOW GROSS!!!!!!".....oh, for better effect, make a lot of "this soup tastes terrible" faces. If all he wants is a blow job, he won't call again.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 11:54 AM Do I look like a sex toy?    
ravensday


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Maybe you should practice oral sex more...evidently you are not doing it in the right way....trust me. IF you were, then I think you could manage the situation a little better. I havent met a man yet who was not turned on by oral sex and then wanted to "finish" with a more interesting postion.....and.....I always make sure that who ever giveth also recievth!!!!
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:04 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
Always_Striving


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No offense Wawa, but this thread made me giggle
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:12 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
I've never had any complaints, in fact I've been told that I'm too good!! My question is-Why do they ONLY want that from me without wanting something more from me and getting to know me as a person???
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:15 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
ravensday


Posts: 388
Is it possible that you are not as good as you think you are???? Men are not rocket science. They are easily led around by the 2 year old in thier pants. I have yet to meet a man who only wanted oral. EVER.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:21 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
Willie_Garvin


Posts: 44
Are you female? Then the answer is YES!
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:23 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
Always_Striving


Posts: 8,794
You should start suggesting activities to do together because by what I'm reading those guys you are talking about are either indecisive or only have limited interest in you. Maybe there are time/dating conflicts with them or even worse........ maybe they ARE MARRIED.

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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:28 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
Loreli


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quit giving blowjobs.
sounds like they think you're easy-
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 12:33 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
They are just all mixed up and confused. I just keep attracting ones like that. I have suggested to do things together,but they never have the time and make all kinds of excuses.And if I wasn't that good at would I do,than why do they expect that from me? A friend of mine told me that he heard that I gave great head and asked me why I won't do it to him.And the guys online don't know what kind of woman I might be without getting to know me.So why do they want that from me right off the bat??I'm confused.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 1:58 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
ravensday


Posts: 388
Ever heard of not doing the expected???? Just cause someone expects somethiing from you dont mean you have to oblidge. Crap, have some self respect! Until you respect yourself no one else will.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 2:28 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
Did I say that I gave them what they wanted?No I did not!!! I only do that to someone I care about and if I'm in a relationship. I guess I should start doing that to every Tom,Dick and Harry. My question again is-I'll word it differently-Does my face say good blowjob or sex toy or does it even say easy?? No!!! And by the way loreli, I'm not easy,but men seem to think I am.That's all I attract is the players and the users.I guess I'm attractive enough to play with but not attractive enough for anythin long-term.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 2:47 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wiccked


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if you are doing that for them, what are they doing for you in return??? you know, turnabout is fair play!!!!!
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 2:55 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
definitelydi


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I only see one solution. Move to a new state. Get psychotherapy. Have reconstructive plastic surgery. Become someone new.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 2:57 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


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The BIG problem here is nothing!! They want only oral pleasure but don't seem interested in anything more.I guess my face is f***able but not the rest of my body.That's what I figure.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 3:00 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
Could you be a little bit more insensitive? So you are saying I'm crazy,ugly and not worthy of living where I live.Oh,that just makes me feel so much better!Thank You for the self-confidence and self-esteem booster.Much appreciated!!!
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 3:02 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
robodad


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I don't believe that, wawa
The BIG problem here is nothing!! They want only oral pleasure but don't seem interested in anything more.I guess my face is f***able but not the rest of my body.That's what I figure.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 3:03 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
definitelydi


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Was that a challenge?

BEcome someone NEW.
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 3:09 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
wawasweetie


Posts: 242
It's true,robodad!What else could it be?As a guy-please tell me what guys think!Please enlighten me!!!
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Sep 16, 2006 @ 3:14 PM Do I look like a sex toy?    
robodad


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It's true,robodad!What else could it be?As a guy-please tell me what guys think!Please enlighten me!!!
I don't know you, so I can't tell you why...do you nag? do you whine? do you complain all the time? are you asking them to tell you their thoughts all the time?
I think you should ask one of the guys you dated.
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